I'm a 21 year old male virgin. I fap a lot and I've gone through many fetishes, and now recently I've started fapping to "femboys", "traps" and men in skirts. I think I get turned on by it because of its taboo nature and that because I have 0 game with women, it's probably more realistic for me to fap to "femboys".
I really rather not be bisexual though. I've never been a very "masculine" man though. Was she at sports as a kid and back in Elementary I was the "shy and sensitive" kid.
>>7920795
Was shit* at sports
Typo
Uh, you're just attracted to men and women, like if given the option to pursue one or the other you'd ultimately be indifferent if it was based solely on genitalia.
That may be too broad, though.
Annnnd, fapping to femboys/etc./etc. is a gray area (feel gross saying that but best way to describe) in the sense... it's a fetish.
I'm a bad example, but I'll occasionally get off to things involving men even though I'm almost exclusively attracted to women.
But you could be bisexual, do you get a tingly feeling at the idea of dating a man? I knew I was gay when all the attractions I had to women were romantic and all the attractions I had to men were carnal or a means to justify I was attractive because I was an insecure kid, lmao.
>>7920821
No, I do not get tingly on the idea of dating men. It's really only when I lay on my bed and start browsing porn that I get the urge to fap to men in skirts. (The skirt is critical).
I wish I had a gf...
But I can't get gf without friends, and I don't even have those.
The reason I had posted this thread is because I had just gotten done with fapping to femboys over in /gifs/. Felt really dirty and rotten afterward.
>>7920857
>Felt really dirty and rotten afterward.
probably repression
accept it as a little kink (what do you like in porn isn't necessarily what would you do in bed)
>>7920795
If you got a bf/gf would you feel like you were "missing out" on being with the other sex?
That's how you know.
Orientation labels are mostly useful for social reasons, they're not some kind of natural category. Calling yourself bi is a way to communicate to people what you're looking for in the future and/or what experiences you've had in the past. If you wanna fap to femboys go ahead and fap to femboys, if you want some shorthand for that call yourself bicurious or into femininity or heteroflexible or whatever, in the end it's more of a quick way to state a preference than the full-fledged identity people like to turn it into.
I think you might find the Kinsey scale interesting. I would guess you're a 1 on that.
>>7920795
Stop masturbating
>>7920795
Think of it this way: would you have sex with an average man? would you have sex with the average woman?
If you wouldn't have sex with an average looking man, just don't write yourself off as bi. Its not wrong to have diverse sexual interest, and it shouldn't strain your thought about your own sexuality. Yeah, traps and fembois are kinda gay, but that doesn't mean you're a bisexual flat out. Now if you startmasturbating to the thaught of BEING the femboy, thats another thing entirely.
>>7920857
you are simply prison gay
i'm a 23 years old prison gay myself
i'm shy, introverted, submissive, timid....
these qualities make me unable to get women
i finally gave up and installed grindr when I was 21 years old
honestly i have no idea what advise to give...
I wish i was born either a chad or a pretty girl honestly
>>7922296
not being born something doesn't mean you can't ever be it.
>>7922416
i wont ever be a good looking boy or a girl
i could change my personality (I *could* as in it is not literally impossible) and i'll be a bad looking assertive male. Better than my current situation probably. I still dont think it'd be worth the effort. Its easier to just succ dick.
>>7922395
Nerd here. I have 0 desire of installing Grindr. I don't want to have actual sex with men. Although, I also don't want to install Tinder because it requires a Facebook account and I don't really like hookup culture. I desperately want a gf, but also some friends. I have neither. Currently in college. I can't connect with any of these assholes.
>>7922478
it took me 2 years to actually consider having sex with boys after i started fapping to twink porn
as for tinder, unless you are at least a 6/10, don't degrade yourself by even giving it a shot