Bisexual having trouble feeling turned on by partner

>>7848829
>SLUT

>>7848829
> bisexuals
> experiencing love
Well memed my friend

>>7848829
>I can't feel 100% sexually attracted to him

>sometimes I do get turned on when things get hot and heavy between us

You seem confused.

>I find myself fantasizing about being with another woman sexually

No fucking shit, you're bisexual. Did you think your attraction to women would disappear?

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>>7848829
Hi friend, fellow Bisexual here. It's not that you are growing sexually dissatisfied with your current male partner, it's that the other half of your sexuality is craving a female partner right now. The more you ignore this the worse it will become. The best solution is to discuss with your male partner your bisexuality. Tell him you still love him immensely and are still sexually attracted to him but cannot be entirely sexually satisfied by one gender. If he cares about you and isn't overly possessive of you, attempt to try some form of a polyamorous relationship with him as your male partner, and a single other female partner to satisfy your needs with women. If anything, he will probably at least allow you to sleep with another woman on occasion when you need it. Just be completely open and talk about it. You can have both, Poly situations like this work best for us Bi's, that way everyone is happy.

>>7848855
>>7848874
Ignore the shitposting jealous fags that got heartbroken by someone Bi.

>>7848881
I am very confused yeah
I didn't think it would disappear but I would have liked if it shrunk down to almost zero instead of making things awkward between him and I

>>7848906
Ah I really don't want to do that, I'm wholeheartedly against it even if he was OK with it since it just feels a lot like cheating

If he was female all of this would be solved desu. I prefer female bodies a million times over to male ones but the issue is females don't have personalities I can fall in love with like males do

>>7848907
That's not how it works. You will always be attracted to women, not to mention men... you will naturally fantasize about other people besides your boyfriend. Trust me, he fantasizes about other people too. You don't magically stop being attracted to other people when you get into a relationship. It's just a matter of whether or not you act on that.

>>7848906
Ignore this fucking idiot. Heterosexuals and homosexuals are still attracted to other men or women while in a relationship. Bisexuals do not need to be "polyamorous" (whores).

>>7848906
retard advice

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>>7848914
It's not cheating if you talk about it with everyone, and everyone is consenting to it goofball. You just have reservations about trying it because we've been taught that anything beyond monogamy is bad/sinful/wrong.

So what happens when you break up with your guy for a woman, satisfy your sexual urges with a woman, then suddenly crave men again? You just gonna keep dumping people left and right instead of having a single partner of each gender? Doesn't that sound easier and less trashy?

>>7848922
>only dating exactly two people.
>whore

your the fucking idiot. You can't be Bi and be satisfied with a single partner of one gender, you'll have the need to sleep with the other gender too, that's what bisexuality is you cucklord, have fun telling people to remain repressed because of your dumbass standards.

>>7848920
Kek he likes to claim that he doesn't think about anyone else and when I mentioned that I still look at other women from time to time he got sort of mad
I'm pretty much 20% into men and 80% into women sexual speaking. Relationship wise I will always prefer males since they are more available and twice as likely to cultivate interesting personalities
But anyway this isn't the point of all this, my point is how do I get things fired up again? Should I just wait it out or are there techniques I could use to not cringe/feel neutral when he sex talks me?

>>7848936
Casually dating a few different people is one thing, but once you're actually "in a relationship" where it is serious and involves commitment, you have to pick just one person.

>You can't be Bi and be satisfied with a single partner
Actually you can. I am bisexual myself. I assume you are too. Unlike you though, I unerstand that homosexuals and heterosexuals ALSO are still attracted to other people during a relationship, just not as many.

>>7848941
>Kek he likes to claim that he doesn't think about anyone else
This is a bad sign to be honest. If he can't admit other girls still turn him on he is not really trusting you, or worrying too much that you don't trust him. Try to make him more comfortable with his own urges and he might become more comfortable with yours too, so long as he knows you only plan on actually fucking him. Why not go outside and scope out hot chicks together? Or even sit inside and watch porn together?

>are there techniques I could use to not cringe/feel neutral when he sex talks me?
Maybe he just isn't good at sex talking you. Try telling him to shut up and play with your pussy instead.

Tell your partner to cross dress.

>>7848963
Ah thanks for the advice, I should tell him to stop guilt tripping me and saying I don't find him attractive when I mention hot girls I would fuck
I don't find any male but him and the rare unicorns that I see once in a blue moon attractive so jealousy over other males isn't much of a thing
Is it normal for me to look at other girls and think of her in a non-sexual way too? Like for instance that I would like if I could hug a qt girl and lay my head on her chest

>>7848979
You're welcome. I hope you can sort him out. If he still seems to be jealous of the hot girls you want to fuck, no matter what you say, then just give him a really passionate blowjob to prove your point.

As for your question, that is a very normal desire and pretty fucking cute too.

>>7848992
I'll put my mouth to good use if it came to that heh
>>7848973
Tbh anon his body is pretty feminine already and could cross dress easily but his face is manly as fuck sadly enough
I'm glad he has the mannerisms of a girl too without the retarded derp I want attention 24/7 type of think
>when he tries his best to look qt and makes sad faces just to mess with me
HNNNNGGGGG

>>7848829
Stop masturbating.

>>7848829
sounds like you aren't attracted to him
woooooahhhh