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I'm 22, bisexual guy. Well, I live in one of these homophobic countries in Eastern Europe.
(My English isn't great /I'm studying this language now/ but I hope you'll understand me and sorry for misspellings/wrong words)
I live with my gf. We've been together for 5 happy years now. Our relationship became more serious about three years ago.
I've always felt different. I found my bisexuality when I was 14-16 but always denied it. I've dated girls.
Then I had a lot of sex with men and I liked it.
Then I met her. Sometimes I think she's a bi too, (in her teens she had a best friend who definitely was a lesbian and and their friendship was [b]very[/b] warm) but she can't accept it or something.
I am not gay, I'm only 'gay' when I see pics of hot naked guys on Tumblr. But.
I'm attracted to girls, and I'm attracted to guys.
(I recently jerked off to a video where a girl masturbated and when she came, l wasn't cying but l had tears, it was like tears of joy or something = like WTF? Maybe someone had a similar experience?)
I feel like there's a feminine and masculine versions of my mind.
I DO NOT AFRAID TO BE A GAY AND It's not a fake relationship or kind of this. BEING BISEXUAL ISN'T THAT EASY AS MANY PEOPLE THINKS 'CAUSE FUCKING STEREOTYPES.
I'm not that gay guy who use a bisexual identity as a "halfway house" or a "halfway-there gay man". I love my girlfriend and she really turns me on. We have a healthy, enjoyable sexlife.
I really really love her with all my heart. I understand I can don't tell her because I like men only in sexual way and I can't even imagine a life with guy even in the case if the world wasn't homophobic, but I don't want to hide this important part of my identity from her. I don't want to build a family with lies.
But I'm really scared of her reaction. How to tell her?
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>>7815810
>(I recently jerked off to a video where a girl masturbated and when she came, l wasn't cying but l had tears, it was like tears of joy or something = like WTF? Maybe someone had a similar experience?)
Reading this and imagining some Eastern European accent is so cute.
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>>7815810
>l wasn't cying but l had tears, it was like tears of joy or something = like WTF?
this happens to me at random times too, i wouldn't think too hard about it
is there a way you can casually ask what she thinks about gays/bi people in general, or ask if she would love you no matter what, and then maybe lead into it from there?
in any case, i understand the desire to tell her but you should know that you are not obligated to. it's not a lie if you would tell her if she asked outright.
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Runglish is so cute
>tfw no Eastern European bf
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>>7815810
Just don't tell her, not everybody needs to know about your faggotry
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>>7815810
You don't need to tell her. You just created a problem out of nothing.
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