how do most of you anal masturbate without the mess
and the need to go to the bathroom and do enema which I hate to go through to masturbate or have sex
>>8489035
It's not really easy, but you'll be relatively clean if you've gone to the bathroom that day. I have a small butt-plug like thingie that I can use to quickly clean up and that does a good enough job (if I didn't feel clean enough to begin with).
But anal in the end can be a chore, it's not as easy and simple as regular masturbation, so approach it like that.
>>8489035
just do it and take a shower in the evening
if you eat enough fiber its usually easy and quick to clean but if you been eating junkfood and drinking beer the day before - you might forget it
>>8489035
Just don't eat all day. I rarely have issues if I starve myself.
>>8489035
take a shit before hand.
wash your ass with soap.
Clean the toy before and after (sterilise in boiling water)
thats it.