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Gay General - Old School Bara Edition

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Been a really long time since we had one of these editions.

Last thread: >>8231529

Not linking the discord because it's not my job to.
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>>8242452

Post baras
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How old are you?
What age range do you date in?
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>>8242474
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>>8242475
Im 33

Usually 18- historically
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>>8242488
>no tripcode
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>>8242482
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>>8242503
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>>8242510
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>>8242509

Nice meme you got there
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>>8242482

>you have any idea how fast you were going?
>no but I think my dick just did 100 in a 65
>step out of the car, sir

mmmmmm
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>>8242532

Glad you liked that picture.
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>>8242482
Not a real cop. Just another faggot playing dress-up.
>>8242522
Nice doodle. Did you color it in?
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>>8242541
>one_more_burger.jpg
Without that beard he'd have no jaw. I'm loving his friend though. He's so glad they want shopping for v-necks together.
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Bara dudes are crazy sexy
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>>8242564

10/10 would worship that bod all day
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This guy belongs here too, anyone sauce?
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>>8242564

Nice to see. The discord makes it seem like everyone hates bara.
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>>8242570
Some desperate anon on this board. Judging by the file name, you've posted this at least twice already.
Nobody knows who he is and only you seem to care.
Judging from the picture, wait in a nearby parking lot and see if he comes around.

>>8242572
The lengths some guys will go to distract from their faces...
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He told about my crush cleaning his asshole after he shit.
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Pup toroo woooof
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>>8242595
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>>8242582
What else are you supposed to do if you have a shit face? One day you will age and you will have an ugly face. Are you prepared for that?
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>>8242610
>What else are you supposed to do if you have a shit face?
Not get in front of a camera, for one. Just sayin'.
Why immortalize how ugly and desperate you are? LOL
>Are you prepared for that?
Doesn't matter to me, anon.
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>>8242614
So it is bad for others to be ugly but it is fine for you to be ugly?
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>>8242621
Eh, I guess so.
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>>8242645
Don't be surprised when you are alone.
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>>8242660
Don't be surprised when I don't care about that either, you smug holier-than-thou fuck.
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> see your ex with his new gf
> she's just a discount version of you
> same curly dirty blonde hair but fatter and uglier
> then fine out she was actually his high school fling
> tfw to him you were probably just a knockoff of her
Hold me gaygen
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>>8242705
No, you have to handle this alone. Better get used to doing that, Betty.
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>>8242709
This isn't just some random dude I met on Grindr though, this is the guy I lost my virginity to. It still holds significance to me.
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>>8242731
Cry me a river, you dumb whore.
You hold no significance to him. You hold no significance to me. And nobody here is holding you.
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>>8242503
>steroid dick
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>>8242532
would have been funnier if you said
>you have any idea how fast you were cumming?
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>>8242595
I agree with >>8242606

disgusting
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Day three of recovery~
Finally starting to feel some relief.
Ugh can't wait till they'll let me drink water tho. So fucking thirsty.
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>>8243353
This has to be a meme, no one is this cock hungry for attention to constantly post attention whoring messages to people who don't even want to hear or see it's bullshit. Surely this is all a ruse made to rustle our jimmies and trick us into responding.
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>>8243368
I like Circe.
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>>8242509
Ikr
I'm not even into fem guys I like jocks and shit
But these wannabe mascfags are so irritating
It's probably only one loser desu
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>>8242572
Wtf is he bara?
I thought bara was fat hairy guys?
He's just your typical hot jock model.
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>>8243757
>I like jocks and shit
You're not welcome here either.
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>>8243788
stop liking things I don't like
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>>8243760
Bara is muscular in general. Doesn't have to be bears.
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>>8243800
No, like them all you want, you piece of shit, just not around me, or I'm going to heckle you.
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>>8242452

I want a non-fraud/roided bara total bottom bf.
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>>8243817
i don't think anyone cares about being heckled by another faggot
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>>8243822
>tfw no beefcake to bully
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>>8243812
Okay cool.
So it's just a preference that the guys here post bears?

>>8243788
I barely post here. The tranny threads are way more entertaining.
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>>8243825
Good, then I'll have plenty of opportunity to express my disgust towards you.
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>>8243835
express away
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>>8243843
Thanks for your permission. I plan to.
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I have developed a distaste for more masculine men. The more masculine a gay man is the more anti romance and anti intimacy he is. Has anyone else encountered this?
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>>8243860
I'm a total queen and I can't bear the thought of romance or intimacy with another man.
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>>8243760
"Bara" short for Barazoku

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barazoku

Understand now?
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>>8243902
Bara(zoku): the repugnant fantasies of ugly faggots.
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>>8243917
I like bara and I look like a live action bara. Soooo, go fuck yourself, but I have a feeling you wouldn't even fuck yourself that's how disgusting you are.
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>>8243917
What do you like, anon?
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>>8243860
I'm not particularly masculine or feminine and I can't do intimacy or romance. Whereas I've met guys more masculine than me who wanted to cuddle and kiss and all of that crap.
It's not a masc or fem thing, it's because a lot of us gay men are damaged as fuck.

One of my ex's told me that I'm the hardest person to cuddle :/

>>8243902
No I still don't get it.
Are baras jocks or bears? That just says they're gay men.
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>>8243932
Christ, that insult was weak. Are you sure you're bara?
>>8243940
Nothing.
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>>8243945
>Are baras jocks or bears?
who cares anymore. it's gay cartoon shit for gay men it doesn't matter what it is it's a man with muscle and sexy. let it go

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mp28JPs25ek
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>>8243952
>"I have shit-taste even I'm ashamed"
makes sense
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>>8243917
who hurt u bby
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>>8243945
>Are baras jocks or bears? That just says they're gay men.
Bara is a gay cartoon about muscular men, with or without fat. Yaoi is also a gay cartoon but with twinks with very detailed hair.
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>tfw no bf to play magic with
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>>8243961
>implying I like bara
We've been through this before.
>>8243965
I appreciate your sincerity.
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>>8242741
Rude anon. I'm sober now and it's ok I guess. I'm still better than her (and him).
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>>8243987
>I'm still better than her (and him).
Just remember this when you get shitfaced again tonight, you fucking wreck.
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>bend over in the men's locker room to put shoes on
>hunk who comes out of the showers doesnt pull down my pants and rape me
NOT. FAIR.
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>>8243986
I'd hate to know what you're into if you hate bara.
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>>8244019
>expecting people to touch your ugly ass
Very unfair. Why can't I be this deluded?
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>>8242572
DEAR FUCKING LORD
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how do we make /gaygen/ a bully-free zone?
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>>8244022
You think you could use the word "hate" more often in that sentence, it didn't sound redundant enough.
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Btw I dont get why women hate rape. It's like a quickie with some guy on grindr but without the shitchat and zero effort on my end.
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>>8244030
Kill it with fire.
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>>8244037
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>>8244034
And you're also retarded. Your parents should be in jail for raising you.
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>>8244054
>raising
I'm pretty sure they were absent most of his life.
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>>8244037
rough sex =/= rape
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>>8244054
The only crime here is yours against taste in comebacks.
Come on Bara-boy, I thought you were more thick-skinned than this. I guess if you can't get your fat fingers on me, you're SOL. All that strength doesn't exactly translate to mental dexterity, huh?
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>tfw no giant intimidating drag queen bf
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>>8244042
>>8244061
What? I mean yeah I get it if a condom isnt used, but not otherwise.
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>>8244073
most rape never involves a condom or pleasure for the person being raped.
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>>8244062
I didn't mean to bring your useless parents into this. Who raised you? Did they feed you actual shit that you grew to love it?

