I hate my boyfriend

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Better yourself and stop being a retard

Also, what's his number?

>>8134678
Obviously you're gay. An mtf would just accept her lowly position and be grateful for his interest in her.

Try to overcome your male pride and ambition and aspire to be a good housewife for him and let him provide for you.

>>8134678
talk
to
him

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>>8134711
>>8134711
I don't know how to even bring it up. I feel it will make him think extremely badly of me.

"Hey man, I've been feeling bad because you're so much better than me."

See how stupid it sounds? It makes me sound like the villain no matter how I word it.

>>8134768
Put some fucking heart into it, anon. Say that you need to talk to him. Start calmly, but eventually just let it all out. Tell him how you feel. Please. I beg you. Do it while you still can, or face the consequences of leaving it bottled up.

If you keep it bottled up, it'll likely come out the wrong way (angrily) during an agreement or something. You'll both be over with, if that happens.

I don't know if your relationship is this far in, but tell him you love him. Hug him and tell it all, before it's too late.

>>8134768
We've all been the ugly one in the relationship.

Tell him that you're frustrated because you feel like a failure, and that you respect and love him a lot but you can't shake the feeling that he's better than you in every way and you don't deserve him.

In the end I think what will help you the most is to put your nose to the grindstone. Put in more effort at work or change jobs. Go to the gym with him if you don't already. Do what you can to improve yourself. These feelings are a result of you not taking enough time to develop yourself as an individual, so go do that and ask for his support.

>>8134768
>"Hey man, I've been feeling bad because you're so much better than me."
say you *feel* like he's so much better. or at least that your own self esteem is extremely low.

I mean, just talk to him, dude.
Also, learn to not compare your own self-worth to other's, but that one can be a bit trickier.

>>8134868
>change jobs

What, and become a NEET again? Fuck no.

>Go to the gym with him if you don't already

He doesn't go to the gym - he's just one of those people who are lucky enough to have the genetics that endow him with a handsome physique. I'm the one that takes care of myself: I don't do much exercise, but I'm always taking care of myself diet-wise. Not him, though.

Talk to him. I know it's cliche, but it's cliche for a reason. Better yourself, focus on yourself and not others. There's a lot of reason he's chosen you.

If an amazing person such as him picks you, then you can be sure you're not as bad as you think. You may not be perfect for yourself, but that doesn't mean you aren't for someone else.

>>8134912
If you CHANGE jobs to ANOTHER job then you would not be Not *Employed*, Educated, or Trained.

How did you manage to bag him if you're such a slob?

>>8135015
>Educated, or Trained.
you mean
>in Education, or in Training.

Bro, give your man some respect
If he likes you enough to be in a relationship with you then he likes you enough to sit down and have a discussion about your feelings. I know that's gay as hell but you gotta trust him the way he should trust you

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>>8135070
We just made small chat, since the day I got hired. And I thought he was pretty cute, so I tried to lengthen our conversation whenever he'd pass by. He seemed to take well to that, and began to do stuff like offer me food, or hang out around my desk for a little while when he could. It went on like that for some four months, and by then, I already had a crush on him.

This January, I made an OkCupid. One of the first things I found was that he had a profile, and I viewed his profile. He was able to see that I had 'visited' him. He sent me a message late that night asking me to not tell anyone at work. I told him the same.

And we just started getting closer from there. We had our first "date" in late February, and we first did anything sexual in late March.

>>8135140
Maybe you should stop selling yourself short. Obviously he deigned to see something of value in you or he wouldn't be dating you.

If you feel so shitty about your stature in life compared to him, figure out some way to climb the latter.

Your wasting your chance to enjoy him before he dumps you.

Envy is such a petty, belittling emotion. Don't fall prey to it.

>>8135208
*ladder

>>8135140
cute

if it makes you feel any better anon, i'm jealous of you now

>>8135140
Are you the bottom?

>>8135578
>Are you the bottom?

Neither of us are exclusively top or bottom. Sometimes I top him, sometimes I bottom for him.

>>8135695
Gay.

You are an awful person

Become pregnant and then you will have the power over him that you seek.