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Lately I've been feeling more and more like I should be a woman but I don't know what to do. Nor do I have a friend group or a family who would be okay with me transitioning. I'm pretty conservative so is my girlfriend but I found out during bootcamp for the marines that I'm slightly bi, but I don't feel comfortable being a man. What is happening. Someone please help.
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You could make a cute girl, anon. See a therapist, tell them about this.
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>>8364129
Here's a better face shot of me.
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>>8364129
Are you hell bent on passing? Your forehead and your shoulders could be a problem. And your face probably but that could change a little once your on whoremoans.
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Do you jerk off to shemale porn OP?
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>>8364229
I don't really watch porn.
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>>8364129
>>8364210
You have a decent chance at passing. Go to a therapist friendo.
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>>8364255
But do girls with dicks turn you on?
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>>8364219
That's just way I stand when I take lame ass mirror pics
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>>8364263
That would make me a chaser? I'm not a chaser I've dated two trans girls and have plenty of trans friends.
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define slightly bi please
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>>8364275
Thats not what ive asked
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>>8364289
I like dick but not guys
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>>8364266
what?
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>>8364294
Yes I like girl cock
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>>8364299
I stand very awkwardly :(
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>>8364323
And that makes your shoulders bigger and your forehead huge?
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ye me too
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>>8364334
Oh my forehead is rediculous I was talking bout my shoulder posture
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>>8364296
>>8364305
Just live your life as a guy and fuck trannies\crossdressers . live vicariously through them
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>>8364359
>>8364323
Maybe you just have some body image problems, you look like a normal dude to me, nothing weird or disproportionate looking about you
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>>8364129

Genuine question: if you were treated the feminine female you wanted to be in all regards - be it sexually, socially, mentally, emotionally, and dressing like a stereotypical feminine Western women, would you still feel the need to want to have surgery and whatnot?
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Will someone talk to me and help me understand more before I go to a therapist.? Please.
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>>8364454
I would try and pursue srs. I just don't feel like a man.
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>>8365360
Well it sounds to me like you might be trans. If being cute and feminine is really what you want, then transitioning will make you a lot happier. You should talk to a professional about it. If you started soon I bet your transition would go pretty well.
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>>8364385
I have wide hips and a bubbly butt. It's weird.
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>>8365352
Explain your situation better
All you've said is that you feel like you should be a woman. So at this point you have a few choices:
1) Decide that you want to be a woman and transition - diy or informed consent. If you are not a man and are a woman then you become one physically. Makes sense?
2) You want to be a woman but at the same time you don't want to transition for whatever random and arbitrary reason. So you go to a therapist, you don't go there wearing women's clothes and makeup and you are gatekept for a few years. Until eventually you tick enough boxes in the therapist's mind and he/she suddenly decides you should be allowed to transition (at this point your body will be even more masculine and you will have less chances of passing)
3) You want to be a woman but you are too afraid so you repress your feelings. And then you either have a breakdown and transition eventually or successfully repress all your life and be slightly unhappy but still satisfied.
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>>8365352
In general girls want to be girls and boys want to be boys. If you are truly trans it would totally make sense that you want to be a girl and be cute and feminine cause that what girls are like and you are one. Transitioning isn't a guaranteed thing and takes work, but just like anything worth it in life you won't get what you want for free. If you want to look cuter and girly then hormones will do exactly that. Just know that it will take work to get where you want to be but imo it's totally worth it. Being cute and knowing that guys and girls flirt with me BECAUSE I'm cute and not because I look like a boy is seriously amazing. From what you've said I think you'd really like it too. But step 1 is to be comfortable with the fact that you want this cause it is a totally valid thing to want and anyone who says otherwise just doesn't understand.
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>>8364210
I think you'd have a chance, just practice makeup and grow your hair out for a bit. Try not too look like a Susan's hon. They're scary.
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>>8365397
Is there anyway I can talk to you more in private?
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>>8365452
sure
email?
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>>8364129
>>8364210
Lol. No trutrans would post pictures of themselves like this.
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>>8365401
I mean I'm like extremely red pilled but I hate being a man I've always felt girly and now that I'm getting older I feel it more and more :(
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>>8365455
[email protected].
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>>8365461
Not true

t. Passing transgirl who used to take awkward unphotogenic boy selfies
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>>8365487
Wanna be friends so I can understand myself better?
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>>8365471
mhhm well hey thats totally understandable. Do you think maybe your attraction to the redpill mentality came from a place of wanting to shun and repress your feminine side? From what I've seen of the redpill, living with that attitude will just make you miserable. There is seriously nothing wrong with wanting to be cute and feminine if it makes you happy and you really don't owe anyone an explanation except yourself.
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>>8364129
In general some of things they'll ask you to test your legitimacy would be like:

>was there an extended time during your childhood where you presented totally female?
>were you effeminate in a way that ostracized you as a child?
>did you ever willing participate in/have an interest in masculine activities such as sports, gaming, military, boot camp, sports camp ?
>have you ever had PIV sex?
>have you ever fantasized about sex?
>have you ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend?
>did you ever try to present yourself as male in a way that would attract a partner?
>etc.