>>8244057
That's sad.
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What are your gay fantasies gaygen?
I'm so vanilla that I'd love to have my best friend ask me if I want to cuddle with him in bed.
Or any qt really.
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>>8244093
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>>8244093
>Who raised you?
Your dad when he finished up with the whore that squeezed you out later like a vaginal turd.
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>>8244100
My fantasy is you sobbing into your pillow as another year passes without meaningful human contact.
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>>8244081
>87% of women come during rape
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>>8244108
You may not know this, but everyone here are concerned about you. You should go to therapy about your shit-eating habit.
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>>8244113
Wow that's petty.
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>>8244100
thug bf with heart of gold
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>>8244128
>shit-eating habit
Where did that come from, anon? Freudian slip?
>>8244129
see >>8244105
It's only May, anon. Are you going to make it untiw December aww awone? :3
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>>8244081
Lies I fantasise about being raped every day
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>>8244141
I hope half of that wish comes true. I just wish I could be there to hear him break your bones.
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>>8244153
I can't tell who's more lonely you or me.
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>>8244160
Right, how else can you rationalize getting any? But not even lewd hobos would stoop so low.
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>>8244165
Me, but on the other hand you're weaker.
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>>8244169
More like I cant get any man that masc who would initiatives like that in sweden (yes)
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>>8244172
I actually do feel bad for you, anon.
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>>8244100
That's an adorable fantasy
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>>8242452
I wish I were more bara :/

>>8242595
ew, septum piercings just scream poz imo

>>8243983
>tfw no bf to play yu-gi-oh with
ftfy

>>8244030
be nicer to each other?
>like that'll ever happen

>>8244100
small cute bf to cuddle and vidya/watch stuff/have happy life with
>even less chance of this happening
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>>8244237
>yu-gi-oh
more like you gay ho
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>>8244246
you know it
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>>8244265
where you from anyway

you seem to give me lots of (you)'s
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>>8244269
do I? I don't mean to
I am currently marooned on brexit island
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>>8244292
we must be on the same wavelength
>britbong
my condolences
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>>8244237
Kuriboh is nice and all, but Scape Goats is where it's at
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>tfw you will never be a super feminine, pale, and smooth, panty and knee high socks wearing houseboy for a manly, muscular, hairy, alpha older guy, and take care of all of his needs

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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>>8244530
>society will never be stratified into ALPHA CHADS and BETA FAGS, the two castes genetically engineered to be large, dominant and muscular and small, submissive and cute respectively, with the latter outnumbering the former one to ten, necessitating harems of cuteboys for each top
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>>8244606

thatsmyfetish
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>>8244606
>wanting harems instead of real mutual 1 on 1 love

Fucking faggot shut up.
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>>8244616
>>8244616
>>8244616
>>8244616
This is truth
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>>8244616
>not falling in love with one of your fellow cutebois and kissing each other as your master rails you both with his dual prehensile tentacle penises
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>>8244633
I want to rape you and make you cry.
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>>8244638
When are you available?
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>Not wanting someone to cuddle your worries away

What are you guys even doing?
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>>8244649
>tfw 6'3
>can never get cuddled
>always have to do the cuddling

HELP
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>>8244656
Can't, I'm 5'10" and very much not taller than you
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>>8244661
Fucking manlet, start drinking your nesquick right this instant.
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>>8244665
Perhaps I prefer to be smaller

Also, lactose intolerant
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>>8244670
>lactose intolerant

Same, wanna be my bf?
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>>8244656
I'm 5'6 and I'll cuddle you. I like to be the big spoon sometimes.
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>>8244675
No thanks, you're cringy. Dwarfs also can't be the big spoon.
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>>8244674
Hah, what?
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>gaygen has only 20 posters

I don't get it. Everyone is a cancerous tranny nowaadys, no love for gays.
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Have you ever gotten shit or gotten in trouble for being gay?
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>>8244704
No, because I'm in the closet. Have you? When I was in high school, I used to defend this gay kid from bullying though.
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>>8244704
Frat brothers do, but a punch can usually shut em up
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>>8244715
>No, because I'm in the closet.
Smartest move.
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>>8244727
>implying anyone can bully me

I just don't want to deal with the disadvantages of being openly gay.
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>>8244656
I wish I were taller, It'd be easier to be the big spoon
>>8244661
I sympathise entirely

>>8244700
I wouldn't say cancerous but there does seem to be far too many trans related threads

>>8244704
not really
in secondary school it was more for being an ugly socially inept nerd
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>>8244771
Yes it is cancerous. The T should be removed from LGBT. First 3 are sexual orientations, third is a mental disorder.
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>>8244771
Whats to sympathize about?
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>>8244782
fourth*
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>>8244783
being 5'10''
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>>8244808
I don't mind being the little one tho
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>>8244715
no, I'm also in the closet [spoiler]as biscum[/spoiler]

I'm just afraid of what will happen if I get out
I don't feel like drawing attention to myself
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Who wants to read yaoi with me?
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>>8244908
ily yowi boy
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>>8244680
Then how do two dwarves spoon?
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>tfw beard growth is completely fucking worthless
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>>8244961
Who needs beards when you can uh.. have hair on your chin, whatever that's called
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>>8244970
A beard?
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>>8242482
>First sip of the day
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>>8243860

I date masc men exclusively and have not had this issue.
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>>8244970
>>8244974
goatee or just a chin beard
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>>8244819
I feel like life would be a bit easier if I were at least 6'

>>8244908
>I want to re-enact yaoi with you

>>8244961
mines too much, I'm on week 2 and I'm bordering on homeless guy
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>>8243983
>Tfw a bf to play and design decks together
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>>8245000
>>8244974
>>8244970
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_facial_hairstyles
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>>8243831

I wish I had a beefcake to bully, play games with, etc.

