Hey guys and gals. I'm having a quandary right now.
I can't attract women. I'm attracted to women, but I'm the worst. Like I repel them. I'm a good looking guy with a great job and I know I dress nice, but I'm stressed constantly. It repels women. They look at me like I'm crazy after a minute of conversation.
Swap women with men, I get like four hundred numbers a night. Last night, I went out with some friend for their shared birthday. Somehow we ended up at a gay bar, and I've never smiled so much in my life.
Everyone was awesome, I had fun, there was an obese girl dancing naked on the stage,I loved every bit of it.
The ISSUE:
I am sexually attracted to women and emotionally attracted to men. I am a man. I can only attract men. Am I gay? I'm so confused. I just want to be happy.
Do you want to have sex with a man? If so, you're gay.
Do you want to have sex with a woman? If so, you're straight.
Do you want to have sex with both women and men? If so, you're bi.
It's that simple.
>>7783340
Do you live in a cave? It's not at all that simple.
OP is asking the difference between emotional and physical attraction. It sounds like he was raised in a house full of women which I can relate to. I'd say you're not gay, OP, but gay men dig how you look and act with men.
>>7783327
id say ur just better at dealing with men. sounds like u got some preconditioned trauma with women
>>7783327
You say you smiled when you went to the gay bar. You don't have to be gay to go to the gay bar and have fun. From what I remember, gay bars are a place where you can go and be free of being judged.