And depending on your answers you may or may not be gatekept for several years based on those. So if you can pony up say, the $2-3k it takes to order your first round of blockers and HRT that might be the best route. But that also depends on how you answered the above questions.
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>>8365517
meant to reply to
>>8365352
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>>8365478
ok I sent you an email
feel free to talk about anything
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>>8365510
Yea. Is there anyway I can talk to you more in private?
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>>8365517
kys
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>>8365526
Yeah definitely. Do you have a kik?
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>>8365547
Yes. It's broham808

My username is trash I know.
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>>8365554
Haha don't worry about it. Just added you
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>>8364129
Sup OP, former Marine here with 9th Comm Bn. If you're still in the Marines then check out Sparta Trans, they'll be able to help you.
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>>8365583
Was discharged shortly after the crucible due to a head injury :(
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>>8365590
Shiiit that sucks. At least you're not living the bullshit lifestyle though
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>>8365531
?
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>>8365597
Amen. I still got my EGA and everything. A lot of marines consider me a marine. But I feel like I don't deserve it.
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>>8365517
At least you aren't telling people not to transition anymore
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>>8365672
Well I got my EGA, got through MCT, went to 29 palms for 6 months for my MOS school, then got to the fleet and tried to kms then 6 months later got discharged.
So I know what you mean. People say "Thank you for your service" and I look at them and think "I didn't do shit for this country".
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>>8365360

That's what I mean though. If you had someone who treated you like a woman, minus you having the physical changes, do you not think it could potentially be adequate? I'm not suggesting you don't, I'm just intrigued.
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>>8365770
Yea. I got fucked during pugil sticks of all things haha. Foam sticks ended my career
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>>8365770
That reply was meant for the person above you

And mother treated me like a girl and that's where how I feel comes into play think.
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>>8365517
hi carafag
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OP you need BBC in you
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>>8366053
Too big for me. I'll take an 8 inch cock though
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OP here. I came out to my parents tonight. Both reacted very well. So now I'm going to look into self med/informed consent and therapy
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>>8364129

Over 9 years hormones here, let me drop some redpills on you.

1) Endocrinologists and therapists and all that, all the IRL tranny stuff, it is all overwhelmingly just hon factories
2) Self med now, order blood tests online, should be under $100 for the transgender hormone panel from privatemdlabs, virtually guaranteed to have a location near you seeing as they have them in the middle of fucking nowhere.
3) You look like you've got some potential, don't waste time with going the official route. They don't even care about your physical side of transition anyway. They don't care about you passing, and they don't even realize passing is important, because almost all their patients are hons who are nonetheless full time. It doesn't even occur to them that passing will save your life.

Do not fall for the official route meme, if you really want to pass.
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>>8366453
Okay. Before you self med you have to let your T levels cool down after their spike during late puberty (or masculine activity like military) which usually takes like six months to a year.
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>>8366480
Troll post do not listen to this. Though I'm sure you know that, OP.
t. >>8366471
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>>8366480
lel how does it feel having a body so fucked up and masculinized that you have to try to wreck other peoples chances at happiness just because you are a fucking wreck yourself?

you have earned your hon status, all after the fact of you becoming one
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>>8366493
1. that's not true about me
2. i help everyone that deserves it
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>>8366496
>that's not true about me
okay then lol post a timestamped picture proving you are not a hon

fact: you can't, hon x-DDDDDD
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>>8366510
I can tell we'd be great friends
Wanna be friends desu
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>>8366496
It's kinda messed up to purposely mislead people about the effects of testosterone on one's body. Like, that's straight up false information there.
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>>8366591
This. It only goes to show just how fucked up some of the hopeless here are.