>>8243843

He's damn hot.
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>>8245004
*casts control magic on your bf*
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>>8245009

that's a real nice bloat-ee
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>>8245021
no it's a ftm
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>>8243860
It's not always the case.
It's one of those things where masculine dudes are in short supply so they get more sex and tend to be more whorish as a result. Most of the good ones are locked down already.

There are still good ones out there though. There was this cute masc dude I fooled around with would cook for me and we'd spend all night cuddling.
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>>8244175
Masc guys in Sweden. So you fuck sandniggers, is what you're saying. Watch out anon, I hear they've got tempers.
>>8244186
You're so sincere, anon. I can tell you really feel for me.

>>8244530
>>8244606
>>8244613
>>8244616
>>8244633
>>8244638
>>8244645
>pic related

>>8244649
>What are you guys even doing?
Not cuddling you. :D
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>>8245047
see >>8244170
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>>8245009
What kind of dum-dum willingly becomes a manlet when they had life on easy mode?
Judging by its face, it could probably have gotten by fine with a few cats.
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>>8245052
see >>8244170
>dun't feed der troll anern, har har har!
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>>8245054
who knows it's his life not yours.
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>>8244100
to be the fuck toy of two 6'4 daddies. One builtfat and one just fat (with a really big, round belly). Both with juicy thick cocks that they fuck me raw with. One fucking my ass the other fucking my mouth. They keep switching, making me suck their dicks which have just been up my own ass. Eventually they cum deep in my stretched hole.
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>>8245017
Bitch please.
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>>8245060
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>>8245064
pshh...nuthin personell...kiddo...
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>>8244656
I'm 6'3" to
Just don't give them the option. grab their am and flip over.

I wanna be big spoon 98% of the time, but sometimes my butt gets cold.
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>>8245058
Oh, I'll refrain from making fun of it then. Its stupidity ought to be respected.
I wonder what its fleshy sock puppet looks like. Fake dicks never do look right.
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>>8245009
that dude is fucking cute
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>>8245092
>Doesn't even have split second
In response I fling for lethal.
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>>8245103
>98% of the time
You're alone 100% of the time, so I don't know where you're getting these figures.
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>>8245103
Can I pls be your personal butt warmer?
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>>8245124
>6'3"
>Alone
You seem like a bitter manlet.
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>>8245119
>flinging your bf
rude
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>>8245137
Anybody who claims to be over 6' and alone is either lying, ugly, or otherwise repellent (poor, creepy, stinky, etc.).
So, if I'm a manlet then what are you?
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>>8244704
Being gay is shit and is trouble.
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>>8245163
false. being gay is pretty good. I don't know how I'd ever find a dominant milf fuck buddy if I was straight. But luckily there are millions of dom daddys around wanting to fuck my cute little boi cunt
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>>8245302
I like your positive attitude. It's in your blood, right?
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>>8245302
being gay is only good if you're young and want to fuck 40-50 year old men*
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>>8245302
>dom daddys around wanting to fuck my cute little boi cunt
worst fetish.
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>>8245000
The latter I think
>>8245002
Why?
>>8245009
Goatee, I guess
>>8245047
.-.
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>>8245157
Do you even go outside, autist?
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>>8245468
So it's a superiority complex. You know if you would just drop the act, we might get along better.
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>>8245131
My butt is kinda cold...
>>8245157
>So, if I'm a manlet then what are you?
A lanklet.
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>>8245321
That's what Grindr has led me to believe
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Height stops mattering when you hit 20 unless you are a tranny.
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>>8245163
As a bi guy, fucking dudes and relationships with guys is life on easy mode.
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>>8245583
Yeah for the most part, unless you've got some hieght related kink.

I sorta have a thing for short dudes.
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>>8245588
I had more relationships when I was in repression. Maybe you attract men more easily. I do notice straight women have higher standards. My problem is the gay men around here are primarily "straight acting,no gay shit" types that only want hook ups.
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>>8245598
If you are 6+ feet then there are plenty of guys shorter.
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>>8245598

oh my lord, any more pics?
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>>8245588
Oh just fuck off.
As if bisexuals are anything like gays and can relate to our relationship dynamics.
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>>8245588
Because you can opt out of it whenever you want to. Isn't that right, biscum? You're even more non-committal than the average faggot. Aren't you special.
>>8245607
What're you complaining about, moron. Enjoy yourself while you can.
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>>8245646

Buddy, I'm gay but let's be honest. For all that gays claim they're looking for relationships, most of them are glued to their apps looking for the next dick/ass. If you're just looking to have fun, yes, you're going to have a lot more fun as a bi or gay man who's into fucking dudes than someone looking to fuck women. This is not rocket science.
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>>8245607
Most of the tards who use the term straight acting think wearing snap backs and high tops makes them straight acting and ignore the fact they squeel like bitches at Rupauls Drag Race and moan when they have a dick in their mouth.
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>>8245649
I don't consider being some guys disposable cock sleeve to be enjoying myself. I have talked to a bunch. They all have the same plan. We meet somewhere he fucks me and we immediately go separate ways.
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>>8245662
>moan when they have a dick in their mouth
What do you do when you have a dick in your mouth, anon? Sorry, that's TBD, isn't?
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>>8245672
Adapt or die.
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>>8245662
I wish that was true for me. My experience has been that means they are against romance and intimacy.
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>>8245655
Yes I thought that but I've been having therapy with a gay therapist and a gay drugs counsellor and it's opened my eyes a lot.
Gay men, myself included turn into massive drug addicted sluts because we're looking for validation and deep down an emotional connection.

My therapist said as gay men were invalidated a lot growing up, be it outright homophobia or just the inability to really talk to anyone about what were feeling.

I treat my boyfriends like absolute shit, I cheat on them and am only with them because I need them to essentially pay for me.

I'm hoping that once I start psychosexual therapy that I can understand my attitude to sex more and develop a healthy attitude to relationships.

It's not a case of gay men being disgusting vile whores with no morals, it's a case of us being severely damaged.
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>>8245686
Then I will die. If my only options are being treated the same as a chronic masturbator's hand , being alone or death,then I choose death.
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>>8245696
>being this broken
You poor thing. How can you cope without an army of shrinks to tell you what to do?
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>>8245673
Well I only put dicks in my mouth when I'm high on crystal meth so I generally have no idea what I'm doing.

>>8245689
Really? Have you met these guys or are you judging from chatting to them on the app?
I mean every guy I've met and I've met hundreds have all initially met me to have wild sex.
But they all, every single one, ends up trying to cuddle and kiss me and ask me to spend more time with them.

