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Gay General. Webm edition.
Last: >>8475020.
Discord: https://discord.gg/UZpcDkR.
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>>8493301

Tfw cannot into webm on shitty iPhone
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yas gaga

honestly Joanne sucks but when you go out especially to clubs you have to suspend your tastes and just feel the vibes
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>>8493301
I look somewhat similar to the guy on the right, do other gay/bis like that?
>>8493337
Nice Jojo
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>>8493345
Bi here, I think he's hot. Cuter than the other guy t b h

But I mostly like girls so who knows, maybe I'm not like "true gay" or whatever as far as tastes go
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Is this the place to come to for femboys
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>>8493301
...sauce?
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I may be ugly but I'm not desperate. These desperate, clingy, often fat men are really starting to bother me.
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>lost over 60lbs
>~5lbs left before the fat layer is finally fucking gone
>down to only 1200 calories a day
>tfw I only have 50 cal left that I can have today and there is a 2lb bag of delicious mixed nuts in the kitchen

why the fuck are nuts so fucking high in calories? I couldn't have more than like 4 and would probably go over...
I'm just going to have some strawberries...
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>>8493481
is it because they are your future?
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>>8493345
do other gay/bis like that?
y-yeah
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>>8493408
no
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>>8493508
Nope. It is mostly because they seem oblivious to how they appear to others. I know I'm ugly,bald and hairy. I was a fat ass but lost over 50 pounds and plan on losing 10-15 more. I would rather accept death than be one of these jack wipes.
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>>8493500
Or you could have some nothing and like it.
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>>8493546
I'm having that after the strawberries
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>>8493345
I look like the man in the portrait behind him.
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>>8493551
>after the strawberries
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>>8493301
SAUCE
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>>8493442
>>8493578

Gay Hoopla - Clay Anker gets Fucked by Zane Penn
http://gayhoopla.com/video/clay-anker-gets-fucked-by-zane-penn/
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>>8493633
thanks pornanon
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>>8493573
?
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>>8493633
>>8493652
i think gayhoopla is the only site that does size difference porn that isn't also age difference
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>>8493345
yee
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Who wants to read yaoi with me?
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Either side of my self-service checkout were two really hot, 6'5, fit, muscle with a bit of fat, young, pink Brit biceps, really just one of the most hnnng lads I've ever seen. I've never seen porn with anyone that hot. AAHHHHHHHH
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>>8493337
I didn't like artpop or joanne
I think she may have lost it

>>8494036
And you didn't present to get spit roasted by them why?
I'm disappointed anon
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>it's YET ANOTHER "guy on tinder looks okayish then you browse more pictures and find out he's asian #512453 who took an overexposed picture with shades" episode
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>>8494036
Sounds like a hell. I turn into an autist around really hot guys. I always hope they think I'm just a sperg and not that I'm embarrassed and attracted to them, because that would only make everything worse.
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>>8493814
did i mention i hate women
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Why can't guys my age just not be fatter than me? I'm 155,5'8.
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>>8494473
fucking gooks when will they learn that they'll always stay gooks?
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>>8494817
I know right? Fucking disgusting
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Who here /slowlylosingthebattlewithdepression/?
A few years after I thought I had beaten it too, it crawls back and kicks my ass, like Germany after WWI
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>>8494896
You can't beat it, you just buy it a cage and occasionally feed it so it doesn't lash out barking.

>>8494375
>I think she may have lost it
The Cure is so good though but ever since FM she's been trying to do so many different styles she's bound to lose fans.
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>>8494896
tomorrow three years ago I tried killing myself.
I've been spending the weekend avoiding my friends trying to determine if I should try it again and whether or not it was a mistake stopping myself in the first place.
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>>8494971
>tomorrow three years ago I tried killing myself
then it's an excellent time for another try
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>>8494986
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>>8494986
seconding
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>>8493814
Me!
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>talking to closeted curious boy online for a while
>"I'm going to fuck gaychad from grindr/craigslist teehee!"
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who else /hates the word queer/ ?
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>>8495141
>caring at all

>>8495063
me desu
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>>8494896
teetering back and forth from day to day
I just really don't have much going on
>pic related for you
>>8494971
>and you

>>8494914
it's a nice song and I do like the odd song from the other two but I had higher hopes coming from fm and btw where I liked pretty much every song on both
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>>8495157

hey delta where do you live ? In the UK ? Got a job that pays the bills with your skills ?
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>>8494382
Forrest is one of my favorite guys in sc.
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Should I date an FTM because I don't think I can do better ?
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>>8495213
Let them know that, tell me how it goes.
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>>8495213
Dont sell yourself short.
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>>8495221
I don't see why that would be a problem. I'm an mtf and I'd date someone who can't get a real girl.
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>>8495260
*shrugs*
uglies stick together
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>>8495213
no. let me have them.. are they cute?

