whats a good way to find guys who would be willing to help someone (mutually) experiment? i dont think im ready for grindr and similar
22 in uk, working, not at uni
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>>8172641
Where in the UK?
>>8172837
cambridge
>>8172872
It's a university town, there's shittons of drunk gay students to fuck with. Check the local clubs.
>>8172937
i dont want to be so open
>>8172970
then if you're not even willing to use an app like grindr to anonymously hook up sounds like you're shit out of luck. Could try craigslist but tons of people get raped from there.
>>8173023
there must be a way to meet people fairly discretely for more than just regular hookups. like i said i dont want to just jump in
helb bls
>>8173060
>discreetly
Not in cambridgeshire. Way too gossipy and prone to rumour-spreading.
I'd offer to help you out personally, but I can't stand the area.
>>8173408
:/
do you have any suggestions?
>>8173465
Go to London and try there? Big city, people won't know you well enough to spread shit, lousy with gay bars, only an hour or two away from you. Downside is that hotel rooms are invariably going to be expensive AND shitty, sometimes literally, and anyone who lives there is likely to be a left-wing nutcase who won't shut the fuck up about it.
>>8173465
stop hiding
people sneaking around cheating are cringeworthy
just be honest and open about who you are and live your life