I'm not saying it will lead to a healthy relationship, it probably won't. But if you want intimacy and romance it's on offer.

I ultimately suggest you go to a gay group where there will be healthy gay men who aren't emotionally broken and looking for a connection via sex.
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>>8245704
So heroic and noble. But I don't think anybody's missing out.
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>>8245720
>high on crystal meth
This thread is a goldmine.
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>>8245615
Yeah it's pretty great. Bf is about 5'5". It makes cuddling so nice nicer.
>>8245622
I don't have any more of that guy, but he's a Tumblr whore, if you do an image search you should find more
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>>8245696

I didn't say gay men were disgusting vile whores though, I said they were glued to their apps looking for the next dick or ass. I'm glad you're getting the help you need, I personally do not have this problem and have never cheated on one of my boyfriends or used any hard drugs.

This lashing out at bisexual men as sluts who are unable to understand anything about being gay is pretty gross IMO. It's unreasonable and frankly I think it's a kind of scapegoating or projection, probably what lead to you being in the fucked up situation you're in.
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>>8245722
I don't view myself as either one of those.

What is wrong with wanting to have something more than strangers using you for a quick nut?
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>>8245734
With any luck osteoporosis, or other various spinal maladies could make him shorter. Keeping my fingers crossed for you two.
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>>8245709
I don't.
I suggest you get an army of shrinks too, they're actually really helpful if you give them a chance.
You won't feel the need to belittle strangers on the internet.
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>>8245364
>>8245615
this pretty much
>captcha had the fanciest damn no parking sign, all gold and fancy
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>>8245743
>being this delusional
Do you think you're special, faggot?
>>8245748
You're so moral and enlightened for a meth head. I could really learn something from you.
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>>8245740
I didn't say bisexual men are sluts did I?
I said they don't understand where gay men are coming from.
You're VERY different from us.
Your experience of the world is very different from us.
Your attitude to relationships is very different to ours.
Your brain chemistry is probably a lot more similar to Heterosexual men than ours.
Where did I say bisexuals are sluts?
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>>8245720
When a guy tells me specifically that he will fuck my ass then leave or tell me to leave, I am lead to believe he is not going to do anything else. Only once did I actually go to meet one and he was so damn rude that I just left.
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>>8245607
It's the opposite where I'm at. They seem starved for masc "straight" dudes.
>>8245646
>>8245649
I don't get the bi hate. I could understand in the 80s when bi dudes had the option of acting straight to avoid gay bashing and hate.

Gay dudes, bi dudes, straight dudes are all equally capable of being shit bags.
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>>8245754
>Do you think you're special, faggot?
Are you unable to answer my question?
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>>8245761
I hope that's not you, anon. If it is, I'm sorry.
>>8245777
A bisexual guy probably broke their hearts, probably left them for some girl and, because she's pretty, wholesome and, well, feminine, these poor queens can't take it.
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>>8245754
You can't learn anything from me but I really recommend you see a therapist or someone to talk about your experiences and your feelings.
It really does let go of a lot of anger and allows you to explore your behaviour and ultimately grow.
I also recommend exploring and practicing Mindfulness.

>>8245767
Yeah well that's a hook up, but almost 100% of the time I've found that the guys I go to just hook up with end up wanting more out of the transaction.
A lot of the time we'll get high and fuck for at most an hour and then spend the rest of the day talking, and I've met mostly really nice guys that way.
The problem is neither of us has been of a healthy enough mind to build proper relationships on that.

How was he rude? What did he do?
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>>8245790
Gay guys use bi guys as booty calls just as much, if not more. Where do you think their persecution complex stems from? You'd have to be insane to fall in love with one.
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>>8245781
Oh excuse me, I didn't realize you were stupid.
Why do you deserve something deeper than what you're already getting, if I may ask?
>>8245802
Biscum are incapable of love. Gays can, or so they like to believe, but don't.
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>>8245759

I'm not bisexual. I am a gay man.

You didn't outright say bisexual are sluts. Fine.

But the willingness so many gay men have to outright reject the possibility of a loving relationship with a bisexual man (and other gay men if you're going to be really honest) is their own problem, not because of some imagined deficiency on the part of bi men.
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>>8245777
It's not bi hate. It's recognition that gay men are probably neurologically different from bisexual men.
That because of this natural difference we experience life differently.
And to be totally honest I found it hugely disrespectful for him to call gay sex and relationships "easy mode" when I personally have experienced and know hundreds of other men who have had it anything but easy when it comes to see and relationships.
Heterosexuals have it easy, not gays.
Just because some bi guy thinks it's awesome to have a bf who he can have sex with whenever he wants and "play vidya" with, doesn't mean that gay relationships are easy.
We have it way tougher than that and his flippant attitude irritates me.
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>>8245720
>I mean every guy I've met and I've met hundreds have all initially met me to have wild sex.
>But they all, every single one, ends up trying to cuddle and kiss me and ask me to spend more time with them.
This.

Personally I'm alright with it. In my opinion at least, sex is a big part of relationships. Staying a relationship knowing your sexually compatible makes sense to me. Pretty much all my relationships started as hook ups.
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>>8245794
>practicing Mindfulness
Take that shit back to the Ganges, Pajeet.
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>>8245790

Hey fuck u buddy. I am a beautiful
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anyone talk to rugby lately? How is that bish?
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>>8245823
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>>8245823
No, you just have a shit camera and abuse filters.
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>>8245812
I didn't say any of that.
Did you read what he said? "Easy mode".
And so what if some gay men don't want to date bisexuals? They know there's a sexual desire that they can't fulfil, which whether you like it or not increases the chance of infidelity.
I have dated bi guys and they were nice caring guys, but they definitely experienced the world differently to me.
The gay guys I've met have understood my perspective a lot more.
Although that might be just because I've met more gay men, idk.
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>>8245813
>It's recognition that gay men are probably neurologically different from bisexual men.
there's nothing that says that gayness is one single phenomena with one single cause
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>>8245841

Ok you caught me. I look more like this right now. Hopefully I will have pretty skin again soon :(
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>>8245813
>We have it way tougher
How so?
It seems to me that two dudes are more likely to have common ground than a guy and a girl.

Some guys can be catty bitches, but that's the default state for a lot of women.
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>>8245816
How were those relationships? Would you call them healthy or positive?
I'm really interested in knowing if hooking up with your bf before dating him harms the relationship in the long run.
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>>8245740
>never used any hard drugs.
what are you a fucking virgin??
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>>8245823
>>8245761
Cute.
Would buy burgers and fries from/10.
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>>8245811
I'm only asking for as much as I can offer.

