Why are the only people interested in me autistic fat guys that are virgins.
>Decide to give grindr another shot
>Make a profile
>*buzz*
>"ooh i got a message"
>check message
>it reads "dude you're hot"
>Thanks.jpg
>look at his picture
>Fat guy
>i say to him "sorry not my type bro"
>a couple minutes later
>*buzz*
>check picture
>another fat guy.
>this cycle repeats 7 time
>7 TIMES
>delete grindr
how the hell do i find a normal bf? god damn
>>7913954
Maybe your standards are too high?
Maybe you're just ugly.
>>7913954
>go to a concert that you think will have the LGBT crowd there
>bring cigarettes
>ask a cute human if they need one
>good luck
>>7913961
i'm no George clooney, but i'm bot exactly the elephant man either, just an average looking guy desu. i also work out and have a decent weight and body shape.
>>7913968
which concerts should i go to?
i've literally never been to a concert, been to gay bars and stuff. met my last bf from my workplace.
>>7913991
i don't listen to electronic music anymore because i've been diagnosed with schizophrenia and it increases my symptoms but those type of club events are a good place to start. the genre deep house has a bit of the LGBTQ community there, plus the music isn't so overpowering that you can have a conversation.
something like tegan and sara would have that crowd there, just brainstorming.
but seriously, outside a club/concert and having cigarettes is in my opinion the best/easiest way to talk to new people and i have pretty bad social anxiety.
>>7914014
>tfw i dont even smoke
idk anon, is there another way? i dont want to do anything unhealthy.
i'll give it a shot though, ill ask a few mates if they go to any places like that.
>>7914048
there are other ways that require more confidence and skill, but I am no pickup artists. maybe if you go to one of these events and see a bunch of guys dancing together join in with a friend, and keep it semi platonic, maybe if one makes eye contact with you say something like "this DJ is pretty good huh?" IDK, you can do it!
>>7914076
thanks for the advice and encouragement man, Appreciate it.
You're probably just ugly OP.
Sorry desu
>>7913954
I would kill for a chub bf tbqh
>>7914622
to each his own bro, it's not my thing.
if you want i can hook you up with a few of them.
i know so many it's not even funny anymore/
>>7913954
>>7913981
I am the same as you. Ive been on Okcupid and pof for almost a year now and it's just gross fat guys virgins or otherwise. They go for cute twinkish guys because most twinks are sluts.
>>7913961
>maybe your standards are too high
This is what the fat people I turn down say
>be blubber filthy fat sack who takes only the best pics of their unwashed form
>see 7/10 boy (me)
>HEY LET'S FUCK CUTIE
>get turned down
>FUCK YOU AND YOUR HIGH STANDARDS
Every time
>>7914819
I would ask for these chubby guys but LOCATION is my main concern
>>7913954
>I see the thread and I think it's something serious or interesting.
If you do not like fat guys, it's your problem.
>>7914048
Smoke weed instead
>>7916803
If you don't like the gym, it's your problem
>>7913954
That's your fault for using Grindr your fucking faggot. You're probably an ugly autistic virgin yourself.
Non autistic virgins who are attractive would actually be socializing in real life, and not be usingsex apps for hook ups.
>>7913954
Post your height,weight and a face pic. Either you are telling the truth and are in a poor location or you are closer to their level than you think.
>>7913954
Post the pic you used for your profile and blur your eyes.
>>7913954
Could be worse.
You could have the people on my grindr.
>>7913954
I got over a thousand messages a day on Grindr mostly from attractive fit guys.
>>7920153
I legitametely don't believe that's possible. Even if you were 10/10 and live in LA I don't believe that would ever happen. Stop bullshitting
>>7920140
Here's mine
>>7920181
I'd go on a date with any of them except the blue haired guy. Meanwhile I'm stuck with THIS
>>7920193
Yeah that sucks for you tbqh
I'm at a college campus meaning there's bound to be a good amount of at least 7/10's around here
>>7920205
Yup. I could make a circus freak show out of these people
>>7920219
And another
>>7914014
>i don't listen to electronic music anymore because i've been diagnosed with schizophrenia and it increases my symptoms
Whoah what the fuck? Can you elaborate? I've never heard of this before.
>>7920228
>>7920167
I live in London. It happened. Maybe not all of the guys who messaged me were fit and atttactive but I'd pretty much only meet fit and attractive guys.
I'm assuming you just live in a rural area where the gays aren't as competitive to look beautiful.
>>7920256
Wolverhampton. It's called the shithole of Britain for a reason
>>7920140
I would prefer a fatty than those people
>>7920140
>snakey, mickey
>>7920344
>>7920362
Well at least there's other young cute guys-
Oh wait
The only people using online dating apps are losers who can't talk to people IRL. Don't be surprised that everyone else is a loser.
>>7915495
THIS
We are the same anon. *hug*
>>7916792
England
>>7920888
>England out of all places
Damn
t. SoCal cub
>>7920812
I used tinder and got a few girls off there, not all are losers desu. Maybe other dating sites, but hookup apps aren't for losers
I guess I'm lucky then?
>>7913954
Nigga, you obviously aren't a great catch either or you wouldn't need fuckin Grindr. Your unrealistic standards got you thinking you deserve better when in reality, you don't know your place. Give some ugly fucker a chance, at least then you can bust a nut.
>>7921002
Is that Spain?
>>7921079
Chile.
If anything, I'm the less hot in that picture (and it's made even worse by the terrible thumbnail I chose)
>>7921084
Nah you're fine
Love the nipple piercings
>>7921119
Thanks. Had to take the right (left on that pic) one off because it was lopsided and ugly.
Waiting for it to heal so I can get it again, at a better parlor.