If BDSM/DDLG/breathplay creates SUCH an intimate bond stronger than anything, then why the fuck are virtually none of them monogamous and instead are polyamorous swingers and why do the couples always break up over "communication issues"?
>>8511305
>an intimate bond stronger than anything
it doesn't, it's just hot
>polyamorous swingers
are you telling me that having multiple girlfriends you can beat up is a *bad* thing?
>>8511305
>creates SUCH an intimate bond stronger than anything
It doesn't, nothing creates a stronger or more intimate bond than mutual (meta)-attraction in a heterosexual relationship.
>>8511305
kink itself is fine and exists inside monogamous relationships.
I think the problem is with tumblr acceptancefags who read stuff about free love then realise that jealousy is a real human emotion and that its really hard to have a serious relationship with more than one person.
Some will later call friends with benefits relationships and such.
Its just extremely childish and naive.
>>8511305
Kink are a mental illness.
I got randomly choked by some weirdo at a b-day party years back.
Found out recently he died in a car crashed, so I guess I won.
TERFs hate dominance/submission dynamics because it undermines their narrative.
They can't really give any good argument toward consensual roleplay between two adults in a safe and sane setting, so they just use emotion/feelings over any form of logic when they critique what other people do in their spare time.
Feels > reals has become way too common by modern day culture warriors who want to fight for our le immortal souls like Pat Buchanan told them to. Both far left and far right on 4chan have succumbed to effectively becoming JW ministers preaching on to the anonymous sermon telling us we should all live by their standard based on false ideals of collectivism and "speaking for the collective".
The ivory tower of feels must fall for this society to progress.
>>8511666
It's the same reason TERFs hate trans people so much, especially when they experience mental changes from hormones. Totally undermines their whole worldview that gender is completely socially constructed