How many of you trannies didn't have a father figure growing up?

>>8395003
I had a dad and no mom, or real mom anyway. I had a stepmom.

mtf btw

Lol my dad told me I could be anything I wanted

>>8395003
I had a father figure that worked nights to stay home with me and I still ended up mtf

>>8395003
honestly i was kinda vocally trans until my parents divorced (~age 15) then bc i blamed myself i started repressing when i moved in with my mother

>>8395015
>>8395026
>>8395028

HOW the FUCK did your fathers not take issue with your condition?
I want to hear every slimy detail.

>>8395003
Disproportionately yes, though there are exceptions.

My theory:

Lack of father, boy: mtf
Lack of mother, boy: gay

Lack of father, girl: lesbian
Lack of mother, girl: ftm

>>8395052
I always wonder if the absence of a gendered role model leaves the weak of mind to seek out incorrect identities.

>>8395052
this is totally wrong though.

>>8395046
Never talked about it or came out to him. Left his house when I was 18 never talked to him again. I suspect that he knew but it's whatever.

>>8395003

I had a father. I think I would have done better without him.

had both parents, both immigrants from different countries, both physically abusive, stopped around 13 years old.

mom died before I came out and dad consider me dead since I came out. sucks, because a family is the one thing I wish I had more than a womb and an X chromosome.

>>8395003
i didnt have a father only a dad

My dad used to beat me as a kid and call me faggot because at 6 I was too feminine.

That lasted until their divorce where he would occasionally reappear and ruin my mom with promises he'd stop doing meth, drinking bottle after bottle of vodka and cheating on her.

He then married his long time nasty crazy mistress and has again reappeared to "borrow money" every other year.

One of the last times he got drunk and complained to my mom about me he told her he thought I turned out tranny because he likes to jack it to shemale porn.

Father's are overrated.

I came from a nuclear military family. My parents are still together. I'm mtf.

>>8395003
Who is this? Is she trans? Anyone know when she transitioned if so?

>>8395003
My father was present... Physically anyway

But he was very stoic and disengaged and detached.

I would not be suprsed if from the age I was 10 up until now I've said under 100 words to him
We were more like roomates than anything.

>>8395052
lacked of father girl bi here.

>>8395244
Actually they were a crossdresser. They were like 20 I think no hormones.

>>8395052
This is not only reductive, but also just straight incorect.

>>8395093
Ouch, dissed by a tranny.
Hurt.

>>8395159
Has he ever touched you inappropriately anon?

>>8395399

I wish :^)

Just with a belt and his fists.

>>8395159
Lmao

Ur dad is repressing with booze and meth

>>8395003
nah I have a pretty good relationship with my dad, even asked me if I wanted to be his business partner after I came out because he's the only one he knows he can trust and sees as competent

>>8395443

Maybe. My mom says he fucked a guy once to get him to help with some illegal shit. Idk the whole story because I'd vomit but maybe.

>>8395003
Both my parents were abusive, but my older brother was always there for me. So he's kind of like a father figure to me, even though he's only a year older. I'd say the next best thing would be my grandparents, but they weren't important in my life until I was in high school.

my dad transitioned into a hon while i was growing up and directed all their jealousy at me while i was growing up cause they didn't want me to transition early lmao

>>8395003
At most you could say I had a chauffeur; at worst, a reason I wanted to kill myself. My "father" basically never spent time with me after I was around 7. He basically became my ride to school, that's all. No interactions and eventually found his opinions stupid and irritated me. Even before that though, I was pretty feminine and would have probably ended up like this irregardless.

>>8395596
That's fucked really? If my kid was trans I would help them transition asap so they wouldn't have to live the life I did.

>>8395003
Not me.

I had two. My father was out of the country working numerous times.

I also had a big semi-feral dog watching over me. He was fearsome to others, but never needed to feel unease around him.

MtF here.

My parent divorced when I was around 5.
My dad was alcoholic and cheated a lot.
Went with mom, still had contact with dad and emotionally pretty close.
When I was old enough he even took me to the local stripclub+hotel with his friends. Although I usually just stayed at the bar and guarded the wallets when most of them went with hookers to the hotel rooms. Kinda decent father figure.

