Is it trans phobic if I want my partner to have a penis?
>>7839896
....What?!
Is it transphobic if I think automatic transmissions are literally hitler?
>>7839896
No.
But if say, you find out that cute boy you were hitting on is FtM, turn him down politely, you know, a simple "sorry, not interested". No need to go full on "YOU TRIED TO TRICK ME, YOU FILTHY TRANNY DYKE" or anything.