Do you think gay men should only do emotionless mechanical hookups?
At that point why bother? It is basically masturbating. If guys just want a hole to stick their cocks in for a few minutes then why not buy a pocket pussy?
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>>8245117
>that female to male is fucking cute

FTFY
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>>8245823
I would snuggle with you.
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>>8245863
I couldn't say. I've never taken it slow to compare it.

It seems to me at least that you get a better picture of who a person is post sex than you do during small talk on a date. In my experience it defuses a lot of that tension and your both free to be yourselves.
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>>8245856
The bisexual guys I've dated and met have been more... heteronormative?
They grew up liking typical "boy things". They liked girls, they had the typical boy experience.
For whatever reason they just so happen to like men too.
They also demanded sex a lot more and treated me like... idk they're just different to the gay guys I've been with.
Who all no matter how "masc" could relate to those feelings that I had growing up.
Of not having anyone to talk to about how they were really feeling about things.

You're just sexist really.
That's the attitude I'm talking about, that heteronormative attitude that divides men and women
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>>8245884
You're spitting hairs.

And if being attracted to passing ftms doesn't make completely gay then even better
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>>8245917
what if I'm bi and liked neither girls nor boys
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>>8245913
I mean have your relationships been successful? Not to compare just out of curiosity.
I've met all of my boyfriends through hook ups initially and although there have been great times, they've all been chaotic and unhealthy for both of us.

I just wondered if someone who met their bf as a hook up had a more positive experience
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>>8245864

No, I'm a 32 year old gay man with a real job and a decent head on my shoulders. Drugs are for losers. Sorry!

>>8245846

I don't even know what we're arguing about at this point, but if someone calling men hooking up with other men for quick sex or a gay relationship 'easy mode' upsets you so much you definitely need more time with your therapists. Gay men are not a monolith. There are experiences outside of your own of being a drugged up cheating asshole.
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>>8245879
I'm off the same opinion. Post sex cuddles are half the point.

It might not work out, but for a little while you both figuratively and literally have a chance to lay yourself bare.
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>>8245947

post pics, im 10 years younger but have the same ideologies as you
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>>8245934
either way you're degenerate. congrats
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>>8245917
>Of not having anyone to talk to about how they were really feeling about things
May it's different for me. I'm bi, but I had a pretty cripplingly lonely childhood.
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>>8245907
>>8245876

Hooray

These posts are what I came here for
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>>8245854
I would hold my breath, but I recommend you try.
>>8245879
>why not buy a pocket pussy?
You don't want to be that gurl, do you?
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>>8245990
Is this you?
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>>8245990
Does it still feel good if we are unattractive?
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>>8245972

Thanks but I would never in a million years post pics on 4chan. I'm not conventionally attractive anyway.
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>>8245997
>You don't want to be that gurl, do you?
What are you talking about?
This is a pocket pussy.
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>>8246008

If it feels good to you it feels good to me.. :)

>>8246007

No that's not me, I don't look like that at all
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>>8245939
I've only had two serious long term relationships.
The first one was pretty rocky. But I don't think that had much to do with starting off as a hook up. I was just recently it and still had a lot of sexual hook ups. He was nice, but had substance abuse problems and a lot of fucked up family history and self loathing.

The second one has been amazing so far. He's amazing. We were talking about marriage and kids in the first week. And we make it work despite being long distance.
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Daily reminder he will never EVER be with you and he's happily married
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>>8246039

>dat second paragraph

Kek. Top kek.
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>>8246040
Also if we had been straight we would have been in a relationship by now
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>>8246025
That gurl who just sits at home, doesn't mix.
Look, gay guys want sex. They'd prefer to have it with straight men, but more often they've got to settle for one another and they're usually bitter about it, conflicted over it. But lust short-circuits these concerns in most cases and they lead a thoughtless, hedonistic lifestyle.
You know the rules. You can't win unless you play the game.
>>8245990
>These posts are what I came here for
Why'd you crop your chin out of that shot, buddy? Got a nice fat pimple there maybe?
You really think you're good-looking, why do you keep your head tilted that way in every shot?
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>>8245990
Glad we could help anon. Gay gen helped me feel a lot better about myself when I attention whored.

Also: post lewds
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>>8245935
Then you're asexual?

>>8245978
Well I'm sorry, I did say it could just be the guys I attract and meet.
Maybe you're different
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>>8246057
>Kek. Top kek.
No bully
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>>8246065

I am artfully tasteful photographer. As seen here
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>>8246024

I'm not into conventionally attractive guys and please don't close yourself off from others or you might miss out on something good.
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>>8246073
>Then you're asexual?
obviously not considering my 30 k images porn collection plus dozens upon dozens of lewd artists in my pixiv accounts

i had one crush on a girl once

I think it's just that men are more threatening and not as obviously romanceable as women
but I don't want a girlfriend, I want a boyfriend
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>>8245978
Why was it so lonely also?

>>8245947
I've said this. You're really immature and ignorant for 32

>>8246039
Do you think your second one is better because the sex is absent because you're long distance?
A lot of us "sluts" have substance abuse problems maybe that's a bigger issue idk.
It's interesting.
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>>8246099
Oh you mean you like them sexually but not romantically.
I'm gay but I have no romantic feelings for men, or st least I think I don't.
My therapist was talking to me and the thought occurred that maybe I do get romantic feelings but I bury the deep.
Possibly because I'm seriously mentally ill, which I am, possibly because of internalised homophobia which is buried deep.
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>>8246101
>Why was it so lonely
Because he's a goddamn freak and people could smell it.
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>>8246116
It's not like I don't have feelings for them romantically, it's just that I've only ever had a crush once on one single person, but it's sometimes hard to view men in a non-heterosexual man-to-man manner, because they're not gay obviously, but I'm a huge fucking sap for lovey-dovey shit so it's not that I'm only attracted to them sexually. I'd rather have a nice boyfriend than to bareback 100 grindr sluts. Not that I've done either.
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>>8246101
>A lot of us "sluts" have substance abuse problems maybe that's a bigger issue idk.
The bigger issue for me is that your drug habit hasn't killed you yet.
When's your next hit, dude?
>>8246039
>We were talking about marriage and kids in the first week.
Only fools rush in, anon. But you can't seem to help making shit choices.
Please come here to post, wailing and screaming, when it doesn't work.
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>>8246116

Gay is a catch all term ever since it was politicized and became a minority. I started identifying as gay after I realized I could feel romantically about a guy. Before that I was straight but gave so little of a fuck about anything that I was fine getting my dick sucked by a guy, and I fucked a mtf once ( horribly mannish looking thing. as most are ) and realized assholes feel real nice. And part of me is just gay to turn people gay. The thought that I'm playing an active role in the feminization and mindfuckery of cute men is a turn on. But if I care enough I can trace it all back to just a fetish and could honestly see how I'm technically just straight with a very open and degenerate mindset.
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>>8246101
I was really shy as a kid. Our family was kind of poor and there weren't really any other kids in walking distance to socialize with. I managed to make a few childhood friends, but all of them moved away shortly after we started to hang out.
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>>8246065
And why is it that these men refuse to do anything other than treat each other as disposable? This is what causes all these 50 year old men drifting around on dating apps bitching that younger men don't want them.