>tfw I think fucking a dude with a hairy vagina would be super hot but all the ones in my city are drug addicts or look like butch lesbians.
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>>8495222
>>8495221

nah I am pretty ugly and unlikable

most ftms are pretty decent looking its only the lack of dick that gets me. which can probably be tolerable if he uses a strap-on
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>>8494896
>2 years ago
>Depressed as fuck, no appetite or desire to do anything
>Literally watch TV all day and eat toasted bread sometimes
>lost 130 pounds
>Started hitting the gym and eating full meals, now I'm pretty big
>Fast forward to now, I'm more depressed than ever, literally all I do is lift+watch films and work all day
>"Anon you're so big look at you, why don't you have a gf"
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>>8495276
who is saying that to you and why don't they know you're a faggot, and why don't you have a bf?
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>>8494896
I keep thinking about walking off of this particular high place within walking distance of my home. The only thing stopping me is that I worry other depressed people I know would be one step closer to doing it too.
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>>8495276
a man isn't going to make you undepressed sweaty
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>>8495284
Co workers ask me that often, I don't think they know I'm gay, I don't talk about myself a lot.
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>>8495295
You're right, but it's a start
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>>8495315
The start is you working on your depression, the man comes later.
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>>8495308
so why don't you leave your house and go to a gay bar, or just go online and have gay guys hit on you or something? (safe) sex boosts confidence, its cheap but it works... and you could eventually meet a decent guy and be gym buddies and rub oil on each others bodies and gay stuff like that.
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>get aroused by the smell of male body odor
is this common?
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>>8495320

social interaction is an important part of working on depression
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>>8495326
no anon.. havn't you ever watched a porno? half the video is always of the guys running away to throw up from the stench of each other.
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>>8495328
Which is most adequately solved through general social interaction not social interaction to suck some dick.
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>>8495326
not very.
usually these guys also like to be pissed on and eat raunchy assholes so they probably don't value themselves.
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>>8495344
[citation needed]
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>>8495353
leave this thread now
you do not belong here
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>>8495326
Man musk is the best. Especially if they just came in from doing something physical and manly hhmrmrmrmrrr ffgmggugh
Unless you just mean being stinky and unclean, that's different
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>>8495355
I'll be your source, so cite me bitch.
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>>8495364
>some guy talking out of his ass on 4chan thinks that....

nah
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>>8495373
That isn't how you cite 4chan comments, there's a procedure set in place!
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>>8495388
the procedure is: "nah"
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>>8495393
well that's my 15 minutes of charity work done
c ya
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>>8495405
walking into a random conversation and handing someone a handful of shit you've pulled out of your ass is not charity work, anon.
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>>8495479
it is if you're a coprophile, anon
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>>8495326
>smell the really strong BO of a buff attractive guy walking past him at the gym
>boner
>smell the really strong BO of an out of shape nerdy guy walking past him by the subway
>gag in my mouth
For me personally I don't think it's really the smell just that it came from an attractive person
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>>8493345
bi reporting: yessssssss
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Is it true that 80% of /gaygen/ are disgusting whores who will turn HIV-positive by age 40?
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>>8495811

No you are thinking of black gays

This is a shithole for depressed losers who can't into a relationship
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>>8495820
>white people are immune to disease

ayylmao
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>>8495851
Can avoid a lot of it simply by not having sex with apes but y'know fetishes will be fetishes.
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>>8495862
It spread from bushmeat and normal hunting interactions and shit you idiot.
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>>8495708
they are different smells
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>>8495878
Aw sweetie! Look at your first attempt at revisionism.
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>>8495878
It was created in the laboratory by nazis to kill fags, druggies and negroids
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>>8495811
nah, youre talking about /mascgen/
here, we're just a faggier version of r9k
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>>8495897
lol

>>8495934
lol
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>>8493500
>goes through caloric deficit
>doesn't exercise
>expects to stay skinnier after done losing weight
You'll go right back to eating lots of calories and gain it all back again. Go lift and cardio, eating right alone cannot ensure keeping excess weight off. The more muscle you have the more calories you burn without even trying.
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>>8494485
Source?!
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>>8495209
yes
no
>skills

>>8496047
Please Like Me
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>>8495811
Your percentage is a bit high I would say probably 50/50
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need a comfy gay romance/comedy movie
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>>8496073
inception
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>>8496006
>>goes through caloric deficit
I'm 5'6" and currently ~137lbs(but can still pinch an inch).. it's not really that much of a deficit. When I go over 1300 I don't lose anything. I stayed 140 for an entire month because I was eating too much popcorn (and I wanted a break from counting calories).
>>doesn't exercise
Where did I say I didn't exercise?
>>expects to stay skinnier after done losing weight
I don't want to be "skinny", I just want to get all this fucking fat off my body once and for all... Im trying to be otter-mode here.
>You'll go right back to eating lots of calories and gain it all back again.
You clearly know me so well...
>Go lift and cardio, eating right alone cannot ensure keeping excess weight off. The more muscle you have the more calories you burn without even trying.
No shit? So you think my exercising and going for a walk every night might be the reason I'm dropping 2 lbs a week?
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>>8496073
Latter Days
Shelter (2007)
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>>8496106
Now that's what I call a flaming faggot
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>>8496123
k?
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>>8496073
Adam and Steve
or
A Four Letter Word
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>>8496112
grim movies
just want a dumb heteronormie-like summer flick where two apparently mismatched lads fall in love
like monster pies and the perfect wedding
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>>8493375
>>8495774
>biscum
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>8496137
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>>8496137
Everyone knows what makes great movie tales is conflict. Without conflict there is no story. Take a course in film theory pal.
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>>8496317
yes,
if there aren't car chases and things being blown up then there is no story.
take a course in film theory pal.
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>>8496352
Nice Red Herring there pal. You should probably take a course in logical reasoning as well. Car chases and explosions have nothing to do with what was said. Are you always retarded or just more retarded than normal today?
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>>8496375
you mean like implying that "mismatched" guys falling in love isn't "conflict"?

