Bottom reluctant to bottoming

>>7853608
step 1) become less of a jerk
step 2) stop pressuring him to do something he doesn't want to do
step 3) pleasure one another in ways you are both comfy with

I was with a guy whose dick was 9 inches or something and it just hurt every time. Felt like my insides were being rearranged. Maybe he/she knows their limits and you're just being pushy. Being a bottom doesn't mean you're a complete pushover.

>>7853608
>not slowly anal training your sissy with increasingly larger buttplugs

I think I am bisexual and want to try anal sex. I only get off to being on bottom, like I feel no attraction toward getting blowjobs from other men or penetrating them, only feel attracted toward giving head and getting fucked. Any advice for getting ready for being bottom?

>>7853785
Use alot of lube. Don't start out riding.

>>7853608
rape him

>>7853659
Yes it does, that's the whole point of a being a bottom. You are below. You submit to the superior man, who has the right to defile you whenever he wants. The only way you can earn back the respect is by fighting him and winning, otherwise, bend over and stop talking.

>>7853608
>Jesus fucking crist, he's been like a fucking woman.
>wanting a man to take the woman's role then complaining when he acts like one

>>7853670
This

Just get set of multiple plugs, lube, and let it train
In few days, I transformed from someone scared by dicks to a cock craving bottom

>>7854032
T H I S
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>>7854032
You can have gay sex without being into the BDSM stuff (although I really do recommend the BDSM stuff)

>>7854032
HOT

>>7854067
>>7854131

Thanks :)

>>7854108
Doesn't have to be BDSM, the bottom needs to know he's the bottom, and that his bottom belongs to the top.

>>7854421
that's pretty BDSM, m8

>>7854430
Eh how, theres no sado masochism there

>>7854442
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominance_and_submission

>>7854451
It says it sometimes crosses into it, but meh. You win.

>>7854421
That's pretty much bdsm.
Usually whenever I have sex we just gently cuddle while he fugs my butt

>>7853608
Step 1. before even putting your penis anywhere near their butt do some finger play and small dildos
2. move on to slightly larger buttplugs
3. once they are used to it after a few weeks you can try your dick but go VERY VERY SLOW and let them control the penetration

5. If they still wont do it date someone else.

>>7854032
How do you know he's a bottom if you haven't even stuck your dick in him?

>>7854032
lol

>>7854032
This is my fetish. Why isn't there more porn that reflects this.

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>>7853622
fpbp

>>7854032
this is hot as roleplay during sex but if you genuinely hold this view outside of the bedroom you probably need to ask for more medication from your therapist

>>7853608
If you want to fuck more than your bottom is comfortable with either find another way to make this work, namely YOU being the bottom as well, or find someone else.

>>7853659
>I was with a guy whose dick was 9 inches or something
Give me his number.

>>7854108
>>7854430
>>7854477
but there's no bondage in it, only dominance and submission.

>>7856918
Deleted his number off my phone and it's unlikely he'd be interested in anyone, I kind of broke his heart.

>>7856940
You fucking asshole how dare you? How did he look btw?

>>7856944
I maintain it wasn't my fault since I candidly told him over and over I didn't want a relationship but he was pretty lonely and he has a thing for CDs/sissies/MtFs. Convinced himself there was nobody else around him interested at all (Lives in New York) and only wanted me even though I made it plain I'm completely insane and just wanted him to cum in my ass and chat once in a while.

Anyway he was a skinny skelly and like an inch shorter than me, didn't mind it too much, didn't have a rugged masculine look I prefer but it's not like I was looking at him much when he was holding my head into the mattress.

>>7856982
What about his skin color? What did he liked to do for a hobby?

Still have his skype or something similar?

>>7856998
I don't have any appropriate reaction images to your proposal, were you interested in chasing someone down just because of their dick size?

Here are my tips:
1)Choose the right lube, silicone >> water based
2)have him clean out right before you start fucking. He will be much more relaxed that way.
3)finger him until he is comfortable. Focus on his prostate and you will feel his rings relax.
4)skip the condoms. Makes it easier to stop, give him a break, then go back when you are ready.
5)Find the position that works best. On his back with his legs up will help open him up.

>>7857007
Not really, it's not even like I'm actually interested in a relationship at this point, but I'm curious about people and their lives, this idea that someone would:
>have problems because their dick is too big
>have trouble finding feminine men when it's such a common kink
>have their heart broken because he wanted a relationship and the other person didn't
Just seems too interesting to me.

>>7857016
Well, okay. I don't have any means of contacting him again.

It was easier to take his dick after the first few days. It was just painful and irritating the first few times.

Found it strange that he couldn't find anyone when this entire state, country, and world is littered with young crossdressers needing a strong, masculine dom.

As far as the relationship thing, it happens to me all the time, so I can't blame him. Chemistry and feelings don't need make sense to hurt you either way.

>>7857038
>I don't have any means of contacting him again.
You don't even know his name/facebook/skype/whatever?

Still like you said seems so weird that he has trouble finding someone since he seems like the type of person many femmes want, even if you don't consider his dick size.

>>7855967
>if you genuinely hold this view outside of the bedroom

i don't hold that view outside the bedroom.

>>7853608

I don't. If a guy isn't putting out he gets dropped.

>>7857011
>Choose the right lube, silicone >> water based
Or coconut oil, haven't tried with a real cock but it's now my favorite lube with any toys at least.