I'm a bi cis male in my late twenties. Due to anxiety and shit confidence I have pretty much zero dating experience, and I've had sex twice. I've only been in one relationship, which ended fairly recently when my bf dumped me. It wasn't a long relationship, but it was very nice while it lasted.
My local town is tiny and has no gay people that I am aware of, so if I were to start looking for a new partner IRL it would have to be a girl. I find girls very sexually attractive, but hardly ever meet any that I feel personally compatible with and whose company I enjoy enough that I could see myself living with them. It's way more common for me to feel that way about guys, and all of my closest friends are male.
So basically I want to use the internuts to get in touch with potential partners. I am only sexually attracted to people who look and behave somewhat feminine, but that doesn't mean they have to look like an actual girl or be an 11/10 femboi. I look average and have a receding hairline. I have no delusions about primetime twinks or college-aged Stacies with dicks throwing themselves at me.
Where do I start looking, other than 4chan? I know about dating apps like Tinder and Grindr (though I've never used any of them), but I feel like those are more for hookups and casual sex, and also geared towards sexually experienced people on the higher end of the looks scale. Furthermore, I think a setting with a heavy focus on sex from the get-go would feel a bit weird to me. I want to start with just getting to know people and then see if things progress to friendship and finally an actual relationship. Maybe I'm weird that way, or just old.
>>8478572
Honestly, 4chan is as good a place as any. I met my boyfriend here.
Otherwise, go to a gay bar?
OP you sound very sweet and I'd love to hang out with you. Where are you from? desu I'm in the same boat. I want to meet a guy who wants to take things slow with me cuz I've never been with a guy before. I'm too shy for casual sex and I don't drink/go to bars at all.
>>8478883
>I've never been with a guy before
Come into my parlor said the spider to the fly
>>8478699
4chan seems like an okay option, but I was wondering about alternative websites or apps that are more suited for the specific kind of dating I have in mind. As for gay bars, well, my town has ONE bar, and it's definitely not gay.
>>8478883
I'm from Norway. Distance isn't really an issue to me, I've come to terms with the fact that I'm not likely to find a good match anywhere near where I currently live. My bf was from another European country and I was prepared to relocate so we could actually live together full-time.
If you have a throwaway e-mail I'll tell you a little more about myself, and then we can switch to some chat app if you want to keep talking.
>>8479204
not the guy you're answering but I'm 21 and from Germany. Wanna chat sometimes?
>>8479204
I don't know any norwegians. Want to chat and see if we get along as friends?
I have a bf already, though, and he doesn't want to share.
>>8478572
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Have you ever masturbated to yourself as a female?
>>8479737
kys
>>8479737
What makes OP agp?
>>8478883
>>8479400
OP here, send me an e-mail if you want some more info and Kik: [email protected].
>>8479701
A potential friend is fine too, e-mail above.
I might not be super responsive today due to work stuff, but I will get back to you all if you get in touch.
On a sidenote, I didn't really mean to turn this into a hookup thread since I don't know if that's even considered kosher on this board. /soc/ feels a bit overwhelming, with pic related and an "ey bb u wan som fuk" vibe that spooks me a little. I wonder if there are any websites or dating services with more of a low-key approach to meeting people, as opposed to starting off with closeups of genitalia.
>>8481489
E-mailed you.
Fuck /soc/. We used to have skype/discord threads on here, but some fucker started reporting them so they'd get moved to /soc/ and everyone would be spammed by creepy 'I only like girls and traps' autists.
I just want cute people to talk to, dammit.
>>8478572
if you want online friends come on in https://discordapp.com/invite/asvT7vC
we welcome everyone from the LGBTQ community as long as they hate the jews and muslims.