or how about the "logical reasoning" behind someone liking what they like and then you not getting so upset about it?
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>>8495326
>there are people like this who will never try nose to perineum (read sitting on face)
you get a high from the musk
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>>8495060
Sorry for the late response! What sort of yaoi are you looking for? I'll just recommend three series right now in any case.

>"Umibe no Étranger" and its sequel, "Harukaze no Étranger" by Kii Kanna
Three years ago, Hashimoto Shun, a gay novelist in the making, met Chibana Mio, a very quiet high school student, in Okinawa. Mio had lost both of his two parents and was often seen sitting on a bench until very late, watching the sea, near Shun's house. They slowly grew closer to one another, but Mio suddenly had to move away.

Three years later, Mio returns to Okinawa proclaiming his love for Shun.

This is my favorite yaoi series of all time. The art is gorgeous, the character designs are adorable, and unlike most other yaoi, the plot is not rushed, allowing the characters to develop.

>"Otouto no Otto" by Tagame Gengoroh
Ten years ago, Yaichi's twin brother, Ryouji, moved to Canada and married another man named Mike. A month ago, Ryouji died. Now, Mike has arrived in Japan to pay his respects to Yaichi and his daughter, Kana.

I'm recommending this in case you like bara more than twinks. In any case, this is an extremely cute and sweet story and makes me smile like an idiot.

>"Killing Stalking" by Koogi
Yoon Bum is a loner who stalks the popular and handsome Sangwoo. His obsession goes to the point of breaking into Sangwoo's apartment, but what he finds inside is nothing like the perfect image he had of him.

This is a suspense thriller with minor gore. The art is great and the plot makes you want to keep reading.

Hope you enjoy reading these! If you want any more recommendations, please do ask.
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>>8493301
Im gonna look in to Otouto no Otto. Thanks for the suggestions!
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>>8496885
>i replied to op instead.
Ill look into Otouto no Otto
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>>8493301

So I have this friend. We’ve hooked up a few times but it’s nothing serious. Our relationship is mostly sexual which is completely fine by me. Recently, however, he’s kinda been pushing me to be more submissive I suppose. I’m not against kinks per se (desu I’m perfectly happy to go along with this) but I don’t really know where to start. The whole S&M bs is a little alien to me. Anybody have any advice?
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>>8497050
>being submissive
>trying to control it

just let go, honey
he will make it happen
all you have to do is clean your ass
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>>8497139

Wouldn't really consider myself to be 'submissive', at least not typically. Part of me likes the idea but generally I top. Like I said, the whole S&M scene is new to me.
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>>8497230
You can be a submissive top. Dom/Sub != Top/Bot.
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>>8497240
>"bisexuals" actually believe this

there is nothing dominant about taking it in the ass
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>>8497251
Wrong on the assumption and wrong on the claim. I'm sorry my dear but you are up for elimination.
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>>8497240
>Dom/bottom
Explain.
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>>8497256
>being this ignorant of reality
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Here's another LGBT-centric discord if y'all are interested: https://discord.gg/aSzhepJ
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>>8497262
If you're shrill and demand to be fucked HARD then you're somehow in control.

It's what manlets and other failed men tell themselves to deal with the shame of being somebody's bitch.
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>>8497315
w-w-wait.. what's the difference between dom bottom, and power bottom?
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>>8497340
you forgot about bossy bottom
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>>8497315
>needing to see the men you fuck as failures in order to get off

