Am I gay if I got an erection from a male cat? He was being affectionate and rubbing up against me and stuff. I'm not some bestiality sicko or anything, the erection just happened on its own. Probably because I'm a virgin and never get touched. But if this happened instinctively with a male cat, then wouldn't it with a guy acting this way too? I wouldn't mind it. I think I'd enjoy it. I've gotten instinctive erections like this from guys who complimented me online, but compliments from girls turned me on too. Their gender doesn't seem to matter. But nothing else turns me on while talking with girls besides when they compliment me. When they try to escalate things I get turned off and shut them down because I feel uncomfortable, maybe from their expectations, or something to do with that, while with guys I like it when they escalate things and I even try to escalate things myself and it upsets me when they don't reciprocate.
>>8356825
OP you just have a fetish for affectionate and rubbing.
also not sure if bait or just stupid
>inb4 i just got jabaited
>>8356825
No you're not you're literally a typical hetero
It makes sense that this is my fetish. I only like sensual erotic vanilla sex material.
>>8356825
You're just desperate for physical affection because you're a loser. Like the rest of us.
>>8357081
True ;/
>>8357081
Speak for yourself
Dudes get erections over anything bruh.
>>8356825
>Am I gay if I got an erection from a male cat?
You're a furfag.
>>8359423
No I never liked that stuff
Maybe you're bi.
And starved for touch, I'm sure.
>>8359423
boobs or armpit hair?
You think you feel bad, I end up popping boners with my pigeon in my lap. You try explaining that one away to family.
You could be bi but it sounds like you are starved for affection and are desperate. If you had crushes on girls growing up and not guys, you're probably more straight and you don't get aroused by girls right now because you are scared and insecure. If you liked guys growing up and not girls, you're just gay and desperate for attention. If you liked both you're just bi and desperate for attention.
The common factor being you're an attention starved loser who needs to get laid.
>>8356865
Its OK. Genuine affection is a common, and extremely healthy fetish. Dont hate yourself for liking affection- its kinda required for all healthy relationships, sexual or not.
Or, yknow, maybe it was a random boner because you were thinking about something else or havent fapped in awhile. Dont freak out, jerk it out, and everything will be fine.
>>8365932
Hahaha
>>8365994
This is actually a very helpful post, but I'm not sure about looking to the past to find validity for my feelings. I was asexual, but I had a few romantic crushes on girls. I had a couple stints with girls but they broke up with me because I was too boring, being content with just being with them, while they wanted more.
I might've liked guys too and repressed it. I was bullied for being gay so I was very self cautious to not seem gay, and then I dropped out and got my GED, so I don't have many experiences to go off of growing up. I don't know if I had gay feelings and repressed them or if porn and lonely desperation is responsible. I turned to porn for release and I liked futanari as soon as I discovered it at 15, and from there I escalated to real men, but before futa I was afraid of seeing men naked and stuck to lesbian stuff. It started out as just a dick fetish, until over time I liked everything else about guys too. I think I actively repressed because I used to tell myself "what is there to like about men: nothing" and other such things and then I'd look at women and tell myself I should focus on only liking them. I'm attracted to girls in real life, but I've also gotten these instinctive erections from just looking at handsome guys and that's never happened with girls.
>>8366506
Thank you. I was worried about being overly clingy when my first real relationship comes along but I've learned to be more independent so I think I just need to stop obsessing. I just don't want to feel like I'm supposed to be straight but porn and lonely desperation made me turn away from women, corrupting my sexuality. Maybe I'm still scared of getting my feelings hurt by a girl and distanced myself from them to avoid that. I will be going back to school, starting college soon so hopefully I will be too busy to obsess over this and I'll have real life experiences to bring clarity.
I guess it's already a stereotype that bisexuals are confused and straight guys probably don't put that much thought into this. I also used to think I had HOCD but I don't have any other OCD symptoms so it was probably just internalized homophobia from being bullied.
>>8356825
>Am I gay if I got an erection from a male cat?
Ew. Ew, ew. Ew! Please gtfo.
>>8367968
But it's uncontrollable...
Another reason this has been on my mind is that I'm a twink so I seem to have more appeal to men than women and when guys hit on me I feel like I'm lying when I tell them I'm straight and I feel like they must sense I'm gay to approach me to begin with. I don't know if I like their attention because I'm gay or just desperate. If it's because I'm just desperate then it's wrong. But while talking with women I don't feel comfortable escalating things and it makes me feel like I'm gay and wasting their time being deceptive, leading them on, doing something I don't want. When I think of getting a girl's nudes it makes me cringe, but I feel like there's something wrong with me for that if I really do like girls.
>>8356825
Am I gay if I got an erection from the wind?
I was walking around naked the other day and a (male) breeze sprang up and blew across my balls and I got hard.
I can't help but think that I must be gay now since I know the wind is a man.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z4qvpHZzZGI