So I came out as gay the other night and this morning I get some messages from the girls in my social group saying that I have internalized homophobia because of the fact that I don't act gay.
Is it ok for me to slap them or would that be something a flamer would do?
Tell them that you're, you and happy with who you are and that enforcing negative stereotypes like flamers is bad for the movement.
>>7945639
Where do you meet people like that?
>>7945639
They'd start calling you misogynistic if you did that.
>>7945666
I essentially said they but then they said I am brainwashed by society to act hetero-normative.
>>7945639
A man never slaps a lady.
>>7945685
agree with them, then tell them to fuck off
in a way they're right, we're ALL """brainwashed""" by society to act normal. the difference is that your friends are neo-liberal retards who think that anything normal is bad.
they aren't bad people they're just pretentious and imposing. like that image that people like to post that has the SJW person explaining racism to a black guy
>>7945639
Tell them They dont act straight. Then call them fags. Them wait an see if they learn..
>>7945639
>things that didn't happened
Post proof fag or stfu
>>7945685
Ask them where they got their idea of how a gay man acts.
>>7946221
they told me to go to a gay bar and learn about my culture
Tell them they are homophobic for assuming all homosexuals look and act the same. That's offensive as fuck.
>>7946225
Tell them they don't act like the media portrays them in bars either.
>>7945639
>I have internalized homophobia because of the fact that I don't act gay.
They're right.
It isn't your fault though.
You are a reflection of the society you grew up in.
There is nothing wrong with having internalized homophobia since it is only directed at yourself and now that you are "out" it will lessen dramatically.
Tell them "thanks for pointing out the obvious can we move on to important topics of conversation like where are those nachos?" and move on.
It's not worth getting into a fight with them over things they know nothing about.
They are obviously just trying to let you know that they care about you and that they know "homosexual stuff" even though clearly they don't know shit.
Tell them cunts like them are why you are gay.
>>7946249
>They're right.
>It isn't your fault though.
>You are a reflection of the society you grew up in.
Now tell me what that means without saying that if I don't start limping my wrist and increasing my surprised excitement reactions by 10 then I am an internalized homo
inb4 masc fag
I'm not even masc but honestly I would rather be a weight lifting masc fag than a real fag
>>7946277
this
>using the term "internalized homophobia" unironically
only in America loool
>>7945639
Tell them they're stereotyping you and you will report them to the queer police if they don't stop.
They'll probably think it's legit.