Did you realize you were gay in prison, Tyrone?
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>>8497340
Power bottom was the OG dom bottom until people started using it liberally to mean any bottom who's enthusiastic.
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Depression is a hell of a drug
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>>8497495
well it is a chemical reaction so
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>>8497391
mfw my hand is a bossy bottom
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>>8497495
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>>8497506
Everytime I make a Grindr to get laid or a tinder to meet someone nice I just get really depressed.
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>>8497512
Oh my gosh becky I feel the exact same it's like every time i open my fridge and there's no chocolate cake there I'm like UGH depression here we come!
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>>8497517
Nah M8 I don't think it's some stupid shit like that. I found out last month my boyfriend was cheating on me. Maybe it's too early to try to get anything right now.
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>>8496112
shelter is top tier, is there anything as good as it?
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>>8497528
He fucked someone with a better personality who cares
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>>8497534
Nah he slept with tons of guys from grindr. Maybe I should just sit back and enjoy the fag disease
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>>8497512
What triggers the depression?
Looking at your self pics?
Or trying to describe yourself in a paragraph?
I always get depressed when I see there is nobody who even piques my curiosity within a 100 mile radius.
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>>8497553
Oh even better, he found a bunch of people with better bodies and personalities. Guess you were one of his low bars.
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I really want to try fucking someone without condom but my bf has IBD so he won't let me. Should I try to convince him to endure the pain for me to try once?
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>>8497559
Just cheat on him.
You know that's what you really want to do.
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>>8497559
He's not worth it. Find someone who doesn't have dead insides.
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>>8497562
I don't want AIDS from fucking a random guy without condom no, regardless of what you think.
>>8497568
;_;
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>>8497529
not unless you want to get into foreign films
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>>8497569
you don't get AIDS if you're the top.
and you vet your potential partners first, you don't just go stick your cock in the first hole you find.
you don't want genital warts.
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>>8497529
C a r o l
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>>8497569
You don't get AIDS unless you want to die soon and choose not to take any meds. You get HIV which is rarely ever a death sentence nowadays.
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>you don't get AIDS if you're the top.
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>>8497610
you talk like hiv is not a big deal just because it can be quarantined
kys
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>>8497612
This, you get HIV more frequently if you're a bottom and less frequently if you're a top, but you still get it.
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>>8497554
I don't know. Something about looking for love on the internet messes with me. I've got some stupid notion in my head that I'd meet someone like in movies or some dumbshit.
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>>8497620
It's literally not a big deal nowadays.

>>8497612
You don't, but most gays wind up taking/sucking dick anyways so~
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>>8497620
HIV is a big deal, but not as big as it use to be. Back in the day if you got HIV it was a death sentence, now you can live with it. Just be thankful there's something that can help if you do catch it. Jesus you people need to stop defensive reading.
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>>8497624
Why would anyone even want to meet you like they do in the movies?
Asking the important questions tbqhwyf
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>>8497634
Idk. Maybe I just get drunk and watch romcoms too much.
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>>8497626
>>8497630
faggots like you are why we can't have nice, hiv-free things
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>>8497647
Actually black men are but you can pretend I'm a black man if it makes you feel better.
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>>8497653
>tfw want to get fucked violently by a BBD but don't want hiv
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>>8497666
Find an FTM
Safest route, both in no aids, and they won't steal your shit.
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This is my BF, say something nice to him
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>>8497554
>What triggers the depression?
living
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>>8497675
He's mine you fucking bitch.

>>8497677
You know what to do, so do it.
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>>8497608
eww roasties
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>>8497674
are there black ftms outside of fairy tales?
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>>8497682
They're actually men virtually possessing women but ok
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>>8497674
>no dick

no thank you
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what's with pouty cocksucking lips and gays? why does most gays develop them?
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>>8497678
But I saw him first
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>>8497696
Anatomical determinism.
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>>8497693
>no dick
Bitch the assumption was that they have a surgical sausage.

>>8497696
Because they suck cock and they're attractive to men who want them to suck cock? It isn't fucking rocket science.

>>8497689
Rare but exist.
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>>8497707
Black lesbians are always so butch I assume they're FTM. Either they date white femmes or masc4masc or exists in the lesbian world
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>tfw hoarding black on white internal cumshot vids from the Raw strokes porn studio
send help
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>>8497737
>hoarding porn in 2017
should be in DSM
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>>8497653
>being american
lol
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>>8497811
I'm not which makes it all the better~
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>>8497830
so you're a non-American assuming others are American when addressing and speaking in the context of America when it comes to racial generalizations
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>>8497844
Actually no, feel free to read the discussion before jumping in.
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I've noticed all gay for pay actors look exactly the same. Typically truGays® are more varied in porn.
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>>8497847
>black men spread AIDS
>this is a statistic ripped from the USA
>oh but I'm not American haha
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gay for pay actors suck so much.
Pun may or may not be intended
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tfw your bf hates the word bussy so you say it all the time so you end up wrestling

>:3c
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>>8497844
In his defense this is an American based website.
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Gay man here.
Ive been posting in 4 chan since 2013 (/v/, /co/, /int/, /hm/) but this is my first post here (and almost the first time browsing this board)
-it is actually my second post, I posted this in another thread before seeing this general-

How should I feel if the classic psychological explanation of homosexuality applies 100% perfectly to me?

by that I mean, distant-hostile father whom I feared and saw one day every two weeks, being extremely close to a dominant overprotective mother, and being rejected by male friends in kindergarten and primary school for being a nerd bad at sports and physical games.

according to this, when becoming a teen, I wanted male affection instead of female affection, because I craved what I never had (for female affection I had and have my mother and sisters)

