question for MTFs

>>8064479
I think the medical establishment defined the divisions that people are still arguing about now. It's pre stupid imo

>>8064479
This world has forsaken us. We are cursed with perpetual suffering. Even if we must create it for ourselves. It's the fate of all trannies to live in misery.

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>>8064479
But I'm not actually mtf

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>>8064479
We don't deserve love. Leave this place, chaser scum.

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>>8065276
I'm happy though.

because everyone has low self esteem (especially around their looks) and feels the need to bring others down to make themselves feel better

look at the threads where people post non-passers from reddit threads. "lol those hons amirite?"

or the general cattiness in mtfg

these people have suffered abuse from family members with bpd, npd, etc. and ended up just like them.

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EAT DICK QUEER FAGS

>>8065307
>these people have suffered abuse from family members with bpd, npd, etc. and ended up just like them.

D-DELET THIS

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>>8065317
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtxmvrndwI0

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>>8064479
>MtF
>BETAS

>>8065337
I don't think any kind of family therapy is gonna help, most of my wounds were inflicted by peers or people online.

>>8065365
>most of my wounds were inflicted by peers or people online.

trauma comes from your environment. family is just one aspect. all of the advice is just as applicable.

>>8065422
Okay, but how do I get over that? It's different with family, you can drag them to therapy and work through your trauma if you want, but I can't drag these people anywhere, they're not in my life anymore. Except for the fact that they're in my head every single day.... It just seems impossible, maybe it would be easier to recuse myself from relationships with other people from now on.

>>8065365
At least you weren't stalked thrown in jail imprisioned by a chaser, had your social media leaked for all the world to see called a hon til you had an emotional break down where doing anything remotely girly makes you cringe and yet you take hrt tho it does fuck all for your appearance but helps your depression and bdd. I really fucking hate that general so fucking much years of coddling manipulative assholes that I'd love to get back hell had I just repressed I'd probably be okay rather than the huge powder keg of anxiety I am today. It really makes your blood run cold when someone tries to ruin the life of a person they barely know and I'm pretty sure no matter your religious beliefs there is a portion of the afterlife set out for them that not very pleasant. The person that did these things to me they know who they are I may never know but I'll sit back and watch karma run its course we all get old and ugly that's an unavoidable fact of life.

>>8065287
I am sure we can fix that.

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>>8065430
>It's different with family, you can drag them to therapy and work through your trauma if you want
eh, most resources assume that isn't possible, because it usually isn't.

>It just seems impossible, maybe it would be easier to recuse myself from relationships with other people from now on.
seriously, stop being stuck in your head and just read and do this http://sfhelp.org/

or you can ignore me and post a smug anime girl and continue hating your existence

(and judging from your 2 posts, it seems like you closed the video 30 seconds in)

>>8065441
you can continue being the victim (which you seem to gain a lot from) or just try and work on your trauma.

>>8065465
I watched the video, I just didn't watch his other "inner-family therapy" video.

>>8064479
>Why won't you be nice to each other?

I wish I knew. Its why I stay the fuck away from other transwomen in real life.

>Bonus: Why won't you let other people be nice to you?


People usually arent that nice when they know you are trans, so when you encounter someone you dont know thats nice it raises so many red flags because someone being uncharacteristically is usually what happens the day before a news report about a dead transwoman is broadcasted.

>>8065465
How do you work on something that can't be fixed? Let's real talk here therapy can't fix everyone fact is most therapist are the most inept judgemental people on this planet they literally drain you of money that's all they do you smug fucks always say the same shit I've been in therapy since I was eight it does jack fucking shit. I still can't sleep at night I still feel terrified to go out alone or drive. It's easy to be like oh well you enjoy being a victim but all I want is a brain that functions normally I'd rather kill these urges then be a disgusting parody of a human being. A fucking man thinking he's a woman what a fucking joke.

many girls here have been socialized by 4chan, have a lot of internalized transphobia, turning them into uncle toms that like to punch down because they think it validates their own identity more.

"Happy", self-secure MtFs only go on these kinds of ebin meme communities on passing occasions.

Same can be said for all types of people really.

>>8065342

>Do not have sex
>Limited porn use
>Secure in sexuality
>Unattractive
>Healthy weight (near the edge of overweight)
>Unemployed
>Believe ignorance is beta
>Intelligent and an intelligence test along with school experience back it up while aware of not being a genius, admitted deficiency in street smarts
>Exercise about once in two weeks, too low
>I'll go ahead and say I have a bad diet even though I only drink water and eat salad as part of lunch
>Was respected all the way to the end in school by peers, last time admiration was received from a little brother was 14 years ago
>Dream of self-improvement
>Unrealistic and arrogant have been long-standing character traits, appear to be improving over time, the arrogance more so
>Somewhere in between right and left political views
>Overly serious, but wouldn't say defensive

>>8064479

I fully agree and support OP's post. It is like some external force is pitting us against each other to fight and squabble amongst ourselves. (like watching bum fights or something)

We break ourselves up into extra groups for further divisions based on pseudo science etc. It is nuts.

As for the other people being nice. I don't honestly feel that all that much. I don't post in Mtfg because I can't stand the autism that happens there so I just lurk and post in slower threads from time to time.

We need to be better to each other. Not for some SJW tumbler bullshit, but becasue a lot of people on this board are pushing each other into deeper states of mental depression than they should be. Things suck for MTF's sure, but they don't suck as bad as this board makes it out to sound!!

>>8065283
Actually I am just an FTM confused by your cruelty to eachother on this board and I want you all to get better

>>8064479
Because I'm not a dirty Commie.

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>>8065278

>>8065342
>Alpha
>Right leaning views

Oh, Hey /pol/, your up late.

>>8066677
How can you be alpha and a leftist?

>>8066700
>How can you be alpha and a leftist?

Political beliefs have no bearing on your made up alpha/ beta nonsense.
Go back to /pol/ and let the fags fag things up in peace you fucking cuck.

>>8066700
Uh, have you seen what the guys at /pol/ actually look like IRL? They're not alphas bro

>>8066763
Nobody said /pol/ weren't betas.