It's official. I'm gay.
Or bi. I don't really care at this point. I get so aroused when I look cute boys my age and now I think I'm ready to pursue them sexually.
I don't know if this board has people willing to share advice or if it's just a meme/troll board, either way.
I've always felt drawn to certain boys but being raised traditionally there was deep shame I had to deal with first - clearly I'm kinda over that now.
None of my family members or friends know (at least I don't think they do, I'm pretty much your average guy guy) and if they were too find out well that's life I suppose.
I still have a healthy interest in attractive women but I've reached the point I'm at now and given the fact that I've never been able to express my desires towards the same sex I literally have no idea what to do.
I made a transsexual friend not too long ago that I was active with but we both figured out trans wasn't my thing. I have a strong attraction towards twinks. So sexual confusion is out of the way too.
Today, I hit the Grindr app, saw what's good and started engaging with a few hotties. Traded a few pics and now I'm excited to meet up with one or two of them but don't know how to ask.
I don't want to come off as desperate. My current living situation won't allow me to have boys over. And I'm very selective about who I engage with on this thing anyway.
I had a boy tease me sexually on here and I engaged back but that's all it was I guess, just a tease. (And as stated above I want to engage)
From my understanding Grindr is a fuckfest (lmao) and I should be able to make a few friends haha
but I guess asides from just sharing all this -
Do you guys have any advice for me? Regarding literally anything. Dating? Hook ups? The whole "self-acceptance" of being gay thing? etc.?
Other than anyone who reads, I haven't told a soul.
And I don't know if anything I said is ignorant, I'm new to all this :P
>it's another "I want to fuck boys that look like girls therefore I'm part of LGB now"
Look, if you don't exclusively want to get fucked by hairy muscle-fat bears then you're not Gay or Bi, you're just a poser.
>seeking genuine advice
>so he goes to 4chan
I should have known better :)
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>>8038880
Yeah this board is probably not the best for asking for advice unless you're trans and even then a lot of people are trolls. You're bi it happens it's really not a big deal. Gay guys are pretty easy if you go to grindr but most are sluts and only want sex and a lot of gay guys will cheat on you if you do enter a relationship with them.
>>8038955
I guess that aligns with all I wanted to hear. Thanks!