When I came out both parents didn't freak out. Mom suddenly became really nice to me. Dad said he's gonna pay for my SRS.

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Mtf, had both parents. Decently connected with my mom, but I was very distant with my dad. We almost never talked unless he was yelling. I was pretty afraid of him. Also he would tickle me untill i wet myself. Probably why I am attracted to older strong tall men and have a pee fetish to be honest

>>8395052
I had a father and had a mother that supported me when they can.
T. Transbian

>>8395003
My parents divorced when I was about 10, but I still saw both of them several days a week until I hit around 16 when my dad had to move far away for a job.

I've had trans feelings for as long as I can remember though, and my mom and dad are both supportive of me being trans.

>>8395613
>When I came out both parents didn't freak out. Mom suddenly became really nice to me. Dad said he's gonna pay for my SRS.
Lucky...

>>8395003
My father was usually gone on work trips. Even when he was home, we didn't speak much.

>>8395603
It def made me the fuck up I am today lmao. Had literally no support from either parent and was constantly depressed.

I didn't. It never bothered me either growing up, and now at least I don't have to be afraid of having a father to disappoint.

my dad hasn't been in my life from when I was 14 which was around the time I stopped repressing to myself because I didn't have to be afraid of him beating me anymore

I'm seeing him for the first time in a good few years next week, I've been fulltime for a little bit more than a year now and I wonder how he'll react. Like, he knows but it'll be the first time seeing him in person since I was 19 pre trans

Passing straight mtf here
>mom and dad both loving parents
>two older brothers
>dad liked to take me hunting declined every time weird enough dad's friend's daughter always wanted to go and even got her own gun to her mother disapproval.

>All is good up until 7 yo
>Show signs of GID
>Call Dad gay cause he said I was being stupid
>Roundhouse kicks me in the lower back
>Gets kicked out, criminal record
>Nan dies, Mum gets sectioned
>Moving around cousin's houses with brother
>Move back in with Mum a year later
>Dad starts stalking us
>Mum meets him, he comes over now and again
>ffw 12 years
>20 repressed mtf virgin who is still "in love" with a girl when he was like 14

Fucking kill me

I came out to them and my Dad also blames himself for being malnourished as a kid and having pink hair
Fucking idiot

>>8395052
>have both parents
>happy relationship
>good household

am mtf..

I got on great with my dad, hell my first words was dadda. He unfortunately is slightly racist and hates lgbt so that was pretty hard. He found out last year and has now disowned me.

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>>8395623
Please let me tickle you

>>8395875
She should have been the boy.

>>8395003
I had a dad, but he would just beat the shit out of me.

Still turned out trans.

>>8395003
No daddy till i was a teen

>>8396863
OMG, you want to be a girl so you can have a boyfriend to fill in as a father figure.

>>8395003
Got along fine with a caring and loving dad....
I broke contact with him when I came out as trans.

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>>8396866
No but my bf does make me call hin daddy

>>8396873
How are you sure you don't?

>>8396876
Im sure i don't have daddy issues

>>8396895
How can you be sure though?

>>8396924
Because dads suck. Moms are objectively better

>>8396940
How so?

Why is that so for parents but for partners you prefer a guy?

>>8395603
This. I'm gonna repress my whole life but if I ever have kids and any of them are trans I fucking swear, whatever it takes, I'll get them on mones as soon as I can.

>>8396539
This completely destroyed me and I'm not even that anon.

>>8395003
MtF here,

My dad died when I was eight so yeah other than my older brother, I guess I didn't really have a father figure growing up. I was into girly shit even before he died though so I'm not sure how much weight that had on my being a tranny.

>>8397615
How so anon?

>>8397640
Probably an FtM.

>you cannot like firearms as a girl, that just means you secretly want to the a boy! Yeah! This is how personality traits work now! Everything in your life is judged by what hobbies you have, not what you actually want to be, LOOOOOOOOOOL!

>>8397666
Nah, I'm an MtF. Repressing hard, obviously. I don't know, it just made me feel really bad.

