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If I'm exclusively attracted to girls will HRT cause

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If I'm exclusively attracted to girls will HRT cause me to like guys?
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>>8104540
i dont know
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>>8104540

Has gay porn made you hot and bothered? If not than no sorry, you're a forever alone
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I was exclusively into women pre HRT but I'm solidly bi now.
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>>8104540
8 months in and I still don't like guys, it's not a consistent effect.

My theory is that if you like guys but hate your masculine birth defect shit it's very hard to see those things as attractive in other people, so as HRT lets you deal with less of them you can be more honest with yourself.

For people who don't like guys at all even subconsciously I bet nothing changes.
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>>8104540
No. People who claim their sexuality shifted are actually just in denial about liking guys pre-HRT and have internalized homophobia because they didn't want to be "gay," but now they're straight, so it's okay.
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It seems unpredictable
For me I used to only be into masculine guys and now I'm only really into girls and feminine guys
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>>8104540
it's not hrt that causes sexual orientation 'change' with transition
for trans women who started off attracted only to women (and in some extremely rare cases trans men who started off only attracted to men), it's meta-attraction -- that is, an effect of agp where one is attracted to the idea of being in a heterosexual relationship as a woman
it's hard to predict from the outset if someone will experience meta-attraction
here's a meta-attraction story from a woman who semi-accepts the typology (her website had a lot of pages on it in the early 2000s but she removed them around 2003 because she was getting attacked by conway-james-mccloskey) so you can see how it can develop:
http://annierichards.com/mysexuality.htm
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>>8104540
one hundred percent that's the case, op
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>>8104578
My experience too, could just be denial in the past just like the whole trans thing I guess, also although still bi my interest in women is going down though, and interest in men is just growing.
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Should I be worried about the girl I like losing to cock? She's bi and starting hrt soon
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>>8104540
>about a 2 out of 7 on the kinsley scale
>not emotionally attracted to women at all, however emotionally attracted to men
>starting HRT literally next week
>will finally be able to start lusting over cock and begin dating guys

I'm excited guis
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>>8104799
Explain your emotional attraction?
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>>8104828
I-i just want someone to watch over me
(and pay the bills!)
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>>8104871
Anon, you'll make people think the failed male thing is true about us!
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>>8104578
Me too.
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>>8104828
mmhmmm, it's strange, but I can't realistically see myself ever getting intimate with a woman, maybe it's just due to a lack of experience but I've never wanted a gf, while I can very clearly remember fantasizing about being intimate with my male friends.

I've had plenty of female friends but for some reason I just see them as partner material, while with guys, even though they're often quite different to me personality wise, I often feel as if their personality is something I want to be closer to, like I want to depend on and be depended on by them and make life decisions with

hmm I've waffled on a lot, perhaps it's just that I want to feel cared for. I think I have the idea in my mind that women express their care for their partners less than guys express their partner.

Perhaps I want to take a submissive role in the relationship, but then again I wouldn't want to be a dominant girl

I'm not sure if I can really get to the bottom of it, when I fantasise about being with a boy, I feel fuzzy inside, while when I fantasise about being with a girl, I don't.
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>>8104910
What do you mean partner material that isn't what you described about guys?

If you don't feel the same fuzzy inside when you think about girls, what do you feel?
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>>8104934
>What do you mean partner material that isn't what you described about guys?

oh sorry, I meant that the otherway round

women don't feel like partner material to me
men do feel like partner material

>If you don't feel the same fuzzy inside when you think about girls, what do you feel?

nothing

I fantasise about sharing a romantic experience with a girl I feel nothing
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>>8104953
Do you feel anything sexual towards women?
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>>8104968
I can masturbate to them, that's about it.

I never sexually fantasize about being with a woman, or woman. Looking at sexual images of them does "coldly" arouse me
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>>8105004
Do you fantasize about being her when you masturbate to a woman then?
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>>8105026
No, there are no erotic thoughts, it's very cold and detached, I just stare at her and rub away until I finish

on the occasion I feel like doing it to a guy, I often imagine us having sex. I feel better after I finish to a guy.
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>>8105050
How does that even get you off if there's no attraction of any kind?!

Did you used to be attracted to women?
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>>8105060
>How does that even get you off if there's no attraction of any kind?!

There's is attraction, I'm a 2/7 on the kinsey scale, things like a man's scent can very quickly arouse me, their bodies less so but still can.

