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I'm a bisexual (leaning gay) male. I've been focusing on uni at the moment so I haven't had much time to find a bf or significant other, but I'm quite miffed by the fact that, in all likelihood, I'm going to have to settle for a gay man that happens to be femmy. I'm not going to call any male gay who is effeminate an awful person, and I'm not demanding that all gay men who happen to enjoy being effeminate stop because of my opinion; do what you want if it makes you happy. My problem is that I don't understand the appeal. Why would a person who is attracted to men want to date a man that behaviorally acts like a woman for all intents and purposes? I'm not even asking for the polar opposite, bears are okay but I also don't want to date the masculine chads that would have swirlied me in high school.
TL;DR, I'm a cerebrotonic gay and I'm anxious that I won't be able to find a place to find another cerebrotonic gay. Where do I look?
pic related, it's alan turing, a guy who I'd totally want to hook up with and play settlers of catan with.
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>>8151650
you don't have to settle for shit, being single is fucking mega
download some apps, get on some dating websites, put yourself out there
the power is in your hands dude, drop the 'cerebrotonic' shite and mingle
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>>8151719
I guess I probably do need to yank the stick out of my ass at some point. I have anxiety about dating and I guess I just wanted to post her to voice some of it. I'll be fine.
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>>8151787
me again
good lad, i'm a similar position to you but just going about your day and expecting every guy you see to be fawning at your feet is dumb
particularly if you're not into the flaming colourful parrot guys or guys who are less visual about their dicklust
i'll admit to being a total virgin though who's never even had a bf so take my advice with a pinch of salt
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>>8151816
Yeah. I've never had to many friendships IRL to begin with and very few that I did end up having were based on anything beyond an intense common interest. I'm scared that I'll come off as too much of an autist.
I just have a guy like alan turing in mind and I dunno where I would start to look for that type.
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>>8151856
suicidal and castrated or a spergy computer scientist?
i have some really niche hobbies (nothing creepy/weird) that would probably put 99% of prospective bfs off, i guess the more effort you put in the more likely you are to be rewarded
with you on the friendships, i'm closeted too so it's even more fun for me, you'll turn someone up
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>>8151867
yeah, the spergy comp sci and satisfyingly kinky would be lovely. Dunno where to look tho.
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>>8151950
sounds like reddit to me
serious just keep looking, you sound british so i assume your uni must have some kind of lgbt organisation, start there if internet dating seems too impersonal
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>>8151650
protip: most gay guys aren't femmy.
you just don't know they're gay because they don't act gay.
you only see the femmy ones.
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>>8151986
the gayface is strong here, but yeah this is essentially what you need to realise
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>>8152004
i dunno man, miffed, uni, intents and purposes sound britticisms to me plus alan turing
i would join any lgbt groups you can, get some dating profiles set up and maybe something will happen
for example, i'm on a few forums with very specific interests and two guys actually met through it, was quite sweet actually
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