Bicurious Wife?

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Like every healthy relationship you should talk to her - that you saw it by accident and that you accept her desires, and if she accepts it, you will seek these with her. Leaving this hidden will either make thigns 'worse' or nothing will happen.

>>8457597
I tried bringing it up once and she got very defensive about it. Then she attacked my libido and kept on about how she wished we would be intimate more. I will admit that my libido is pretty low considering I'm in my 20s and I didn't try to argue that.

I really do want to explore this with her. I mentioned threesome as a joke because no way that will happen.

How do I bring it up tactfully without her attacking my libido?

I think every straight guy wishes he had your "problem" anon

>>8457789
Then they should date PsBis.

>>8457660
If your libido is low then you should figure out the reasons why. It could be too much work, problems with the relationship, or even a physiological condition. In any case, there things you can do to fix it.

>>8457789
See that's the thing, I don't really consider it a problem. I want her to be comfortable in herself and her fantasies/kinks.

She is extremely conservative and a hardcore Catholic. I think she is battling herself.

I will say that these last few weeks I have been crazy horny for her after having these "peeks" into her mind.

Again, how can I bring it up to her without her immediately dismissing it?

>>8457902
I couldn't agree more. For the last few years I was in a high stress job. That and I take meds for depression. Now I am in a much more relaxed environment (with more pay!) and feel my libido coming back.

Maybe I should just leave it alone now that I've got my fire back?

>>8457577
Just talk to her and see what she wants to do.

I advise against threesomes, you may agree or not but it does help destroying your relationship.
It's great for starting resentments between partners, me and my ex broke because of related issues, it started with "you're not giving me enough attention anymore" and evolved in worse stuff.

If you need to keep the flame alive try it in another way.

Sorry if I sound weird btw I'm in my nephews house party and I'm the only grumpy old lesbian in it so I'm getting drunk.

>>8457911
Have you guys ever doe something like read an erotic story together? A lot of the hetero stories have a lesbian component and that might be an easy way to see her reaction and get a discussion started.

>>8458068
Haven't tried that. I suggested renting a dirty movie that might focus on large breasts but she shot that down super quick. Maybe I'll suggest a book instead!