How do I get sex on first date? Were both guys and this is my first date and IDGAF about a relationship I just want to fuck him, but its a date and not a pure hookup, but is it safe to assume I can get a BJ? Any tips and advice?
>>8516180
A lot of guys just expect it anyway.
I always try not to cause then i just get used like a cum dumpster ;_;
I despise dates. I've also never had any kind of relationship develop from them. It's always just an awkward uncomfortable pain in the ass and I feel like I'm supposed to pretend to be a straight guy or something. Everything feels forced and unnatural and bullshit and stupid.
It's so much easier when you just fuck first and get all that nervous energy out of the way so you can relax and be yourself.
Hookup -> FWB -> BF just makes so much more sense to me.
>>8516206
Yeah, well i want a hookup, but I think I'm going on a date, but I'm scared to be more sexual with him in case I scare him away.
I'm not sure what it is that he thinks we're doing. I think he thinks its a date, so therefore I think its a date.