Where do I meet relatively normal trans people irl? I went to

>>8414397
It's not even completely about passing either. I could be friends with an unpassing trans girl that at least put effort into herself, but most don't even do that. I just can't seem to meet any trans people that act remotely like normal human beings.

>>8414405
Let that redpill you just gave yourself sink in.

>>8414410
It's not like I've met every trans person in the world. Just because every one of them I've seen at support groups and the such aren't normal doesn't mean that normal trans people don't exist.

>>8414397
I always hated support groups. Normal trans people usually blend into the background and don't get involved with trans stuff.

>>8414423
have to find them online then meetup irl somehow
they probably are going to be very far away from you though

>>8414442
Yeah I went to support groups back home and it was cringe people central. Then I moved and went psudeo stealth. Now I don't dare go back to a group because I am worried I will end up friends with some cringe bag and be too nice to be mean/break it off.

>>8414397

I looked into going to a trans support group once. It was a larger one as I live in a major city. I checked out the photos on their facebook from past meetings/events and they all seemed to be women who transitioned later in life. Im in my mid twenties. That makes me uncomfortable. Just like it would for a young cis women being the only young person in a group of older cis women.

>>8414468
I think the later transitioning can be a bigger issue than the age itself. Someone who transitioned at age 20 and is now 40 has little in common with someone transitioning at age 40. The woman who's lived half her life since transitioning is probably not going to hang around trans events.

>>8414397
We don't exist anon, thats the big joke of it. I started at 16 and I'm 25 now. I'm not trans in any way except for the pills I take in the morning.

If you pass you disappear into the crowd and just live life. If you don't you become socially trans, an "activist" etc

>>8414397

I'm with ya, while I'm not girlmode *yet*...

I'd personally never go to a support group, just going to PAX was hard enough, Hons aplenty.
I'd love to hang out and swap makeup and tips and go clothing shopping with a fellow tranny. I've only ever met two in my life however, both ftm, one genuine, and one attention seeking faggot.

I want a trans bff tbqh

>>8414397
>went to a support group

There's your problem. Support groups are just that: about getting support. You'll find three kinds of people there:
- Folks just starting out, who will either be scared away or progress to one of the other two.
- Folks who feel they need to pay it forward to the next batch of Type 1.
- The dregs of transdom that will never get to the point where they don't need constant support. These folks tend to make things tough for type 1 and often try to take things over from type 2.