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So I have a problem folks, I inherited the family homestead a few years back I was 19 then(family car accident it took my Mother Father and my little sister), i'm 25 now and well I'm lonely and I'm not sure what to do. The Farm gives me a purpose in life and it's all I know, and I've gone to the nearby towns and tried to start something with someone (I'm gay btw) and well the response is always negative because of my lifestyle I think. but also I just don't know how to approach guy's I guess I've only been with two others in the past, but both of them moved away. But anyway this is how the last date went,
>meet a guy at the pub,
>ask if he'd like to meet again next weekend,
>agrees & and gives me his number,
>Next week I pull up in the truck
>he's already kinda putoff by the farm truck
>Take him to the diner and buy him dinner
>Things seem to be going well
>We're talking but he seems distracted
>we get back into the truck and I take him home
>I pull in front and ask if I can see him next week
>he say's why not see me "Inside"
>I'm shocked honestly
>I tell him I've got an early day tomorrow but I really enjoyed the evening and would love to see him again
>he says don't bother calling him anymore and slams the door.
The last three dates have been the same, what am I doing wrong? How do I improve things next time? please help?
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>>8154467
Clark kent was a farmer too, just saying
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>>8154467
It might not be your lifestyle, but if you do nothing else then you might not come across as very interesting.
And the picking dates up in a farm truck thing might not be the best idea
Yeah you might not have the same selection as a big city but if you put yourself out there you're more likely to find bf
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>>8154589
Do people get offended if I don't sleep with them on the first or second date? I was always told not to even kiss till the second or third
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>>8154609
I dunno man, just go with the flow
There is no date checklist for when you must meet certain goals at certain intervals to reach the next level
Meet up, have a good time and do what feels right
(I agree with holding off though)
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>>8154628
ok, I guess i'll just continue with the struggle
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>>8154631
You'll find someone soon if you just put yourself out there, have you tried dating sites/apps?
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>>8154649
naw, that's stuff kinda freaks me out im kinda a pleb I guess
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