So I'm a 23 year old permaneet with a small chance at passing.

Post a pic and I'll rate the damage

>>8512676
Well before you do that you'll need a way to get your life on track and get some money cause usually when you come out as trans is when shit hits the fan.

>>8512676
How do you think your parents are likely to react?

I'm 18 and I've repressed for years, bet I look worse.
But if you're gonna kill yourself, may as well tell them first, don't be a pussy anon.

>>8512706
Sorry I'm never posting myself on 4chan. I don't think I'm completely fucked but I would probably nerd ffs at some point.

>>8512718
See at the moment I just don't care about my life anymore and I doubt I can get it back on track as is.

>>8512724
I know at least my mom wont flip out and I wont get kicked out either. Besides that I'm unsure exactly how they would react. My mom is usually accepting of just about anything and even has a gay friend at her work but then again telling her I'm trans is kinda different.

>>8512726
It's possible you look worse sometimes people get fucked over by T really badly in puberty. I don't think I'll kill myself soon but I'm sure it will end up happening before I turn 30.

>>8512757
>See at the moment I just don't care about my life anymore and I doubt I can get it back on track as is.
Well it might help if you know what the inevitable consequences of you doing it is. Like just start working somewhere and get prepared to tell them.
Being financially independent is pretty important because it gives you an advantage over them if things go wrong.

>>8512676
Could you go to a therapist yourself? you are adult and dont need parents consent.

Coming to parents might help if they are supportive, but you have to take your life in your hands eitherway.

>>8512762
Trying to get a job after being a neet for 6 years is kinda hard. Even entry level jobs. I kinda got to the point where I'm willing to just say fuck it. The worst that could happen is they hate me or don't accept me.

>>8512764
I'm a neet I have no money.

>>8512789
>Trying to get a job after being a neet for 6 years is kinda hard. Even entry level jobs. I kinda got to the point where I'm willing to just say fuck it. The worst that could happen is they hate me or don't accept me.
You just have to be honest with people when getting jobs. You might have to work a shitty job in retail, or get a job at a liquor store or somewhere with night shifts that most people wouldn't want.
It's not like you're going to be making bank but you need cash to self-med if it comes down to it. Because what if your parents simply stick you in therapy and you're stuck with gatekeeping doctors for like 2-3 years and no hormones?

if you self med you can get a years worth of all the hormones you need for about $400, you can tell your parents at your own pace or even end up finding out you don't want to transition
it couldn't be that hard for you to get a shitty job at a fast food place or local grocery store...that's not too much to ask to let the girl inside of you out is it?