Why does being gay feel so sad?

>>8239841

i just feel like a failure to my parents. like after all this time their son turns out to be gay.

i just feel bad about it.

>>8240292
So?
What can't you do as a gay guy that you would otherwise be able to do as a straight guy?

>>8240344

be normal

>>8239385
>i dont think anyone will accept me.
Let's be real here, they won't.
No straight person in the world will ever accept you.
Not in a million years.
It's a fact.

Something people won't tell you is that many gay men end up completely co-dependent to their partner because of things like this

>>8240387
Just like straight couples then.

>>8240371
No one is normal.

>>8239385
Anon, welcome to my hell.

>>8239385
I dunno where you live but if you don't live in a reasonably progressive city, move there. No one here gives a fuck that I'm gay. I don't parade it around but if someone asks or asks why I don't have a girlfriend I tell them.

>>8242982
>this

honestly anon, where you live makes a huge difference. living in a city, i'd say maybe a quarter of the people i mix with are lgbt.