I ask because from what Ive been reading, gays, (gays into lgbt political stuff), dont like that explanation, finding it almost unacceptable, and prefer "born this way".
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>>8498077
Until he punches you. That will teach you to stop saying it.
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>>8498098

He would never

:3

>>8498095

People don't "like" it because it's empirically wrong
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>>8497529

Holding the Man. A lot better that Shelter.
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>>8498111
>he would never
Well he should that shit is fucking stupid and you should be ashamed of yourself for saying it like a bandwagon retard.
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>>8498134

>bandwagon retard

lmao careful don't cut yourself on that edge lad
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>>8498131
looks like trash from the trailer
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>>8498095
bravo, you're a living stereotype: embrace it & make fun of this situation.
Also, >>8498111 is right.
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>>8498095

If it applies for you cool. It's said that homosexuality comes from a combination of biological and enviriomental factors so it really could because of that. But at least for most of us that's not the case, for example, my mom died when I was little so I was raised basically only by men, so that explanation would make no sense to me at least.
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What's some good music to listen to while lying down in bed alone drunk? I need to expand my repetoire.

https://vimeo.com/35948531

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbXWrmQW-OE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ver0lMNMgw
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Turning 26 in a few months now, but just now starting to realize that I'm a huge faggot. Fucking scared of this stuff. How did you guys confront and come to terms with the realization? I live in the bible belt South and know NOTHING about gays/being gay.
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>Got tested 3 times
>still negative
>I worry at every cough or sore throat
Grindr was a mistake
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>>8498274
Try and a local GSA or group like that. Are you in the middle of bumfuck nowhere or near a city?
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>>8498274
I'm in the bible belt too. Which part are you in?
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>>8498274
Just do not tell anyone. If no one knows about this - it never happened.
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>>8498230
I'm hella gay and a club kid so I've just been listening to poppy stuff for summer vibes., even when I'm alone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIQM8uHxrBk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4psvbJL4Q0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3m-XH1Kij0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75whFUO3qyQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71zlOWbEoe8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaa76KVM-HA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SO-Vj7lN7tA
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>>8498518
I appreciate you
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>be me, tired
>get text from friend asking if I want to go to pride
>say no I'm tired but I owe him one so I give in
>picks me up two hrs later, we get there half past midnight
>people errywhere, fucking normie queers
>finally get to the bar, friend waits 15 min to order while bartender serves everybody but us
>tell him lets go somewhere else
>finally get drinks but its outside and it's like 90 degrees and we're bored af
>friend says his friend is at another club with some people and he wants to join them
>we squeeze by another 100 ppl and get more drinks then meet his friend's friends who are way younger than me.
>fucking shitty dance music is raping my earholes
>spend the next hour watching other people dance while drinking swaying my hips trying not to look as uncomfortable as I feel.
>consider ditching them for 5 min
>lights come on, bar is closed
>we spend the next hour in the parking lot trying to find another club to get into that doesn't charge cover
>a couple r_theDonald fags walk by with their Trump / Pence shirts, a few ppl lose their shit, they yell back MAGA!!
>I tell friend's friends to calm down, they're just there to troll
>tell my friend I'm hungry, he says he is too, we all agree to eat
>wait in line for a half-hour for overpriced burgers at 4am
>we finally leave, I get home past 5
meh could have been worse I guess

How was your pride week /gaygen/?
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>>8498578
I don't care about pride so I've been chilling with straight bros playin vidya.
I have no gaybros.
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>>8498274
>but just now starting to realize that I'm a huge faggot
This was pretty funny anon, comedy is a great pain reliever.
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>bros
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>>8498648
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>>8498766
>>8498772
this is why you're alone
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>>8498790
>playin vidya

kek
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>reply "hi" to new guy on Grindr
>he sends me 2 face pictures and 6 dick pictures
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what can I do to rebuild my image from the 'quiet autistic type' to the 'quiet artistic type'? both with presentation and hobbies? without becoming an insufferable hipster?
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>>8500230
ps i dont have any particular artistic talent i can think of
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>>8498805
>not playing vidya
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How do I make good friends, /gaygen/?
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>>8497517

will admit, i did laugh at this
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>>8497498
>Depression

>a chemical reaction

Do you really believe that bullshit, Anon?

That's just what they tell sad people to sell "antidepressants"...
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>>8500353
Is chemicals can't affect moods then how do you explain all the suicides on antidepressants?
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>>8500357
People feel sad and/or kill themselves because of circumstances in their life, not brain chemistry. "Antidepressants" change brain chemistry, and yes that can have an effect on behaviour (positive OR negative) but they do not actually stop people from feeling sad, which is why I always put the name in quotes.
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>>8498486
<3 unicorn kid
(still he stopped writing music 3 years ago)
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>>8497512
Let me guess, you're in a relationship and he doesn't know you download grindr and uninstall it frequently. Maybe that's why you're depressed because your conscience is telling you to stop cheating on him.
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>>8500357
Serotonin decreases inhibition. Anyone who rolls MDMA can attest. Sometimes the lethargy and somnolence associated with major depression is in fact a blessing in disguise, for if the person was more energized they'd surely attempt suicide.

