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If I am posting in the wrong thread or use incorrect terminology, I apologize in advance. I am curious if anyone else has been in a situation similar to my own. I am a long-term hetero-married male (10+ years). Before marriage I was extremely sexual, I just saw sex as an act of pleasure and explored it as such (male & female). In my young twenties, I rushed into marriage (i don't know why) and the first few years were good. But as time went by everything changed. No more open sexuality, anything deemed "gay" she is not into. No more bondage, no more, no more . . . No more sex at all. She says she doesn't have a sex drive. Now I do the work myself but always look up the "gay"stuff first. I know some will say divorce and that is a consideration, but I worry what that will do to my son. Tough it out until hes 18, bite the bullet and move on? I don't know, thanks for reading even if you don't comment.