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19/Gay/M, I get a decent amount of guys who talk to me on Grindr and it's fine and all but the conversation usually stops within 15 minutes because when it comes time to go through with the commitment of making plans I lose all interest completely.
For one, almost every guy who would go out with me on a date is, like, at least 22 years old which I guess isn't that much but the idea of dating anyone who's done with college feels like a generational gap. I often find myself wondering "What the hell could this adult possibly find interesting about me [a kid]?" Additionally, even if I manned up and said ok let's get together there are so many things I don't know:
1. What is a good first date location and/or activity that does not include drinking?
2. How long should I plan for the date to last?
3. Should I to travel to him, or to tell him to come to me?
4. anything else I should know or do?
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>>7809058
1. coffee
2. 1-2 hours
3. meet there
4. nope
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>>7809058
As a 27 year old gay man I can tell you that 18-22 basically act the same except 21 drinks more.
1 Restaurant , mutual hobby, hiking.
2 In my experience these things time themselves.
3 either, mix it up if it keeps going.
4 safe sex practices, watch out for predators if you are pretty.
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>>7809058
im 21/Gay/M so not done with studies just yet, last year.
1. some park or reserve/ cafe dependent on the person really
2. 1 hour tops, dont make it drag on for too long desu.
3. travel to, but ask if he can travel to you first.
4. if you feel like he wont be interested in you as a "kid" you need to get that thought out, the guy appreciates your looks enough for a date, so you're already off to a strong start, think positive.
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