SSRIs provide exactly that cognitive energy, even disregarding the cases of latent bipolar that get unveiled.
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>>8500230
>>8500239
You can't
You're stuck the way you are forever
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>>8500230
>have similar issue
>get more confident
>start becoming more outgoing and get to show my more fun personality
>oh that anon he's so sassy and flamboyant but you know he's gay so he's very typical
>go back to forcing myself to act like an antisocial nerd for another year before I stopped caring
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is it possible to have a gay fwb?
Im not a slut and cant stand random hookups but dont want a real relationship either
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>>8501291
Yeah, but he's probably going to secretely sleep around with other guys which is going to make him him value you less and a potential vector for diseases.
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>>8501291
>but dont want a real relationship either
Fuck off straightfag.
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I've been doing squats and stuff for several months now and my thighs have gotten pretty thicc but my ass is still awful
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>>8501467
squats aren't some golden exercise to build a huge ass
majority of the nice asses on the internet are implants/fat redistribution/roids/general fat
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are poppers available in UK sexshops?
is it really worth trying?
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>>8499954
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>>8501529
me on the right :^)
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>>8501467
same
for a while I even had hank hill ass, but then i started putting my legs farther apart and going on walks were I flexed my ass and thigh muscles while kinda stretching to give them a good workout, and they're at least looking normal now... just not great. I probably need to start doing more exercises like leg raises and shit.. butIdonwanna

>>8501496
t. bitter hank hill
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>>8501496
so there is really no helping me?
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>>8501547
I'll start doing that then
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>>8501552
I've listed multiple avenues you can take, two of them being procedures, one involving a different workout method, and one being supplement to exercises. Up to you.

>>8501547
Talking to yourself is never cute.
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>>8501519
do you enjoy anal sex/putting things in your butt already?

if you do, even a little, then no, don't try them.
they are terrible for your lungs and if you do more than just a few sniffs (which you are very likely to) they will make you feel like your lungs are full of garbage water for a day after, like you smoked a carton of cigarettes.
plus they make you insanely horny, literally. you lose all sense of self-control and you want to fuck anyone who will have you and if you have a dildo it will fill so fucking awesome up your butt that you will want to ram it in as hard as possible and if you start bleeding you will just use the blood for lube.
also, since it feels SOO GOOD to get fucked, it makes getting fucked without it seem boring.

if you are not using it for sex, then you are just fucking up your lungs to huff fumes and get dizzy and maybe enjoy a song a little more for like 3-5 minutes and it's 100% not worth it.


The only time it would be worth it is if you already have HIV and are planning on going to a bareback orgy and you don't want to be nervous.
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>>8501578
Or if you're a porn star in which case they'll have plenty on set anyways.
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>>8501552
glute bridges, lunges
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>>8501578
what? poppers is fucking bullshit, I never felt anything like that, its a total joke with short-lasting effect compared to some good weed

>get dizzy for like 3-5 minutes
yeah more like this, its fun and makes you more loose but nothing mind-blowing and makes your head hurt rather than lungs
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>>8501644
>i had shitty weak poppers

lucky you i guess
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>>8501529
Reply to him doublenigger he seems qt
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>>8501578
>>8501644
mmm I bet the truth is somewhere between both your opinions.
I was planning to use it next time I visit London: what's the best drug to use while fucking? (I'm top)
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>>8501911
Speed
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>>8501911
none.
why do you want to use drugs, anon?
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>drugs with sex
A cigarette post-coitus.
A few drinks and maybe a spliff beforehand.
If I have a steady relationship for a long time I'd want to try acid sex for sure.
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>>8501929
>stoned sex
I either get paranoid or I can't focus.. either way the sex is bad.

>acid sex

that sounds godawful.
hallucinogens make me want to be alone and meditate on life and the nature of reality, I want to rise above the illusion of physical life and goofy shit like that. I think being that close and intimate with someone else would make me really uncomfortable.