All it would probably take to get me to play along is a bit of build up. Meet up at a coffee shop or restaurant,not even buy me anything. But no, they want to meet on a fucking Street corner like I'm a damned prostitute, shoot their loads and kick me out.
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>>8246138
>Because he's a goddamn freak and people could smell it.
Also this. Lol
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>>8246116
>but I bury the deep.
Looks like you've already been hittin' that pipe, you sick little addict.
>>8246150
>it's sometimes hard to view men in a non-heterosexual man-to-man manner
Then get a girlfriend, anon. Don't make such a taxing effort for another guy.
>Not that I've done either.
KEK what a loser
>>8246162
>I'm technically just straight with a very open and degenerate mindset.
So you're essentially a dumpster overflowing with used, broken and unlovable rubbish.
Go back to >>>/r9k/
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>>8246150
What is your definition of a crush and romantic feelings.... aren't they ultimately the same thing?

I've never had a crush on anyone in my life. I see guys I want to fuck but nothing beyond that.
I know guys who are fun to be around.
I know guys I look up to.
But no one I've ever had a crush on, even as a child. No famous people or anything.

I don't see what you issue is, you sound like you have a pretty healthy attitude.

What exactly is your problem?

>>8246162
So you're a pervert and you're not gay.
You're not feminising anyone, fucking someone up the backside isn't feminising them since being a female isn't about getting fucked by men.
Those men were probably effeminate long before they met you, sweetie.

Toodles bitch
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>>8246101

>immature, ignorant

That's rich, but I wish you the best all the same. I hope you get away from your old rituals and routines because the old you was genuinely shit.

>>8246095

You first, or post some way to get ahold of you outside of this den of iniquity.
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>>8246197

I don't know how you can say I should go back to r9k when I started my post with how romance made me first identify as gay. I don't mean that gay is degeneracy I mean that there is such thing as being so sexually open it is degenerate, i.e. a slut. But whatever guy, I haven't read this whole discussion I just responded to that one post.

Tbh tho maybe I would have continued identifying as bi had I not developed such a huge preference for being the submissive. Once you are sub and preferably to men, you can't really just say you're straight anymore.

Anyway I hope you figure out whatever you're trying to figure out.
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>>8246164
Have you spoken to anyone about this?
Dude I really cannot emphasise enough the power of therapy.
If you can, get a therapist or a counsellor and start talking to them about this stuff.
It really is freeing and can help with your mental health so much.
I'm really in a good balanced place right now but I can become a fire setting maniac.
It's talking to therapists and counsellors that is starting to help me unlock a lot about myself.

Try it and see if it helps with your social anxiety.
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>>8246198

I don't mean that I like to physically feminize men, but in my mannerisms of complete femininity I will eventually lure one into flipping his wrist or something, and that's a much more interesting way of interacting to me. I don't really care if I'm true gay or not. I still do it better than most people.
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>>8246178
>why
Because they're waiting around for their dweams to cum twue, just like you, and need some poor forgettable sap, just like you too, to hold them over for what ultimately never comes.
>they want to meet on a fucking Street corner like I'm a damned prostitute, shoot their loads and kick me out.
Do you really deserve anything better, dear?
You've just got to learn to be the one who gets rid of them first. Hanging around for this post-sex wuv-huggies bullshit is like putting a big red sign on yourself saying: "vulnerable."
Don't expect fulfillment. You're a guy, so even if you were straight you'd be chasing after some bitch, and you're also gay, you're one of nature's rejects. The way human affairs cycle does not include any room for you. Learn to love the street corner or just shut up.
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>>8246197
>Then get a girlfriend, anon. Don't make such a taxing effort for another guy.
what effort? when I say that it's hard it's not like I'm trying
>KEK what a loser
no bully
>>8246198
>What is your definition of a crush and romantic feelings.... aren't they ultimately the same thing?
you know, a crush is more obsessive, but I can see someone cute and fantasize about doing romantic shit with them

with my crush it was like "oh fuck not HER again" (it's oh fuck because I knew I had zero chance with her so being around her was half joy and half suffering)

>What exactly is your problem?
lonely and poor self-esteem
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>>8246227
>I haven't read this whole discussion
Then lurk moar.
>I'm technically just straight with a very open and degenerate mindset
But I get it, you're entitled to but in whenever you like and we should feel so lucky to entertain your thoughts on any subject.
Next time you feel like being a degenerate submissive, try bug-chasing.
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>>8246101
I don't think the lack of sex helped. I'm a really horny guy and he's got a very submissive "take care of your man" mindset. It was rough for a little while because he didn't think he was taking care of my needs, and even wanted me to fuck other dudes on the side. I had to convince him I wanted him more than I wanted sex. I mean I can always fap when he's not here.

The long distance has been hard, but at the same time it really shows how much were both willing to sacrifice to make it work. I can't wait for him to be able to move here.

I know what you mean about the substance abuse. I had to accept that I wasn't able to help with it or the underlying issues. It ended when I told him I couldn't stay and watch him fuck himself up every week. The good parts were good, but it wasn't worth the babysitting I had to do when he'd get black out drunk, or the crazy shit he'd do.
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>>8246260

Very hardcore.
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>>8246255
>it's not like I'm trying
Duh, anon. I was being sarcastic.
Though it doesn't take much to get into a guys pants. Just tell this lonely son of a bitch >>8246178 that he's the only thing you need, that you can see a future with him, and have at it.
>>8246268
You think you're sooo suave, huh?
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>>8246243
Oh okay, yeah you sound like a few bi guys I've met.
Who wanted to get me high off my face so I'd turn into an embarrassing cock hungry whore.
This is what I mean, gay guys don't do that. I really think bisexual men's brains are wired completely differently to gay men's brains.

>>8246255
You need therapy too.
Something had made you have low self esteem and isolate yourself.
Self discovery is very powerful and you can't get yourself out of that rollercoaster that is your mind.
Sitting on here and seeing guys like that cuntposter just sit there and harass everyone isn't good for your mental health either.
You really need to work on loving yourself before you can love someone else.
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>>8246228
I haven't talked to a therapist. I still have hang ups about sharing emotions and looking weak. I'm not sure I could open up without becoming a blubbering wreck.

