Meeting other gays for cuddling

>>8326662
>I don't enjoy sex, i'd rather masturbate. But nothing can replace cuddling.
qt

>>8326662
>say i'm interested in cuddling and not penetrative sex

>I want to leave the door open for sex in the future

choose one.

It seems what would be best for you would be an actual relationship, not a hookup. Relationships don't need to start off with sex at first, but can develop into sex later when the both of you are ready for it.

You won't find such things on grindr though.

>>8326765
Too bad gay dating largely starts at sex then moves to relationships.

>>8326765
>what would be best for you would be an actual relationship, not a hookup.
not really, i want a cute cuddle buddy rather than a fuck buddy
i do not believe i am capable of "loving" someone, and I can't even make friends, have a conversation etc. i'm pretty much socially dysfunctional, but I do enjoy hugs and kisses

>>8326925
I'd be up for that. I like cuddling, and I'm not really looking for a BF right now.
You in the UK?

>>8327010
georgia (the state)

>>8327027
That's a shame.

Why do gays act like crybabies?

>>8327238
in what way is this being a crybaby?

Dude I'd absolutely make an app just to meet people for cuddles-- Cuddl™
I'm dying for some cuddles with a teddy bear of a man
t. twink

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>>8326662
Yes, this is my dream, to meet someone like you anon
I would hug you tight and fall asleep between you arms after a night of movies and cuddles
Also tickles
But I would never date an asexual, totally fine with waiting

>>8327445
>But I would never date an asexual, totally fine with waiting
the reason for my reluctance to have sex is multi layered:
i am scared of std's, even if i just suck cock i count days until I can get an hiv test.
maybe i should get on PrEP...
I don't like my ass getting fucked at all, besides i have hemorrhoids
I would be okay with fuckin someone but i'm short and people don't want shorter people fuckin them in general. i'm only attracted to cute boys, i'm 23 and about 4/10 so I don't get to be too picky..

>>8327500
It's pretty much the same here for me too, I don't like penetrative sex but everything else is ok
If you're 4/10 maybe you can improve, if you have a beard shave it, get a nice haircut, if you're fat loose some weight...
If you posted a photo I could tell you if I find you cute. 23 is still young (older than me) Too bad I live in italy :/

any qt want to cuddle from the UK?

>>8327610
i'm not fat or bearded, i just think my skull is low quality ;~;

>>8327616
Ask the UK thread >>8286049

>>8327636
Then find someone on your league and be happy with that
You can still post a photo if you want my opinion i'm curious

>>8327741
not gonna post a photo on 4chan
im not hideous or anything

Never going to happen. I've had guys try and tell me "lolololol just come over for cuddles" it's just not a thing. There's going to be sex no matter what. Gay people are sluts and sluts lie to get sex.

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>>8328059
fags are truly detestable

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>>8326662
>cuddling

people who just want to cuddle have low testosterone.
people with low testosterone lack motivation.
people who lack motivation are not going to make the effort to meet up.

www.cuddlecomfort.com

>>8328103
>www.cuddlecomfort.com
nuh-uh
does that really work?
i'll try it as soon as i get back home (from vacation)

>>8327283
being a faggot... Oh right! OP is actually a homofaggot!

>>8326662
Lesbian here, I wouldn't mind cuddling with a gay dude.
I'm a cuddle slut and all the straight guys I've been cuddle buddies with eventually do exactly that and try to escalate it into sex.

>>8328097
sweet sweeping generalizations my dude.

>>8327616
Y-yes, but I'm sure we're too far away

>>8328252
Slut

>>8326662
ahrifags taking over

>>8328252
Whore

>>8328501
I'm from Yorkshire

>>8329409
I heard about what happened. My condolences.

>>8326662
Instead of hook ups try dating first.

>>8328252
Bitch

>>8328252
i can see how that could happen

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>>8326662
I'd go for it to be honest

w-would anyone cuddle me?

>>8330352
absolutely

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>>8330491
Great, you just gotta live in atlantic canada

>>8328059
unfortunate truth

>>8334512
>tfw trannies aren't
feels good man

>>8334612
No. LGBT is shit against humanity, nature and religion! I hate them so much!

