Is /r/asktg really lame or ami wrong here?

>>8034621
Asktg is a hon board that thinks transitioning in your 20s isn't too late. Doesn't help that you have 30-50 year old hons saying they pass or fail boymode at 3 months in.

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I personally think she's going to regret not taking him up on his obvious come ons.

Like I would be stoked if qt fucking 6'7" firefighter got on top of me and held me down lol. Wtf is her deal.

Am I tripping here?

>>8034631
> Doesn't help that you have 30-50 year old hons saying they pass or fail boymode at 3 months in.

True. There is some sadness over there but this is crazy to me.

>>8034631
>transitioning in your 20s isn't too late.

Like 20-21 or 25+?

>>8034666

That's a meme 2bh.

Transitioning at 20 is totally fine.

>>8034632
>>8034621
It sounds like a fantasy tbqhfam

>>8034672
It depends entirely on the person, my gf looked 14 and was 5'4" when she was 20 (started transitioning) but you could be 20 and a 6'4" hulk.

>>8034666
Varies. 25+ and it's almost a guarantee that you won't pass. <25 is pretty much all genetics and luck.

>>8034673

Every fucking comment in that thread and her update is like "you go girl for dumping him", "standing up for yourself!" it's just seems weird to me.

That is kinda an immature thing for him to do but he's like 20 years old lol. I just don't get it.

If it is fake why wouldn't it be more positive?

Idk why I care so much lol.

I am like super liberal and feminist too. It sounds like he just wanted an excuse to get on her. It's pretty obvious.

>>8034691
It sounds like something I would do when I was 20 desu, though I probably wouldn't say "I could rape you right now", that's a bit much

>>8034689
>>8034682

Passing 100% or looking like a pretty woman aren't necessarily the same thing.

I look like a trans woman. I think I am kinda pretty and men hit on me but I totally look transgender.

I don't care so much about passing. So that's the trade off.

>>8034699
>that's a bit much

true. That was a little weird but more just immature. He probs watches too much porn.

>>8034621
>disgusting sexual jokes
No prizes for guessing she's HSTS.

>>8034713
>No prizes for guessing she's HSTS.

I thought HSTS would be the most feminine and exclusively into men explain plz

>>8034722
She find his very low lewdness sexual joke to be disgusting.

>>8034745

Yeah but finding a dumb joke disgusting = hsts

lol I don't get it.

Ever seen Amy Schumer? Her jokes are disgusting and women think she's funny.

I guess I just don't know the point they're/you're making.

HSTS are trutrans and trutrans don't find sexual jokes funny?

>>8034745
Even cis girls like to be lewd with their SOs. This is just called being a prude.

>>8034759
If someone finds a sexual joke like that disgusting are they more likely to be a man or a woman?

>>8034762
Some cis girls are prudes.

>>8034632
>>8034621
I can't believe people unironically like men

>>8034789

So I would find the spit joke stupid but funny coming from a cute guy friend. I would laugh.

It really depends on what's being said and who they are.

>>8034808

Men are fucking hot.

>>8034814
If I asked you to guess whether >>8034808 was a man or a woman, which would guess?

>>8034808

You have to deal with stupid shit but men are fun.

>>8034828
>You have to deal with stupid shit

You have no idea.

t. attracted to women

>>8034828
>>8034889
what is men's stupid shit?

>>8034926

hur hur I am going to rape you.

They are just insensitive and dumb sometimes. I don't think they mean it.

>>8034936
that was exceptional but what's the normal stupid shit?

>>8034948

"Why are you so upset I was only joking" is the most normal male thing I have ever heard.

Most men are just insensitive. I think applies to most of my interactions with men.

"God you look like shit when you wake up" - my dad

"You're so bad at that thing your doing at work" my male coworkers.

"I just want to go out tonight, I don't want to talk"

Ok this last one is fucked up but when I got molested by a hitchhiker my good friend says "that sucks but you probably won't pick up a hitchhiker again eh?"

>>8034673

Pretty much.
Have a hard time taking that story seriously.

That's as real as one of the hons saying that they are passing after 3 weeks of HRT.
Muuuuuuuuh boy

>>8034969
>"God you look like shit when you wake up" - my dad
>"You're so bad at that thing your doing at work" my male coworkers.
>"I just want to go out tonight, I don't want to talk"
what would you rather they say?

yes the last one was bad.

>>8035003
>what would you rather they say?

>"God you look like shit when you wake up"

Good morning honey.

>You're so bad at that thing your doing at work" my male coworkers

Not comment cause I always get my work done and I didn't ask for help.

>"I just want to go out tonight, I don't want to talk

"When I get home from hanging out with my friends, we should have dinner somewhere!"

Idk. They're just mean sometimes.

>>8035068
>Good morning honey.
you're being oversensitive.

>Not comment cause I always get my work done and I didn't ask for help.
if you weren't bad at it why do they say that?