I've gotten a lot better. It's weird to say but 4chan has helped a lot. And alcohol. Lol
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>>8246264
Whenever I say I don't want an LDR people always come out of the woodwork and say "you'll find the right guy! and then it wom't matter!" but like. everyone also says it's really difficult.

Maybe I don't want a relationship that takes stupid amouns of effort to maintain? Relationships aren't exactly low maintenance to begin with. A LDR is hard and it's not for everyone, but say "I date locally" is taboo to say for some reason.
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>>8246223

I've never posted my pics on here either but here ya go.
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>>8246245
>Because they're waiting around for their dweams to cum twue
This is kind of true. It feels like some people are too fixated on looking for their Prince charming that they ignore the real flesh and blood people around them.
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>>8246322
Thanks for reminding me, anon. I totally forgot to clean the tank.
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>>8246284
>Something had made you have low self esteem and isolate yourself.
shyness snowballing into bad social skills i guess, plus I'm at least borderline ugly and I'm worried about not being able to attract a guy who I also can find attractive or is nice to be around, because being in desperate relationships is even more depressing than being alone. I mean, being alone isn't that bad, which is part of the problem too, because then you're not motivated enough to find someone to love, but growing older and older alone is a whole different thing.

I don't think thought is what's required here, I feel rather self-aware, I need action
>Sitting on here and seeing guys like that cuntposter just sit there and harass everyone isn't good for your mental health either.
oh I don't care about him, he's doing the whole catty gay impression or something
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>>8246322
You're cute! I want to snuggle you :)
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>>8246284
Therapy's the answer to everything, no doubt.
How much does your kike psychiatrist swindle out of you per visit?
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>>8246299
It's not for everyone. I should clarify though, long distance for me is a two hour drive, not have way across the country.
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>>8246337

I don't get the joke desu. Are you saying I look like a wide-eyed fish?
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>>8246347

I'm only into older guys (30-40) so I'm most likely not interested.
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>>8246358
Now that I finally got the full image of your shitty picture to load on this ridiculous phone, I'd say you look worse than that.
But hey, some faggot says he'd snuggle with you.
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>>8246264
That's amazing. You sound like you have a really healthy attitude!
Idk if I could do long distance so it's admirable and what you told him was so sweet.
I'm gonna be honest when you live together is when the real test comes, but it's good you're not moving super fast.

Yeah you can't help a drug addict. Our problems are a lot deeper than the drugs and we just drag everyone around us down into the gutter.
Never tolerate a drug addict for theirs and your own good.

>>8246295
Yeah you will, it takes a long time and a few sessions before you might say anything of value.
Generally they just listen and suggest things.
Talking out loud about your thoughts and feelings allows you to think about them more sensibly and a lot of it is more self discovery.
That's really what they allow you to do.

It's psychologists and psychiatrists who sit there in judgement, call you crazy and load you with pills.

I recommend seeing a therapist.
And don't become an alcoholic, it will make things worse

>>8246340
Well being alone is good but your lack of interest in socialising could be part of a bigger issue.
Also most gay men feel ugly.
The most beautiful men I've met have hated their bodies and faces.
As gay men were never happy with our looks no matter how shit hot we are.
I can't tell you you're not ugly or whatever because I know it's pointless.
You really do need to talk to someone about how you're feeling because bottling it up won't help.

And I don't think you're ready for a relationship yet, do you even have any expectations beyond not being ugly?
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>>8246375

You sound unfortunately bitter. I doubt anyone would want to snuggle you.
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>>8246322
Cute.
I can't tell if you're buff or scrawny from the pics.

Post shirtless pics
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>be lonely
>gather a pile of blankets and pillows on bed
>crawl under
>try not to feel alone
>feel horribly alone
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>>8246379
>Well being alone is good but your lack of interest in socialising could be part of a bigger issue.
I mean I've had and have friends so I'm not a total lone wolf loser

>Also most gay men feel ugly.
>The most beautiful men I've met have hated their bodies and faces.
>As gay men were never happy with our looks no matter how shit hot we are.
>I can't tell you you're not ugly or whatever because I know it's pointless.
yeah, I hope I'm at least average or passable
I never got any attention from anyone while growing up, but looking back at pictures I was chubby and carry weight fucking terribly in the face, so I looked fucking godawful, I look much better now

been hitting the gym more recently too so I can get a decent body
>And I don't think you're ready for a relationship yet, do you even have any expectations beyond not being ugly?
Enjoy each other's company??? What else do you mean?

And shit, if I'm not ready for a relationship yet it's basically over, I'm 24 in two weeks
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>>8246386
And? This should bother me because?
>>8246379
>Also most gay men feel ugly.
Most gay men are ugly. It's nature's way of keeping them isolated from functioning members of society.
>The most beautiful men I've met have hated their bodies and faces.
Ugly on the inside, the hot ones usually are. Twisted, disfigured, hideous.
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>>8246407
please stop being a bad cartoon version of yourself

even /r9k/ is less tiresome
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>>8246387

Scrawny.
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>>8246322

You are definitely cute, but you're 10 years younger than me and I have no idea where you live or if we're at all compatible without being able to chat non-anonymously.

I'm probably inviting disaster but hit me up on tumblr, that's the one social media account I don't care about giving out to strangers. No I'm not a trans activist or an SJW but I am an 'artist'

themaliciousfairy.tumblr.com
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>>8246419
Now why should I do that, anon? Sorry my misery bores you, but I'm not doing this to cure you of your crippling ennui. So fuck off to /r9k/ if it's more stimulating for you.
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>>8246245
So,in your mind the only way to live as a gay man is to treat others as disposable?

Younger gays are breaking out of this. At least I can know that I am the last of this generation of gays. You all can have your hookups until you are too old to garner attention.
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>>8246406
>if I'm not ready for a relationship yet it's basically over, I'm 24 in two weeks
Aw, poor baby.
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>>8246433
>themaliciousfairy.tumblr.com

Yeah, I'll pass. I'm only into masc guys, daddy types.
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>>8246432
Still cute.
I'd drag you to the gym with me.
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>>8246446
it's embarrassing to see someone try so hard for something so fucking retarded
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>>8246406
Yeah you're gonna do well.
You have friends which is more than I can say.
You're going to the gym and improving yourself too.
Idk you might be ready but if you have low self esteem that might strain a relationship.

Good luck anyway, you're a lot better than you think you are.
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>>8246458
What if he's an artistic masc daddy?
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>>8246474
>Idk you might be ready but if you have low self esteem that might strain a relationship.
Well, if I have a relationshit then it's really no reason to have bad self-esteem over my insecurity to get a relationship, so I don't think it will be a problem with actually maintaining one

i'll probably fuck that up somehow but if I can get one that means that I could get another

I'm gonna try harder to catch some cute NEET boys in my countrys /int/ general
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>>8246451
>Younger gays are breaking out of this
They're really changing things for the better. Just consider fruits like pic related. So brave, so revolutionary, so open-minded and loving.

