romantic relationships with lgbt as a straight guy

>>8405883
Mmmm sounds like a friendship to me.

>>8405883
If you are in a relationship with an MtF trans as a straight guy, you are still straight.

>>8405891
but i treat those things as meaning a lot, definitely not a friendship if I do those things.
>>8405895
This is why I mentioned being an asshole. *most* straight guys don't consider mtf trannies to be girls, physically. It's too hard to mindfuck yourself into that as a straight guy. I am trying to say this in a way that isn't being an asshole, but I don't think that's possible. Some of them ACT like girls, and that helps quite a lot. The personality is extremely important. If you act like a guy, it feels like I'm just talking to a guy. If you act like a girl, I will easily forget that you're mtf. Straight guys, we can sense guy vs. girl personalities and mannerisms, guys talk to guys in a certain way that is not like when we're hanging out specifically with a girl and you have that guy&girl dynamic. I don't know how to explain it. If you're mtf and you don't act like a girl, cutesy, you know, like a straight girl acts with a straight guy, I will literally never forget that you're mtf.

I don't know if it's like banworthy to talk about shit like that but it's the truth at least with with all of my straight guy friends and I. I don't want to come off as an asshole. If you're a girl, act like one or you'll be banished to "that's a tranny"-land, that's all. Some do and some don't. tfw i'll regret typing all of this.

>>8405921
>I don't know if it's like banworthy

You will pretty much only get banned for posting nudes here.

But yeah, I see what you're saying, I'm just saying that you don't need to make excuses or caveats for yourself like "romantic-only" if you're really interested in a trans girl, it just makes things needlessly complicated for you.

>>8405883
I'd say go for it, but ask if it's okay for them to not be sexual.
And who knows? You might not wanna do anything sexual to them now but after lying in bed, cuddling & kissing, you might actually fancy the idea of sex, or at least helping each other out.

>>8405883
It's only gay if you want it to be.

And more to the point, its fine to peruse a non-sexual, but romantic relationship, so long as your partner understands that it's not sexual. Keep in mind however, that this could easily be a deal breaker for some people.

>>8405883
bromance 4ever

"Straight" guys

honestly I ought to just play the long con and start trying to convert straights like the rest of the fag population, half the time y'all sound gayer than the garden fag anyway.

>>8405883
Friendships between men are so different from friendships between women. In a f/f friendship, hugging and cuddling are 100% normal. Honestly you just sound like a straight guy with an affectionate streak.

You could be bi-romantic your sexuality and romantic identity doesn't always have to match :)