>Did you used to be attracted to women?
On an emotional level, no. I've never wanted to be with any girl. I've enjoyed spending time with a lot as friends, but I've never desired intimacy with them.
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>>8105084
You mean a woman's cent?

Were you very feminine when you were still presenting as a boy?
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>>8105097
scent*
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>>8105097
Nope, I man's scent is really arousing to me for some reason

I was really embarrassed (and to be fair, because it sounds kind of strange I still am now) at the time, but I remember during one of my first maths lessons at my new school, my maths teacher leaned over me I instantly got aroused.

>Were you very feminine when you were still presenting as a boy?


I am still am presenting as a boy, and will be for a long time, I'm planning on HRT but I don't think I'll pass until quite a while so I want until I can get FFS unless I pass before then

Nah I wasn't, I don't think so

Hmm, a lot of my separate friend groups + my parents came to the conclusion I was gay and I'm not really sure why because I've never mentioned my feelings about men to anyone to anons.

Hmm, once I went for a psychological evaluation and as part of it I had to give a questionnaire to a teacher, once of the question was how about how feminine/masculine my expression was and he put me down as androgynous

I have long well cared for hair and I'm always completely clean shaven

And my computer and room is comically girly looking - pink bed sheets, pink themes for every website I browse you get the idea

but aside from that I present as a stereotypically standard male, I guess even my interests are quite stereotypically masculine, I'm planning on going to uni very soon to study maths, and I know how to program and I enjoy playing video games.
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I've been bi since I developed a sexuality and still am just my preference toward guys increased with experience.
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>>8105158
>>8105097

Just out of curiosity, why are you asking me these questions?
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>>8104567
I'm mtf and I've never ever liked gay porn but I'm exclusively into men
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>>8105364
I want to know how mtf sexuality works because I've started liking guys even though I'm not on hrt. I feel the fuzzyness too.
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I was bi before hrt but it made me more physically attracted to women and more romantically attracted to men. So now I want to eat out gils and cuddle guys. Shits weird.
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>>8104578
Same here.

Still have a female preference though because men are terrifying.
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>>8105504
>because men are terrifying.
what do you mean?
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>>8105504
this
Men are so intimidating, I feel more comfortable with a girl
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>>8104540
Probably not?
I was attracted to women before (sort of. I was closer to asexual but whatever) and Now I am obnoxiously attracted to women. I do have attraction to guys sometimes though but they are usually so physically femme that they may as well be women. I guess ymmv?
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>>8104540
You will only find out by taking hrt.
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>>8105522
They're really aggressive, and when a trans woman is killed, it's always by a man. Also they're more likely to kill/beat their wives and children.

People will bring up the high domestic violence rate in lesbian relationships, but that honestly doesn't compare to the savage power of a man.
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I went from bi leaning women to bi leaning men

never used to dream about guys, never used to seek out qt guys like I do now
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>>8104540

I disagree with >>8104608's theory. There are girls who still recognize they are bisexual, but can't be with men because they remind them of the masculine features they have. There are also some who can't be with girls because they're reminded of the female features they don't have.

I personally believe >>8104628 is the truth. At least that's what happened in my case. I actually wondered if I'm gay at 14 after too many instances of feeling attracted to guys starting from the age of 11, but cut it short after something embarrassing happened. My conclusion was that I'm being silly and that I'm straight. It was only at 16 that the possibility of being bi entered my mind, and I barely considered it. I only accepted I was bi at 19 while skeptically browsing the "change in sexual orientation" threads here on /lgbt/.

>>8104793

It's changed both ways with bi girls, and there's still the chance she'll stay the same. Assuming there's an equal chance of the three (probably not) there's a 2/3 chance of her still liking girls. Why do you find her attractive if she's not on HRT though?

>>8104910

>I think I have the idea in my mind that women express their care for their partners less than guys express their partner.

I feel like this is the case too.
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>>8105791
>why do you find her attractive if she's not on hrt though
Well she's a really nice person, I guess I'm more attracted to her personality
And she already passes anyways
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>>8104540

People who post about this always include some sort of flustered reaction picture or stutter, like they’re nervous but secretly excited to start liking guys, as long as they don’t STOP liking girls. Relax OP and enjoy your new life as a bicycle.
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>>8105655
Interesting, that's a good point it can differ person to person
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