>>8397741
What about it made you feel so bad?

>>8397826
I'm not sure. I think it's something I can't remember, at least conciously. Or maybe my empathy turned itself on momentarily.

My dad was away on contracts a lot, mother was a crazy workaholic though never a whore or substance abuser, just borderline, overworked and overstressed

My dad is 70 now and I dont know, maybe he suspects but I'd never come out for the sole reason of not wanting to drive a knife into his heart as he's very traditional.

>>8395052
bisexual genderqueer male here. Got both my dad and my mom involved in my life. Dad was a little dumb about me coming out but he's ultimately supportive of whatever I am as long as its not a scumbag

>>8395003
>be raised a boy my whole life
>come out and transition at 20
>parents divorced at 11
>father was not a major influence
>single mothers are definitely cancer on civilization
>mother is a Jesus cunt
>father became 110% supportive
>then he died in a motorcycle crash
>I kept all his phone messages on my phone so I can hear him call me his daughter and use my proper name
>cry every time
>stuck with religious mother
>why did he have to die?!
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Dads are the best, even when they sucked.

>>8395610
Sounds like a cool story.

>>8398630
Now that's fucking sad, I hope things get better for you anon.

>>8398630
I'm sorry that happened to you anon.

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>>8396520
ufortunately i am not ticklish anymore u-u
i used to be insanley ticklish though

>>8398698
Well, aside from not being much of a story, because that was during very early years.

It was a semi-rural area, so great terrain for animals, except cats because there were too many serious and too free dogs for them to be safe. But, again hard to dig back much, I can't even be sure exactly what he looked like, except being sort of a german sheppard.

But not long after, we moved far, very far..

>>8395596

It would have been nice if you transitioned early despite them, and then rubbed it in their bitter-ass hon face. A tranny repressing a tranny is a mortal sin. Especially when that second tranny is their own child and a prepubescent.

Did they know you were a tranny or were they just on the lookout for any signs that you might be one just in case?

>>8395613

That's an odd reaction from your father considering the man he seems to be. Is he rich?

>>8398630
>>single mothers are definitely cancer on civilization

Not all of them. Shit happens.

>>mother is a Jesus cunt

Found the problem!

>>8395003
Joke's on you, my dad was always around but we never got along well. He hit me infrequently and we never did "father son bonding" type stuff, we get on waaayyy better now that I'm a tranny, and he's probably the most accepting person in my life besides my boyfriend.

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>>8395003
My father was there but he grew up under both a Hitler and Stalin regime so he doesn't care for lgbt very much. He spoiled me as a kid but after I came out he wants little to do with me.

>>8405392
Who doesn't want a hot mtf daughter?

>>8395046
>WTF the actual data doesn't match my armchair hypothesis!

>>8405392
You'd be surprised by how often it's not the dad that has an issue with stuff.
Sure there's all the homophobia and hypermasculine competitiveness to reject femininity and prove how manly you are that's rampant amoung men but a really good father just loves their kids and wants the best for them. Even if they don't understand it they support their child.


Of course similar things could be said about really good mothers but I've seen a lot of stories on here about how the mom was surprisingly the problem point.

>>8408258
I want one.

Mom and dad separated when I was 4, and I was with my mom the majority of the time, my dad had two more kids so I was definitely raised more by my mom, also all my friends when I was little we're girls which I think might have been more of it

>>8408187
>He hit me infrequently and we never did "father son bonding" type stuff, we get on waaayyy better now that I'm a tranny
How did being a tranny improve things?

>>8395003
what you'll find is that in modern households, mothers tend to take more issue with transitioning than fathers. My dad knew I was probably either gay or trans since I was little, and hinted at it for a long time, while my mom had no fucking idea.

Ultimately, I had to run away from home to get away from my mom because of how abusive and invasive she was getting. I miss my dad though.

My mom and dad divorced when I was 11 but both were in my life very often saw my dad 2-4 times a month. My mom was less supportive than my dad about transitioning which surprised me, I was forcibly outed by insurance statements, and he was fine with it

Surprised because he talked kind of homophobic or racist sometimes growing up