Gaybot Feels thread

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>>8101380
why don't you just join the person you have a crush on? If he rejects you because he doesn't want to hang out with you, you will get relief because you will know he doesn't want to be with you. If he accepts you, you have some slim chances of ending up with his dick in your mouth. Don't be such a pussy, alcohol can help you socialise with him.

>>8101380
i was like you untill i downloaded some apps and started dating, and working on self-improvement now i have my bara-dad boyfriend and life isn't so bad.

join us at boards.barachan.org

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>>8101483
>why don't you just join the person you have a crush on?

Because that would be... out of place. Sure, I like him, and he's friendly to me: but it would be over-reaching for me to impose myself so suddenly. Secondly, I'm not a social butterfly that can flutter around with ease during social occasions: even if he did allow me to hang out with him and his friends, I'd be quiet and spend the entire time regretting being there. Thirdly, I don't know if he even is as fond of me as I am of him. Sure, I always think of myself that he's really friendly: but perhaps he's like that with everyone, and not just me? Or maybe he's not being that friendly, and I'm merely clinging to every little time he directs himself to me, and allowing my feelings for him to amplify those little insignificant moments into more than they actually are.

And lastly: I don't want to create workspace drama. I work with the guy: if he knew I liked him, the whole office would know. And I live in Texas, and work for the Texas government, so we don't even have any protections against being fired because of being gay. Sure, I live in a Democrat area, but it only takes one person higher than me to not like it and mention it to management... And I'd rather not risk it.

But yes, I really like him. I think he's fucking cute: I love his boisterous personality and the way he calls me "Mr. Anon"; I like his little eccentricities, and I want to cuddle with him and make out with him and spend the night talking with him about all the things we like.

>>8101672

Get high and drunk with him then ask him. If he rejects you just play it off as a joke and makes you drink enough to forget it.

>>8101672
i am texas homo too
lots of hot dudes out here man,
I think you're doing the smart thing by playing it safe at work, maybe you or he will get another job or transfer and then you can make a move.

In the mean time you should try to build a normal friendship with him.

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>>8101380
>be me, gay
>parents sent me to college even though I didn't know what to study
>go for some meme liberal arts program
>near graduation, not many opportunities in my area
>probably gonna end up doing some fulltime wagecuck job like bank teller or loan collector

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>>8101672
>And I live in Texas, and work for the Texas government
Holy shit that is rough, i thought your problem was just social awkwardness.
Then i think you should try talking to him in private. Stalk him. Ask him what does he like, his hobbies, what does he hate... and share yours. Then after forging a kinda strong friendship, try hanging out with him and doing the stuff he enjoys, if it matches your preferences, but try doing it with nobody else arround (i gess(?)). Maybe you can bring this up when you are ready like "anon-sempai, i-i know i can trust you so i have to tell you that i'm gay *3 mins crying*" and maybe other day go further with it or something.

If you don't solve this problem with you crush, you will feel bad for a long ass time, but if you tell him and in the worst case scenario he rejects you (and since he is a bro he won't get you killed) in 1-2 years the pain will be gone and you can start fucking some cute ass bara dudes without feeling guilty.

I wish you the best of luck anon.

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>>8101802
This pretty much defines my life, too:

>be me, gay
>go to University and study to become a civil servant (i.e. meme liberal arts degree) because I'm not good at anything else
>graduate, and end up a NEET for a long time
>eventually wind up with this menial position in the government

>>8101809
>I thought your problem was just social awkwardness.

I mean, he probably isn't gay. Sure, I see some things that make me wonder if maybe he is gay, but I think that I'm probably biased, and distorting everything I see based on my desire to want to see a sign that he is.

Can you just kill me? I'm miserable in every respect.

>>8101565
It seems like gay dudes don't even date. I've used the apps and it's hard to differentiate between guys that want to date and guys that want sex. The lines seem to blur really quick and even if people want to date it's all very sexual.
The gay world just isn't a nice place for autists lol

>>8102654
in your description you need to say that you are looking for LTR or friends, when you hang with people make sure they understand that you are looking for MR right. You're open to being friends or dating but you aren't interested in sex. If they keep hanging out with you then you've got some direction. Maybe you've just made a good friend and that can blossom into something else, or maybe they really like you.

operating this way helps to weed out the people who just want to pump and dump

>>8101380
hi fellow texfags

op, not to throw cold water on your feels, but i crushed on a guy for the longest time--years--obsessively parsing his friendliness for signs of gay. he turned out to be straight. too bad i was too shy to ask him about it, maybe he could've put me out of my misery long ago. didn't work with him though, just school. being a coworker makes it tricky to deal with.