>"When I get home from hanging out with my friends, we should have dinner somewhere!"
that's wanting a different thing, not saying a different thing.

>>8035086
>you're being oversensitive.

He was mean dude lol he made me cry.

>if you weren't bad at it why do they say that?

Why say anything at all? It's not going to make me better.

>that's wanting a different thing, not saying a different thing.

k that's true.

What are we doing here lol

All I am saying is that in my life generally men aren't as sensitive to my feelings.

>>8035113
>He was mean dude lol he made me cry.
then tell him not to say things like that because you're sensitive to them.

>Why say anything at all? It's not going to make me better.
so you know to practice or ask for help or tips or do a different thing the job involves.

how are men to know your feelings? they aren't telepaths.

>>8035135
>how are men to know your feelings? they aren't telepaths.

But I don't say mean things and when I do I apologize.

I don't think it's crazy not to be told I look like shit haha. It's just not something I would ever say to someone.

When I am mean I feel like I know I am doing it when I do it.

I just think they don't care about others feelings or they think they're funny.

>so you know to practice or ask for help or tips or do a different thing the job involves.

They aren't even better than me! I know how to do my work, making jokes about how the little things I do wrong feels like they just can't critique me anything else. It's just silly.

>>8034621
>>8034632
not everyone likes it when people come on too strong. It's called incompatibility, and it'd be boring if everyone liked the same thing.

>>8035185
>It's just not something I would ever say to someone.
because you consider very different things to be mean than them.

>>8035225

ur a werido. Do you really not see my point?

>>8035222

Everyone including the OP is acting like he assaulted her. Where I think he just came on strong too.

That's why I posted this tho.

>>8035262
>ur a werido. Do you really not see my point?
genuinely yes.

>>8034621
>>8034632

I might repost this thread to /r/4chan and maybe someone from some other board here will do what you've done and repost Reddit.

>>8035299

Do it and post it here

The update is hella funny

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/62zwpr/update_on_my_best_friend_being_an_abusive_creep/

>>8037871
Shit, why didn't she mention how abusive he was before?

Happy ending though!

>There are people in this thread okay with this shit

And that's how you become added to the count of dead transwomen each year.

I would be thrilled if a guy did that to me (not even mtf) but in the update, yeah he was a psycho. She didn't tell the whole story in the first post.

>>8038510

That's how I feel. If it were just the first one, pretty hot. Second one, no thank you.

>>8038472

So the conclusion is, a lot of you are prudes.

>>8035262
>Everyone including the OP is acting like he assaulted her.
He did though. He forced unwanted physical contact on her in a sexual sense after she told him not to, and he did it specifically to scare the hell out of her and make her feel unsafe.

Or do you think it's ok to grab girls and force your body on them while saying "I could totally rape you now" while they yell at you not to.

No please, rationalize your thought process for the class. I'll wait.

>>8039714
Kinky, rough sex is consensual by nature. Even if you're into extreme rape-play, this stuff is discussed and agreed upon beforehand with a safe word that is both respected and heeded. It's about the simulation of danger in a completely safe and controlled environment. You don't just grab a girl yelling "no," force yourself on her, and play it off as innocent boys will be boys hornball bullshit. That's a disgusting mindset and an insult to people who are actually into kink and rough play.

>>8039734
>He did though. He forced unwanted physical contact on her in a sexual sense after she told him not to, and he did it specifically to scare the hell out of her and make her feel unsafe.

They seemed to be flirting. In my head I imagine this big strong guy saying some stupid shit like that and getting real close to my lips and saying "I wouldn't let that happen to you though" and kissing me hard.

Then we would finally fuck after three god damn months of flirting and kissing.

Focusing only on the first post, I wouldn't have turned him down.

It would have been hot. He misread the signals and did a dumb thing but if I were her, I would have been flattered.

Dude is according to her, a tall, strong, firefighter. Has friends and love interests. He can't be that weird.

>>8039747

I guess I put myself her shoes and can't help but think I would have enjoyed it.

>>8034632

Hahaha tfw that's exactly how my rapist initiated my rape.

He'd probably have raped her for real eventually if he carried on like that. She may be a hon but she's well rid. Better than wishing he'd just fucking killed her every day for probably life.

>>8034691

They're kind of right tho. Idk maybe I'm just being a rapevictim but I'd definitely clock that behaviour as a red flag. If he thinks it's jokefunny he might actually autistically believe rape itself is fine.

>>8039747

>runs out of room crying
>consensual

trannies are autists autists are trannies

>>8044563

I think the joke could have been that the joke was so bad. The humor can come from taking serious taboos and making light.

Doctors and cops make fucked up jokes to cope with the world. It's not all that out of the ordinary for someone to have a dark sense of humor.

I'm not saying this applies to this guy as obviously dude ended up psycho but I'm just saying that he's not a rapist just because you make a dumb joke. Sorry about your shrink btw.

>>8044559
>Hahaha tfw that's exactly how my rapist initiated my rape.
Was he your boyfriend first too or what?