of course I havn't done any drugs in years and I used to be fat and really insecure about everything... so maybe things would be different now that I don't hate myself.
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>>8501960
Weed helps me relax (if I'm with someone I trust) and if I bottom it's great. If I'm with someone I don't trust then why am I having sex? Or doing drugs?
> I think being that close and intimate with someone else would make me really uncomfortable
Oh that's right I'm in /gaygen/. It's all casual fucking here.
I'm happy you don't hate yourself and if avoiding drugs helps that then keep avoiding drugs.
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>>8501923
idk, doing two fun activities at the same time sounds a like a good idea
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>>8493323
Just get Merlin
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>go on a date for the first time in a while
>he spends 20 minutes berating me for choosing the wrong 'favorite movie'
well here i go back into the cave
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Im so tired of being humiliated and treated as inferior. Ever since I was a kid, every friendship, social interaction or relashionship was affected in a negative way because Im a fucking faggot. Through the years Ive learned to act more masculine and repress signs of homossexuality but still, this fucked me up so bad to this day. Its not fair to not have a normal childhood. Its just not fair to have your mental health destroyed at such a young age.
Today I was in college and overheard a couple of neckbeards talking about killing gay people like if it was so cool and edgy. I mean, who do they fucking think they even are? The amount of hatred Ive gradually grown against faghags, fuckboys and neckbeards is unmeasurable. Sometimes I cant even sleep from pure hatred and anger
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the so called bf
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>>8502008
wait... what happened exactly?
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>>8502074
calm down dear
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>>8502074
Become a supervillain.
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>>8502094
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS
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>>8501973
I was talking about being that close and intimate WHILE ON A HALLUCINOGEN, not in general while sober. There is actually a pretty big difference there and I can't believe you would be ignorant of that.
I guess taking what I said out of context so you could talk a little shit must make you feel better about yourself for being superior to all us dumb fags on 4chan though, so "I'm happy you don't hate yourself" either, anon.

>>8502008
What movie?
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>>8502008
In fairness, most everyone is a prick. It can't be helped.
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>>8502108
I meant I'd like to be intimate with a person for a long time before being intimate with hallucinogens. It was a short post and I don't like to ramble. Thanks for talking shit back.

>>8502145
I found your date, cave-dweller.
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>>8502166
We live in different caves. It would never work out.
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>>8502145
People have control over themselves and can not act like pricks, and they can also not go on dates with pricks.. so I think it can be helped very easily.
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>>8502183
People aren't going to stop being petty and self-serving just becasuse they have the option to.

From the guy who berated's perspective he probably thought he did nothing wrong. Because no one believes they ever do anything wrong fundamentally.
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>>8502083
>whats your favorite movie
>i dont get to watch many movies but i really liked deadpool
>rant started
I mean it was pretty impressive how many topics he touched upon and how many assumptions were made about me in that time frame but damn I just thought the movie was cool

>>8502210
It came across as unnecessarily aggressive but I could definitely sense the fact that he's just really passionate about cinema and was trying to educate me in one way or another.
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>>8502145
I'm too beta and cuckoldy to be a prick
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>>8502228
Seems more like he was just clueless when it came to social civility. Saying he was 'passionate' seems apologetic to antisocial behaviour.

>>8502238
I believe in you, my dude. I bet you could be the biggest prick ever if you just tried. Reach for the stars.
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>>8502074
>Through the years Ive learned to act more masculine and repress signs of homossexuality
So are you actually masc? Or are you a flamer deep down?
What's stopping you from being open about your sexuality in a modern college? People generally tend to be accepting of gays there wether your masc or fem.
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>>8502228
>passionate
No, he's an opinionated asshole is what he is.
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>>8502078
>skinny handsome face
>chubby belly
I'd take him down so fast. pls share
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>>8502078
Liar
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>>8502078
Poor southerner getting beargnant. Should have used protection
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>>8502322
>beargnant
pls no not again
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>>8502349
it's a beautiful natural part of gay life. Only bears can get beargnant though
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>>8502357
Cubs can too but it's illegal in 14 states and 1 other continent
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>>8502279
>implying passionate and opinionated are mutually exclusive

kek
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Post thicc guys to save the general
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>>8502391
no
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>>8502391
I can't self-post.
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>>8502372
When people hear passionate they think of a humble person. Partly because passionate also means lovingly. This is how I meant it. Sorry you live under a rock.
Opinionated is when you're passionate about something but obnoxiously push it onto someone in an assertive manner.
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>>8500320
talk to people
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>>8502228
>rants after you say you like Deadpool
Did you meet him on /tv/ by chance?
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>>8502504
He didn't say "it's another episode of 'guy likes deadpool' again" so no not this time!
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>>8493337
I haven't heard the whole album yet but as a non-fan I loved every song I've heard so far (million reasons, perfect illusion, the cure and a-yo)
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>>8502583
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Wi7dBhcxmc
John Wayne is also great.
The Cure wasn't actually on the album, it was just released randomly for coachella.
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>>8502391
Babydaddy is my angel and I want to become his vessel
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>>8502460
I always trip over myself when I try to talk about my hobbies or interests and initiating conversation feels unnatural. Would it work to wear a shirt that says "PLEASE TALK TO ME" in white bold-print text?
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i wish i had a big guy to cuddle with
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>>8502849
Me too
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>>8502078
If we're playing pretend bfs then Chris Pratt is my bf
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>>8502630
a "PLEASE FUCK ME" shirt would be more efficient i m h o
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What's your voice sound like, gayfags?

http://vocaroo.com/i/s0MCzKiccWYH
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>he doesn't play games
>he doesn't read
>he only watches movies
uhm
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>>8503166
What does he do? Twiddle his thumbs and knit? Unless he's an out doorsey kinda guy then that makes sense.
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>>8503177
wrong pic
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>>8503177
Just watches movies apparently. Not a 'live with the nature' type.
Although finding someone who is that type and isn't a luddite-lite is a task on its own
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>>8503193
Leave Luddites alone. Those wide frame knitting machines are taking our jobs.
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>>8503193
Live with nature types are the best though. You know for a fact that if shit went south they will survive. Survivalists are so sexy.
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>>8503216
There will be wide frame knitting machines on every corner!
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>>8503233
You shut your whore mouth. First we smash the frames, then we smash you.