>>8102779
Even in guys that want to date they seem to fixate 99% of their energy into sex. I don't have much sex experience and I'm not really into that much fetishes so I have a hard time dating. I usually find stuff like camming and whatnot just tiresome but it's pretty much a requirement it seems like.

>>8102817
what the fuck are you talking about.... there are plenty of gays out there who just want to hang out and have brotime with a friend....
you are making all these weird assumptions dude

and yeah grown men get horny, especially single ones If they are interested in sex you need to be comfortable with the expectation that you may have to decline and state your intentions.... Most normal people will be perfectly OK with this.

Just let people know that you aren't opposed to sex if its someone that you can see yourself with in a long term relationship...

Generally speaking the less experience you have the more it means you aren't a disease ridden HO so that's not necessarily a bad quality.

Maybe there are some internal problems that you should work on like self esteem, self worthiness, working towards your career goals etc before you are mentally healthy enough to start dating.

>>8101380
im pretty much the same but five years earlier
im starting college and im likely going to fail, because I spend all day on my computer
at least im getting adhd meds next monday

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>i just want a bf to do stuff with
>want a bf taller than me and to overpower me but i'm 6'0 and do a lot of sports
>i just want to have someone to rely on and that someone to rely on me, just be there for eachother
>want to take photographs of him in nice places and go visit nice places
>want to just sit in my room and play with my cat and listen to music and just stay quiet and stare at eachother

why is life this unfair anons, i didn't want to be this lonely i just want some cuddles

>have shitty closet life before college, when I finally move far away from parents/hometown/crappy old life
>make friends with everyone, party, sex, dating, drinking, drugs, etc wild and crazy fun all the time
>get out all the pent up bullshit from years in the closet
>"having fun" gets boring by late 20s
>early 30s now and enjoy spending time at home and watching old movies and/or goofing around on 4chan

I don't drink anymore though, and I cook myself healthy foods.. and I don't really look at porn anymore, I just jerk off once in the morning while in the shower because it keeps me feeling clear-headed and I don't feel like such a degenerate pervert.

I feel pretty good actually, but it would be nice to meet a guy to spend my life with who's not a total fucking loser.

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Why is being gay so hard?

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>be me, 24yo
>family youngest lawyer
>still living with my parents
>conservative christian family
>unable to join social groups because meh, I'm too autistic and prefer to be alone most of time
>attracted to boys since I was 13
>had a girlfriend for about 5 years
>the only girl I've ever date
>we were constantly discussing
>too insecure and anxious about myself
>my only three gay experiences occurred when I was a boy
>suicidal thoughts during high school and law college
>anon, you're so smart, you could be whatever blablabla
>yes, but I wish I was dead or totally alone
>family presence destroys me
>felt ugly and inferior to another guys during all my life
>not sure if I'm really gay
>everytime I met a cool guy I broke up with him after the first signal of emotional dependence
>I can't deal with the most ridiculous "I love you" from a guy
>this totally freaks me out
>I should be at court making money but instead I'm locked out in my room most of time thinking in gay porn and romantic gay fantasys with handsome guys
>tfw life has no meaning
>still feeling like I'm the most unwanted and horrible person in the world

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>>8101380
>25
>khv
>aspie
>depression
>neet
>ugly
>scruffy
>not good at anything
>can't meet anyone
>don't really leave the house that often
>don't drink or go out or anything
>tried apps but too scared of anything actually happening
>just sit at pc most days pointlessly browsing surrounded by toys and games
>feel like I'm too broken to get anywhere if life without help

I just want a small cute guy I can have a nice quiet life with but I've got no way of meeting anyone and I'd be too scared to pursue anything

>>8107757
>"having fun" gets boring by late 20s
>early 30s now and enjoy spending time at home and watching old movies and/or goofing around on 4chan


>tfw this is my life at 22