How do I stop wanting to be a trap/woman when I know my face is too masculine to ever pull it off and I'll never have enough money to have surgery? It's a really shit feeling.
My face is good for a guy but I'm really short so it doesn't matter. I want to be cute, not handsome.
>>8084073
you're faking it so just stop. that's all there is too it.
>>8084076
Faking what?
>>8084076
And how would you know?
>>8084108
That's Caraposter, a repressing shitposter on /lgbt/ who likes telling people they aren't really trans.
>>8084108
nothing, ignore the village idiot
how long have you been dysphoric? do you think it will get worse if you ignore it?
maybe try hrt for a while if it gets really bad?
>>8084108
having GID, cucktard
>>8084154
cara you autist coward please go take out your self hate on something else
why would someone even lie about being unpassable
>>8084076
wheeeeeennnnn are you gonna be my friend?
>>8084132
Huh. Do they regret being trans or something? I'm not a regular here I just browse /cuteboys/ really.
>>8084144
Hmm I couldn't tell you exactly, I think I realised what it was around a year or two ago that I actually wanted to be feminine, it's hard to pinpoint exactly when it started because for most of my life (11 up) I decided to grow my hair long. Adults would confuse me for a girl sometimes and I would get embarrassed and later in life classmates would give me nicknames like Goldilocks and I wouldn't protest. I think with long hair I became a bit more feminine over time without realising it.
>do you think it will get worse if you ignore it?
Possibly... After I realised a year or two ago I got really into trying to do the right exercises and have the right diet to lower my T but didn't want to jump into hormones but after a bad online relationship I tried to put it all behind me to try and fix my life, become a man. But quite recently the thoughts have come back worse than ever, they come worst when I'm off of the computer going for a walk or to the shops or when I try to sleep.
>maybe try hrt for a while if it gets really bad?
I don't want to do this because it wouldn't change what my face looks like. It's sad, I have the right body type but I just can't knowing I wouldn't look much better. Perhaps I should try and sort my eyebrows out and try wearing some eyeliner or something but I doubt that will make much of a difference..
>>8084154
Why would I come here and ask for advice if I made it up? That doesn't make sense. I'm asking because I'm tired of having these conflicting thoughts all the time.
>>8084076
Are you finally on HRT now?
>>8084243
No he's actually mentally ill and stalks early transitioners and lives vicariously through them because he believes he doesn't deserve to transition
>>8084349
Sad
>>8084073
> I want to -
Sorry, OP. Short people can get love too, even if you're not cute. It's good, no need to feminize for that sake.
>>8084396
Hm alright, some of the manlet stuff has gotten to me I admit.
But there still remains the problem of having these thoughts of wanting to be a girl/feminine. How can I stop having them?
>>8084410
Manlet is a term used by dumb blondes and /b/-/pol/ crossposters. People aren't actually crazy and believe all short men are bad.
Look at Danzig, for example.
> image related
He's hunky as fuck and he's short. So many girls fan over him.
As for your feminine thoughts, fuck it, let it be a fetish. Don't go all out on it, but let it be a thing you do for fun. Drag, etc. Don't let it control your life just because you feel like shit.
>>8084421
That makes sense and is pretty encouraging. Thank you. I'll just have to accept it as a fetish and hopefully once I've come to terms with leaving it at that I can stop thinking about it so often.
>>8084481
Good job, anon. I got your back.
Best bet; taller dom chick who's into both.
Win win. They exist.
> motivation on the chan
>>8084073
if you really want it save up for the surgery.
>>8084076
>people are supposed to want to pay for this cancer's hormones instead of just letting him kill himself when he gets too old and masculine
>>8086471
Someone has bought Cara hormones.
>>8084073
have you tried getting a boyfriend anyway?
>>8092387
I've had online ones only
>>8087851
And they shouldn't have.
>>8094905
What's wrong with being kind?
>>8095069
They could buy any other less annoying person hormones instead.
>>8095095
Anyone is free to buy hormones for whomever they want. Why should you thinking someone is annoying change that?
>>8095101
That was a different anon. Why should kindness be shown to someone who has never been kind and in fact seems to seek out controversy?
>>8095189
Why shouldn't kindness be shown to everyone, however controversial?
>>8095215
If you like having shit thrown in your face and turning the other cheek so he gets your good side, you do you.