are there guys on there looking for a relationship or isv it fact that its just guys whip fucking around? kinda want to make an account but I dunno if it's be worth it.
>>8126807
i'm guessing it's possible to find a relationship on there but it's too disgusting for me to use. then again im a virgin with no hope and it's not a fun place to be
you could like check it out i guess? no need to meet up with people if you don't want
Personally I think it's pointless. Just use actual dating sites like OKCupid, or even plenty of fish is better than those apps.
There's occasionally guys on grindr that want to date but it's more hassle than it's worth to find them in a sea of sluts.
>>8126807
>Download grindr
>Get immediately propositioned for sex
>Horny so I start talking
>Jack myself off to the convo
>Feel gross and hate myself
>Delete grindr
It's a dangerous place. 100% pointless for romance or anything meaningful.
Grindr is for hookups. Anyone who claims to be looking for "friends" or just "gym buds" is just an even bigger slut in disguise that doesn't want to admit it. But all gay men are like this, in all places
>>8126865
I made an account on ok cupid once just to test the waters and it was all neckbeards and fedora tippers.
>>8126908
Pretty much. All the hot guys go on grindr, all the incels go on OkStupid and PlentyOfCatfish
>>8126876
This.
All the "I'm just looking for friends teehee" people on there are just secret sluts.
Even people looking for dates are usually looking for sex predominantly anyway. They'll just slut it up and eventually latch onto another slut after a while.
>>8126933
that sucks :( what about tinder?
>>8126865
POF has given me some decent results in the past.
>>8126807
grindr is pants-on-head retarded. I did meet my BF on scruff though.
>>8126807
OK here is my story. I did meet a guy I really like on grindr, someone who let me call him his bf. But after 3 months he won't text me back. I weeded through so many sluts just to find him. But no he was the one to stop contacting me. Yet I still have a freezer full of his deer meat.
I'm so mad at him now I just want to hookup just to forget him, fuck him!
>tfw you're too much of a pussy to even try those things.
>>8129105
Every single guy on grindr is like that, they'll use you until they're bored and move on to the next guy, with absolutely zero remorse or consideration for your feelings. They wouldn't bat an eye if you killed yourself. Gay men are seriously heartless
>>8129897
NEDM
>>8129105
That sucks :( at least you got as far as someone letting you call them your bf tho?
>>8131019
what a cruel world
>>8131056
Being abandoned by someone you really liked is a far worse feel than never finding one to begin with, trust me
>>8131077
Just quit having a heart. It's the only choice in the long run.
>>8131114
And become like everyone else on grindr?
>>8131135
Sure?
>>8126807
Anyone try surge? I hear its a less degenerate grindr but actually like tindr with the whole swiping gimmic
>>8131255
The swiping thing is degenerate anyway. You could literally be swiping away your soulmate from a 0.5 second judgment of someone from a picture. Why do you think so many gay men die alone?
>>8132177
Are they though? Because granted, it could just be that I'm ugly and boring, but it feels like yelling in a wasteland on those
Im guessing by the looks of replies that maybe a gay bar would be better than grindr. Maybe actual tindr..?
>>8133265
Gay bars are kind of dead but I'd say there's no harm in trying it. Try tinder beforehand though, it's an actual dating app.
>>8133265
anyone know if tindr is actually any good?