That is why I always tell new trannies to avoid this place and all other online tranny places. Predators such as this will try to fuck up others lives because their own lives are fucked up.
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>>8366608
Can we be friends please <3
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>>8365386
Yeah you have wide hips
But your face, isolated in the second pic, def looks like a cis white girl's
I would go for it if being a girl would make you happy since you wouldn't have an issue passing
(Do some voice training ofc)
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>>8366691
How 2 voice train. Can we talk on kik for some tips and advice?
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>>8364129
>I'm pretty conservative so is my girlfriend but...

Love seeing that ignorant, shitty worldview come crashing down on stupid people when they suddenly realize they're different.

Have fun suffering because you, your friends, and your family chose tradition and religious values over logic and reason, faggot.
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>>8364129
Go to a competent therapist who is LGBT friendly. Gender specialist isn't necessary but might help.
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>>8366750
trolling is an science
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>>8366750
We'll thankfully my parents don't hate me unlike yours. In fact both my mother and father are accepting of my decision.
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>>8364380
This is my life plan. Watch out androphile trannies/traps, there's a new hottie(chaser) in town. ;)
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>>8366905
You can smash my boipussy once I fully transition
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>>8366811
My parents don't hate me - I'm just a fag, not a tranny. They wouldn't even hate me if I were a tranny. You already said, however,

>Nor do I have a friend group or a family who would be okay with me transitioning.

That doesn't sound like "accepting" to me.

>>8366786
It's more of a art, you moron.
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>>8366926
We'll I came out to some of my friends and family and they're okay with it.
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Hey it's OP do any of you live in WA? I'm tryna make better friends in and around the oly area.
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>>8366053
Fuck off shill no one actually likes bbc
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>>8366750
Don't go on thinking that all right wingers are dummies we all aren't.
T. Libertarian Capitalist
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>>8367224
OP here. Im a libertarian nationalist
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>>8364129
If you only started having these feelings you most likely aren't trans. You'd have these feelings since puberty if not earlier.
You probably use the trans thing as an escape mechanism. See a real therapist and work through it
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>>8367397
OP here, I've been feeling like this since I was 9 years old.
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>>8364129
>>8364210
the most important thing is that you have a small, tapered jaw, that alone is gonna be enough to stop you being absolutely horrifying if you transition unless your body skeleton is ultra huge
your face looks like you have decent chances if you do transition, start growing your hair out now and get on testosterone blockers from qhi.co.uk or you'll regret not starting it sooner, choose bicalutamide (50mg a day) which preserves fertility in most cases and you won't make any sacrifice by preventing further masculinisation while you're still figuring things out
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>>8368053
God, they must be expensive. But yea I was planning on that and then as soon as I have the money for it I'm gonna go to an informed consent clinic because I've been feeling like this forever it seems.
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>>8364129
dont please
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>>8368416
this!
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>>8368416
Why? I want to be happy :(
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>>8368426
another life destroyed by indoctrination, get out of west it is collapsing .
What is source of your need to become woman?
Why do you believe that being male is contradictory to that source?
Why do you believe that you cant be happy as a man?
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>>8368426
you're cuter as a boy
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>>8366750
are you paraphrasing your liberal arts professor are you just that stupid?
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>>8366926
*you moran.
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>>8368455
>nother life destroyed by indoctrination
Different anon. Gender dysphoria has nothing whatsoever to do with indoctrination. If you have it bad enough it's impossible to live at all as your birth sex and only transitioning will allow you to live. You obviously don't understand.
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>>8368465
Don't tell me what I'm cuter as. If I wanna be a cute girl I'll be a cute girl.
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>>8368551
just like I dont understand why male kids under 9 are being given hormones by their lesbian mothers who say that they are trans just because son likes pink?
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>>8368583
Proof that has ever happened.
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>>8368583
just like I don't understand why /pol/ comes here to try to fuck with people
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>>8368598
proselytism/crusader complex
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>>8368617
gay people cant have different opinions, all gay people who have different opinions are from pol and have crusader complex.
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>>8368630
gays trannies and furfags who become /pol/ adopt the same proselytism complex as the rest usually just wrapped up in varying degrees of bizarre fetishism

none of you are mentally healthy.
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>>8368662
ok if it is easy for you to say i am not mentally healthy, why is it so hard to consider that maybe we should not haste with urging someone to transition?
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>>8368673
>should we not haste delivering antipsychotics or mood stabilizers to a schizophrenic/bipolar

the treatment is the treatment, if you don't like it invent a better one.
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>>8366053
Specially Monty Python.
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>>8364129
this is who you remind me of
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>>8370259
Who is she? I definitely see the resemblance between her and myself.
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>>8370841
>she
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>>8370853
We'll I mean. They're obviously trans quit being an edgelord
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