So last night I posted pic related, and you all pushed me in the right direction. Some of you wanted an update, so here it is.
I went over to his dorm at around 1130, after he asked me to after I texted him and then we had a quick chat over the phone.
When I got there, it was pretty awkward for the first maybe 10 mins cus we were just small talking. But I really wanted to have closure.
So I just asked straight up if that night he asked if I was single was because he was interested, and that I wanted to know because I was too.
His face went all red and he didnt say anything, wouldn't even look at me. I had to kind of pry it out of him, I but I knew he wanted to say it. After a bit of reassuring, he shyly said yes. I felt my face going all red but I didn't care.
I told him that I was really, really happy that it was mutual, and I put my hand on his thigh.
He grabbed my hand and moved it up slightly towards his lap, and then I noticed he was crying a bit.
I asked him why, and he said "I'm just feeling so much I can't explain it". Then he went on to say that he didn't actually think I'd ever reciprocate, and then I told him that I felt exactly the same way.
Then he told me he was really happy and relieved, but still too anxious or nervous to do anything ( I think he's still uncomfortable with his sexuality), so I said we could take it slow, which reassured him a bit.
At this point it was something like half past midnight, and we both had class, so I said we should both get some sleep and talk on the weekend some more. He said okay, we hugged for a bit, and I left.
Now we have a "date" on saturday, mostly just gonna talk/hang out like normal, except now theres no more awkward tension.
Thanks to the anons who replied and whacked me on the head with the opportunity I was missing :^)
>>8152895
Cute af anon, I'm proud of you
>>8152895
aww
i'm happy for you, anon. glad you grew some balls and did the right thing
Who's gonna be top?
>>8152932
I mean, he is just coming to terms with the fact that he's gay, so anybody being on top it still a ways away I think.
But personally, I hope it's him. He's shorter and a little bit chubby, which to me is going to be just *ugh*
>>8152972
That was a good *ugh*, by the way :^)