>be a bottom
>love it
>when having sex, touch myself on a regular basis to get more pleasure
>watch porn, most bottoms don't masturbate while getting fuck
>top bf likes to fuck me in positions where I incidentally can't touch my dick
>if I don't touch myself regularly while bottoming I don't get a lot of pleasure
>lose my boner after 5mn
So basically I'm trying to get better at bottoming. How do you guys get pleasure from butt sex only without touching yourselves?
If you like to touch yourself, then touch yourself.
This doesn't sound like 'improving', it sounds 'bottoms don't deserve pleasure apparently so how do I fit in better'. Fuck that noise.
Talk about it with your boyfriend.
>>8377106
My (ex) boyfriend who still fucks me has a really girthy dick so it takes like 15 mins for my hole to get warmed up to his dick. I whimper like a bitch when we first start and it's honestly annoying and so painful by the time he starts really pounding me I've lost the mood so I can't jack off. And then I can't wait for it to be over. It sucks.
When I bottom I get pleasure from having a penis in my butt???
Why would you call yourself "a bottom" when you don't actually enjoy the act of bottoming?
Sex position labels aren't political affiliations or descriptions of your personality. They are supposed to let guys know what position you actually enjoy being in. If you don't enjoy being a bottom then you are not a bottom.
I'm verse and when I bottom I stay hard pretty much the whole time unless I'm in a position where I guess the blood flow is odd or something and I get a half-chub.. but I can't even touch my dick because even soft I'd immediately blow my load everywhere.
Maybe you should see a doctor or a therapist or something?
>>8377373
Anyone who calls themselves a bottom but doesn't enjoy bottoming has a problem they should seek professional help for.
You either have like an anal fissure or hemorrhoids that a doctor could help with,
or you have some weird psychological issue like a lack of self-confidence that makes you think you should be dominated even though you don't enjoy it.. or maybe your have ADHD and you're having trouble with focusing or some shit.. i dunno.. but no one on 4chan can help you with that shit.