So I think I'm a bi dude, or I'm coming to terms with being a bi dude. I want to find out for sure, and I feel like the only real way is to see one up close. So my question is this, what is the best way to find some no strings attached sex? Anonymity is key because I'm paranoid as fuck that I'll get found out by someone I know. Halp.
>>7961063
1. grindr
2.don't post a face pic just your torso
this limits your responses but if your torso is good you should be okay
if people ask for a face pic tell them you're not out yet
3. don't say you're bi, it turns off most gay men
4. put "discreet" in your profile or "D/L" (downlow)
5. don't invite people home just say you "can't host"
6. don't give out your phone #
if you live in a small town try craigslist instead or go to your local gay bar or try the bathrooms in the park at sunset or in the department store on weekend mornings. watch out for undercover cops in these places. (let them make the first move and try to take it to a safer/more isolated spot before actually having sex after confirming that they are interested)
Why do people always ask "what am I?". I thought common sense put this nonsense theory to rest.
If I wanna try manicotti, I dont ask myself if I am an Italian. Wanting to try something or liking it doesn't 'make' you anything.
I guess there's a lot of pressure to pick social identities or something. Which would explain the arguments and confusion.
>>7961266
You would ask yourself "am I 'someone who likes manicotti'?"
>>7961272
I guess, sure. It makes a lot more sense. At least its a more honest perspective without nutty ideas attached.
This exchange has revealed two things to me:
I am hungry, and I am having Italian tonight.
I'm such a simple, transparent creature.
>>7961542
>going out with boyfriend tonight
>we both agree on a good, upper scale local burg place
>now I want Italian
Fuck this board, it's ruined my life