Experimenting with SO?

>>8165664
Sounds like she's ready to go full lesbian I hope you like dicks

>>8165664
>"y'know... I'd be ok with us having *one time* to experiment and have sex with someone else as long as they're the same sex."

What she is saying is "I have found another woman that I like and want to/have had sex with and I want to legitimize it in your eyes so I want you to go out and have sex with a guy."

>>8165929

I know that's the obvious answer, but I highly doubt it. We've discussed opening our relationship like this before, but one of us (pretty evenly spread between me and her) would just not be ok with the other being intimate with another, regardless of the sex of the other.

If she has actually found someone who...
1. She is attracted to that way
2. She knows
3. Has made their own interest in her apparent
...Then I am impressed she managed to find someone, and doubly impressed at how well she kept that from me.

I did forget to mention that we are looking for strangers, and only one time; neither of us want to catch feelings or have the other catch feelings. We can still cheat on each other, this would be a time when we plan out having different partners. Any other time with another person is cheating.

If she has found someone and is using this as a way to indulge in a relationship with another, then heartbreak will happen, but I'll know that everything I saw in her was a lie and I can move on to a more healthy relationship after having a bunch of rejection and rebound sex.

>>8165732

Well, I hope not, as I love our relationship, I love her, and I don't want to be romantic with anyone else.

But I like looking at pictures of dicks, I like putting realistic dildos in my butt, and I like to watch gay porn just as much add straight porn. I think I do like dicks.

I belong to some groups/forums of people married to by partners. The unfortunate scenario is what follows.

The female spouse expresses her desire to act on her attraction to another woman. The guy feels it is OK since it's only sex, and he probably thinks it's pretty hot too.

But women aren't like men. Men will fuck anything with no emotional connection. Women need that emotional connection so the wife goes out looking for a "partner". She looks for someone she likes, can talk to and when comfortable, have sex. But while she is doing that, she starts to develop feels for the other woman. Her emotional needs start getting met by the other woman and her sexual needs, not nearly as high as her husband's, also gets met my her new "lover".

Soon the husband is secondary to the wife's new female lover and when he sees this, he asks that she stop seeing the other woman. The wife will be heartbroken that she can no longer see her new friend, confidant and lover.

The relationship between the husband and wife starts to falter and either the wife cheats behind his back or leaves him.

>>8166309

Thank you very much for the input. I don't think we would fall into that as much based on our plans for a one time thing with strangers who we would cut loose after, but it's definitely something I worry about. I'll bring it up with my better half.

Thanks again!

>>8165664
>we both have HPV
Don't they vaccinate against that?

>>8166456

Yeah. My wife has an auto-immune disorder (RA) and we're both in our late twenties. Our assumption is either she wasn't vaccinated for that strain, had it since she was a kid, or re-acquired it either from me or before she met me when her immune system was at its lowest. Don't worry though, it's high risk, so only cancer instead of warts.

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>>8166643
>only cancer instead of warts

>>8166659

Haha, I know, super vain, and you end up looking worse at the end of cancer anyway. Once I go get a Gp I will have them give me a full std screening and figure out which strain it is.

Thanks everyone for your advice!

>>8165664
I unironically think people like you should be killed. STD infested trash, sex crazed bisexual maniac plus a literal cuckold.

>>8166643
But how did you get it then?

>>8166691
How do you not have a GP?

>>8166703

Everything, or just because of the STD?

>>8166748

We don't know. My wife had a screening while she was with her ex-fiance and it said she was clean. I was a virgin when we meet, so never got a screening. It's possible my brief forrays in fingering and other touching with a couple girls before meeting the wife resulted in me contacting it. Or I could have been born with it.

I don't have a GP because I only recently got health insurance that actually helps, and haven't had a reason to go to anything but a quick clinic or the eye doctor, which was a big step from just boxing about my eyesight. I just need to find one and make an appointment, but it's easy to put off when you don't have any pressing concerns. And when you can just smoke weed and do other things instead to distract yourself :/

>>8166703
And I think people like you should be locked up. Brain-dead idiotic raging moron.

>>8166843
You're an actual threat to public health you degenerate subhuman.

>>8166850
You're an actual threat to public safety you degenerate subhuman.
>I can do this all day :)

>>8166854
>posting on the internet is on the same level as spreading debilitating viruses
Kill yourself

>>8166840
Weren't you vaccinated too? Although that wouldn't help if you were born with it.

>>8166872

I don't know. Are men vaccinated for it? Add that to the list of questions for my doctor.

>>8165664
hmm people are being very shitty to your wife in this thread but I guess thats to be expected since its 4chan. even on /lgbt/ half the posters are angry r9k pol people crying about women and degenerates. sorry op I don't really know anything about this stuff but maybe you could try a swingers group?

>>8166864

You decided I was a sex crazed disease ridden maniac who need to die after I posted that I had an STD and asked what method people used to stay safe. Willfully spreading a disease is much worse than shit posting, but deciding someone needs to die when they have no intent to spread their disease is heinous.

>>8166912
Unless men became immune to cancer they should be.

>>8166937
>no intent to spread STDs
>wants to have sex with strangers
What shithole country are you from if you don't even have high school biology there?

>>8166912
>>8166939
Several countries only vaccinate girls and others only started vaccinating boys too recently, so most adult men won't have been. Usually girls are vaccinated against more strains too iirc.

>>8166928

Thank you! Yeah, I don't know what I was expecting heading to 4chan. Shared the responses with my wife for the Lula. That's what I get though, lol. Yeah, this is all new tip is, so we have no idea where to start.

Got some advice on /b/ to not go to gay bars, and also to kill myself :P