Would you rather pass perfectly or not have dysphoria?

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>>7788046
I would prefer passing perfectly. It would eliminate my dysphoria if I looked completely like a cis girl and was treated as such by society.

>>7788046
Passing would remove all dysphoria anyway

>>7788046
Not having dysphoria and being a happy normal male would be nice but I have dysphoria and it's telling me I would rather pass perfectly.

>>7788046
not have dysphoria

i already pass

>>7788066
you can be seen as female and pass,
but your male aspects will never stop bothering you, and you'll never measure up to cis fems

pass perfectly, that would help me with my dysmorphia and low self esteem

>>7788046
she eats it like a man

>>7788074
>but your male aspects will never stop bothering you, and you'll never measure up to cis fems
Yes they will if I pass perfectly.

>>7788074
honest question: What if some of my male aspects don't bother me and others do? I hate being bulky and having lots of body hair (seriously I look like a slav mobster with my shirt off) But suddenly I'm having some thoughts about maybe I'm trans? I keep having dreams where I'm turned into a woman and I've always been able to shake them until a short time ago. Anyway that's not my point, if not all of my maleness bothers me but parts do is it still a possibility I have some gender identity issues?

>>7788074
That's not true actually. All I want is to ditch certain extremely obvious male features. Keeping my height, penis and above average foot size is totally a-okay with me. First and last are just androgynous on me and the middle has been my friend since I was a teenager.

How could I abandon a friend?

>>7788061
you'd be treated like a cis girl until anyone knew you weren't, then you'd just be treated like a pretty tranny

realistically no one is going to pick a tranny over a cis girl

>>7790727

why don't most trans grills understand this?

>>7790727
Being treated as a "pretty tranny" is being treated as a cis girl.

>>7790727
>then you'd just be treated like a pretty tranny
I am a pretty tranny, what is the problem here?

>>7788046
I like thinking about that being MY banana in her mouth. does that make me gay?

In all seriousness, if i had dysphoria, i would think passing perfectly would help. But i would also say, being comfortable with who you are to begin with would be preferred, That way you aren't miserable about something so awful. As a straight (unless you count bailey or sarina) dude, i have complete sympathy for people with dysphoria, because you guys, really have it bad. not even feeling comfortable in your own body day to day would make me want to die.

>>7790727
>> cis girls get prego.
>> transwomen can be prettier than Cis chicks, depending. and for me, depends on the bond.

>>7792156
>I like thinking about that being MY banana in her mouth. does that make me gay?
I'm afraid so anon. You're a fruit.

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>>7792167