>>8335404
cuddling is the holiest of all human contact, what the fuck are you smoking...

>>8330352
You're a tripfag attention whore, so no.

>>8326662
Hey, these are your preferences and desires and noone can give you crap for that. Just state what you want, and look for the people who want the same things.

I am close to that, I too really enjoy cuddles, even if I also like sex. It's not a shame to say you want only that, or that you want to take things slowly. Don't let others pressure you into doing what you dont want to.

>>8336306
Come on anon, she's nice, not as annoying as many tripfags.

>>8336429
That's like saying that turd doesn't stink so bad, for a turd.

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>implying anyone in the sex crazed faggotosphere would be interested for some pure innocent physical affection

being mentally ill is suffering desu ;~;

>>8336608
What flavor of mentally ill are you?

>>8336611
non feminine man dude who likes feminine men and women

>>8336618
>non feminine man dude who likes feminine men and women
non feminine man who likes feminine men and women
there is no such thing as mandude, obv

>>8326662
You haven't had sex before, have you?

>>8326662
>>8326925
It sounds like you want a relationship, including potentially one with fucking. You just want it to happen at your own pace, and you want to develop a romantic connection with someone before doing anything sexual. However you don't feel like anyone would be interested in going out with you, so you're trying to compromise by presenting this as merely looking for a cuddle buddy.
That's fine, but don't misrepresent it.
An app for cuddling would not work as it would inevitably shift towards sex - much like how tinder was originally conceptualised as a dating app but people use it too hook up loads. You even acknowledge that you'd like to "leave the door open for sex", which means you're presumably at some point like to engage in sex with one of these cuddle buddies.

>>8336655
mostly correct, however std's are a big reason i don't want to have sex also

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>>8329200
>>8329386
>>8329612
Lmao

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talk about cuddles pls, i need it :3

>>8336623
WOW YOU ARE JUST GOING TO DENY THE EXISTENCE OF MY PEOPLE

WE WILL NOT GO SILENTLY

#MANDUDERISING

>>8329409
>>8329506
Rest In Pudding Arianna Grande

>>8328103
>>8328135

sounds like rape central

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>meeting cute guy for some fukkin
>having a light lunch
>he won't stop whispering all the dirty things he's going to do to me
>get to his place
>he gets coldfeet
>turns out he's a big softy and only talked tough because he was nervous
>thats cool
>w-wanna cuddle?
>spend rest of day snuggling and smooching on couch
>go home next morning with no sex, not even a bj

time well spent

>>8340552
I am still alive don't worry.

>>8341492
>he gets coldfeet
for what reason? can you speculate?

>>8341533
shy?
nervous?
is actually not a hook up guy?

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>>8341549
thats a qt and a half if i've ever seen one

OP here, still no solid advice...
i cant be the only cuddlr around here..

It sounds like you're looking for a romantic friendship.
Join a club or hobby group, (optimally not a gay one but those'll work too) get to know people and ask them out for lunch. A couple weeks along ask them if they want to watch some comfy movie and snuggle a little. Explain everything honestly and don't try to move things in that direction if they're not buying in.
It's really easy and you're going to have a lot of luck. God bless.
>>8341893
Cuddlr was a thing for a while. Quickly flooded with bear daddies and rapists looking for hookups.

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>>8341533

When we got back to his place he admitted he had fibbed about fucking. He said he was borderline asexual and all the only he wanted was cuddling, kissing, hugs, etc. I asked why the front and he said he feared I would have laughed at him in public if all he wanted was cuddling.

I was taken back and found the real him very cute so we just spent the whole day snuggling, rubbing our junk (but no jerking off) and kissing.

I still hang out with him and give him all the snuggles he wants (i'm his snuggle hooker) but it's never gone beyond that.

He's super cute and adorbs but I need dick in my life and he said he couldn't acquiesce so yeah.

>>8346665
very cute :3
>>8341983
i'm a meme autist, i don't think i can every communicate someone unless it starts off with texting of some sort