how i get guys to like me? do i just have to be nice to them

>>8036346
step 1 read better webcomics than op related

>>8036346
If they don't like you when you're being yourself then they aren't worth the trouble.

>>8036504
I don't even know if I am being myself. I get nervous that they'll think I'm annoying or something.

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Idk, how do i get guys not to like me?

I've been got on by more guys them female sexual partners by far, and i don't know why.

I'm an hairy Irish redneck who's slightly over weight (6'3" 215lbs) yeah im a nice guy, but i have had a disproportionate amount of men ask to engage me in a homosexual manner, like 10x more than all my friends combined.

I'm 31 and Since i was 19 I've had no less than 20 males ask to engage in homosexual conduct.


Picture unrelated.

>>8036346
Cis or trans?

>>8037492
I wanna see a pic pls. You don't need to show your face if you dont wanna.

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>>8037547
This is the most recent pic i have. It was from a Woodstock revival party with my ski club

>>8037547
I'm not a sexy guy, as far as i know. I'm fairly certain it's a result of my awesome personality. I've been told I'm like an anime character in the way i can make friends with anyone, hell i have more than once pet wild animals.

You have to be exactly what they like and never deviate from it. Which of course is extremely subjective but then that's why gay people are so goddamn lonely

>>8037504
Normal

>>8037606
>woodstock
>ski club
im in, what state?

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>>8037504
op here. cis

>>8036346
Nope, just tried being nice to someone and got rejected for being too nice.

>>8037492
>>8037606
be my bf please

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>>8039121
is there like a way to strike a balance between nice and all the other stuff

>>8038667
It's a New York ski club, there's about 350 members, the club owns a house in Ludlow Vermont, that sleeps 60 people or so. If that's in your area of gladly point you in the right direction to join, we always welcome members

The Woodstock party was on one of the bus trips we have each year. Each trip usually has a themed party which always is a blast.

>>8039129
Idk about being your bf yet, but I'd meet and have a nice cup of tea and we could Talk first.

What is some info about you?

>>8036346
Feed them.

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>>8039886
what do they like?

>>8040365
Find out what they like, and make it for them.
Cake is a good universal thing. That, and sandwiches. Guys love having sandwiches made for them.
Otherwise, guys love hugs as well. Or possibly try asking them for help on something and reward them with a hug, or some home-made food.

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>>8040546
it feels like if I do that, he'll think I'm desperate or that I want attention

>>8036346
You can change to initially attract guys in ways that are uncomfortable for you if you are utterly dedicated to being miserable or you can do things that make you personally feel fulfilled and also put yourself out there at the same time and let life run its course.

A word to the wise, you will never develop a stable relationship on the basis of "we're boyfriends now." You should get to the point where you are boyfriends with another single guy in everything but name and THEN say you're in a relationship once you spend large amounts of time together. If you don't do that, your relationship is doomed.

>>8040735
>he'll think I'm desperate or that I want attention
But you are and you do.

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>>8040763
how would I do that?

>>8039297
sry friendo, im on the other coast
>tfw no ski bum bf

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>>8036346
Also curious....for a friend...

>>8040763
Can I actually talk to you about that? Why would you spend a lot of time with someone before you date them? Don't you know pretty soon after you meet them if you want to date them? Putting up a stigma around the word boyfriend like being in a relationship is scary is as big of a red flag as boys who want to move in after 2 weeks.

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>>8043038
so instead of dating you just stick to talking to them right?

>>8036346
Most of its outside your control, so just focus on yourself and something might pass by and stick

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>>8042229
>tfw none of my friends ski anymore.

Someone please ski with me

>>8044731
ive never been skiing is it fun

>>8044735
Is great, going 50+mph on 2 planks of wood is a rush that haven't found anywhere else. But you need to enjoy the cold a bit