Down with the Imperial oppressors.
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>>8503232
Of course, I'm attracted to them primarily for that but once you wade through the guys who "love adventure" (see: walking through a path and calling it hiking), finding those who also embrace technology (without going the complete other hipster direction and trying to live exclusively off a teched out shipment container) is quite rare.
Asking for too much always gets me in trouble.

>>8503254
I'll give you one shilling if you allow a frame on your property.
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>>8503269
Check out Napoleon over here. Thinks he can bribe me with a shilling.
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>>8503294
Didn't reject the offer so the frame is being assembled as we speak.
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>>8503269
Well there is a difference between a taciturn strong nature respecting individual who uses technology to better their lives, but not to disrupt nature in their path; to that of a hipster who pretends to be outdoorsey but can't even lift more than 20 lbs. while claiming to be masculine to gain macho points when in fact they haven't gone camping in their entire life.
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how to overcome hetero normativity and go from wanting dick to wanting to make out with guys and finding them facially attractive? I'm fairly sure im gay but ive been repressed for so long, even though ive had sex with a guy and all that, I just find it hard. I want to love a big strong guy but then its like, can i see myself making out with one?
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>>8502596
Wasn't John Wayne a racist and a homophobe?
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>>8503473
Yep, seems like there's way more of the latter going around though.
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>>8503487
be in lesser inhibited state of mind (= get drunk or get high) + find someone you like or are comfortable with + spend time with him + cuddle ?
or
just close your eyes & open your mouth.
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>>8503512
depressing isn't it
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>>8502630
Just be open. Make comments or ask questions about his interests. If he says he likes cars, ask him what kind of car he has, what his favorite is, what got him interested in them, etc. And your replies should also reflect your own opinion on the subject matter. Don't make it feel like you're giving him a questionnaire though. If you do none of this stuff you run into that moment of awkward silence and looking around the room.
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>>8503614
That's how my dad acts in conversations. All he does is ask questions it's quite annoying desu.
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>>8503708
When that happens it's a huge red flag sign that the conversation is one sided AF and should change ASAP (either by ending, or by the other person picking up the slack).
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>>8503708
I'm not really into things being quite that rough but I can't wait to be the qt vr grill either.
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>>8503757
i think there's a meme image of an obese dude wearing a VR headset RPing as an anime girl getting gangbanged
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One day we'll have robots to suck our dicks and there won't be any need to go outside. Eden.
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>>8503800
I would still go outside to get fucked by Robo while sucking husbando's dick while he gets rimmed by Robo 2
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>>8503810
Well there's no helping some people I guess.
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>>8503824
Experience euphoria.
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>>8503829
I'm all for half-robotic foursomes, but you lost me on the going outside.

Besides which, I don't think you've had any half-robotic foursomes to enlighten with, you charlatan.
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>>8503844
The outside is for additional sensation, quite simply new scenery + addition of other fetishes = new fun. They're already programmed to accept such alternate paths, staying in the same box and getting blown after a while gets boring so the bots will alternate.

You don't know my experiences dark one.
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>>8503860
Nothing wrong with being boring. Sitting around doing nothing is the best time anyone can have.

>dark one
Just because I haven't seen the sun in ten years doesn't mean I'm a vampire.

That'd be cool though. I could just do the same boring stuff for thousands of years.
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>>8503893
Nothing wrong with being boring but the option is there if one seeks to pursue it.
Also was using dark one as in the opposite of enlightened quite literally in the dark. Vampires work too though, boring ones especially.
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>>8503916
Nah. Vampires don't need to work, they're already rich. Don't see Dracula working at Burger King.

That'd be a good short story though.
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>>8503931
Dad, fuck off.
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>>8503939
You know you love it.

Just like you love updog.
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New thread >>8504016
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>>8503948
This much is true. I only love updog because I know what's updog.
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>be horny and in the mood to sit on a wiener
>get on hookup app with my "bottom" profile
>a decent looking guy messages me
>acts like he wants to hook up but also acts like he's bored and doesn't even want to do anything
>keep asking him what he wants and trying to prompt him to take some kind of control
>he just says shit like "we can do whatever you want i don't care" and "lets jerk off watching porn or we can fuck if you want to"
oh yeah, buddy. sure. that's a real turn on.
why do "vers-bottoms" even bother with the "vers" part if they can't even pretend to act like men?
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Why are guys similar to someone else (regardless of you know/knew them or not) so hot? If I see someone else in a new guy I'm instantly hooked
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I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


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