>in your mind the only way to live as a gay man is to treat others as disposable?
Do you want to get any action before you're too old to keep it up and too aged to be desirable?
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>>8246483

I can tell by the blog name and his re-blogs that he's effeminate. I'd be really surprised if he had strong masculine traits or wasn't some sort of gay art snob.
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>>8246473
What am I trying for, anon? None of this is about you or anybody else. I'm angry and I need to ventilate it somehow. If it makes other people feel bad in the process, and I enjoy that, who are you to call me out on being small? Captain Obvious?
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>>8246513
sorry sweetie, but that's pathetic mfufufufu laughinggirls.exe
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>>8246529
And?
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>>8246533
Stop feeling resentment.
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>>8246433

>watches drag race
>gamergater
>posts edgy opinons about islam

what a horrifying mix
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>>8246499
I was directed to /r9k/ to find a bf once but I can't make hide nor hair of that board
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>>8246538
wtf I'm the ubermensch now.
No seriously, fuck you.
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>>8246499
Nah see that's what's super unhealthy.
I was a sex addicted homeless meth head NEET who managed to get well off good looking boyfriends.
Getting into a relationship isn't hard it's maintaining them that's hard.
And if you're mentally fucked up they're impossible to maintain.
It's typical to use relationships to validate you and think they'll build up your self esteem.
All they do is add to your stress and can just exacerbate your issues.

Build your self esteem and then get a bf.
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>>8246564
I said stop.
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>>8246569
>taking advice from a meth head
You deserve what you get.
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>>8246379
>I'm gonna be honest when you live together is when the real test comes, but it's good you're not moving super fast.
I think we'll be fine. We've spent a whole week 24/7 together and everything was fine. He's got a month of vacation time coming up and so he'll be here for a months straight. We'll see how it goes.

>>8246379
>Also most gay men feel ugly.
I know what you mean. Even guys wanting to pay to see me naked didn't help.
It took a long time to build up that self esteem.
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>>8246581
You didn't say jack shit.
>pic related
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>>8246585
>It took a long time to build up that self esteem.
What can I do to knock it back down again? :3
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>>8246503
I would take sex and romance with one man for my whole life over exaggerated masturbating with many.

Young gay flamers like Brendan Jordan,who is probably actually a tranny, probably do more to improve gay quality of life than any of the older gays.
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>>8246610
>I would take sex and romance with one man for my whole life over exaggerated masturbating with many.
Good luck, baby. I felt the same way, but then I grew up.
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>>8246569
yeah but maybe I'm just a normal awkward guy who wants a cute guy to do fun shit and cuddle with and maybe just confirm that I too can find love so I can stop worrying about that very thing, and not a dysfunctional meth head and serial relationship fuckupper(sorry!)
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>>8246591
*teleports behind you*
*eternally returns you*
>>
tfw your bf says pits are gross

guess i have to dump him now
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>>8246631
*eternally cucks you*
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>>8246647
*fucks teenage boys in an alpine brothel instead*
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>>8246620
You didn't grow up. You gave up.


Actually I'm pretty sure this was a ruse the whole time but I'm internet addicted and not going anywhere.
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>>8246659
>*collapses in Turin embracing a horse*
ftfy
Stay on script, anon.
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>>8246663
>Actually I'm pretty sure this was a ruse
No, I really am this bitter.
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>>8246667
>perishes from brain cancer
>last act is to embrace the animal that was one of the major causes of his lifelong illness and suffering (the dismounting injury)
>this apparently proves him wrong somehow
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>>8246647
>>8246631
>>8246591
>>8246581
>>8246538
>pretending to understand nietzscheism
Nice baby meme you got there.
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>>8246672
Why? Tell me about your problems?
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>>8246678
see >>8244170
Sue us for having a laugh, faggot.
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>>8246678
>implying you understand nietzsche with your puny little rationalisms like the reading idler you are
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>>8246685
Aw, are we going to hash it out together? You gonna help me sort myself out, Mr. Peterson? You gonna help scrape these barnacles off my hull and give me a radiant new coat of paint? You gonna hold my hand and tell me, "poor thing," and every other useless platitude?
I don't want your pity, moron. I am a rabid animal and I only want to hurt you.
>>
>tfw no bf to replicate the oh shit I'm sorry scene with
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>>8246712
I'm curious what would cause this behavior. Right now I'm assuming boredom. Maybe at the small scale of just this moment or at the large scale of your life.
>>
Anyone in Florida?
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>>8246737
gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8
I knew I couldn't trust you, you insincere cunt.
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>>8246806
go do something with your life
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>>8246820
No, I'll probably be here tomorrow too, but eventually I'll get over this and move on. I won't be happy though. I don't think I'll be optimistic either.
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>>8246847
>but eventually I'll get over this
What happened?
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>>8246847
You don't want help or to share. You want to be a brat. Have fun. If you decide you want someone to talk with, I will help.
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>>8246859
Oh you know me, anon. lol I just got real, *real* bored. :3
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>>8246874
>I will help
People make good punching bags, but apart from that their "help" is cloying, useless, and usually exacerbates the trouble. Nice of you to offer, although your virtue signaling is transparent.
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>>8246907
>virtue signaling
Nope. I even run a discord for emotional support. I was bullied a lot growing up and went through other random shit and did not have anyone to talk with about certain problems and figured others were the same. When you are ready to break out of your hateful paranoia, we can talk.
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>>8246949
Don't badger me to join your mopey discord, you petulant dog. No, anon, I've changed my mind. Give me the invite, and let me tear every tender earnest little heart in your drawer of hopeless cases to fucking pieces.
I can tell why you were bullied, you can't help butting in where you're not wanted.
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>>8246596
IDK, no insecurities jump to mind.
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>haven't seen by in two weeks
Weeks
> Finally get together
> He has bronchitis and we can't even nos.
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>>8246992
>and let me tear every tender earnest little heart in your drawer of hopeless cases to fucking pieces.
don't overestimate yourself lol
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>>8247018
>bronchitis
Hope it's pneumonia, babe.
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>>8247026
>implying I don't understand my rage is impotent
You're really good at assessing people's emotions, anon. I can see why they come to you for help.
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>>8247047
>>implying I don't understand my rage is impotent
like ur benis X-DDDDD
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>>8247071
God, I wish it were.
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>>8247089

post potent penis desu
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>>8247694
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>>8247694
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>>8246366
You don't have to be sexually interested to cuddle and talk about stuff all night with a cute boy.
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