there's a guy in interested in and I'm afraid he won't like me. I've got a plan to get with him but I just can't get past the fear of it all being for nothing
tell me this plan
>>7736432
1. Im having a person ask someone close to him if he's into guys
2. send him a valentine in class telling him he seems pretty cool and we should hang out some time anonymously
3. accidentally run into him sometime later and tell him it was me
>>7737812
Step 1 I understand.
Steps 2 and 3 I'd just cut for approaching him and having a conversation.
Also, just consider the idea that your feelings for him could be platonic and that, deep inside, you don't want these things to actually happen.
>>7737860
what do you mean by cut and have a conversation?
>>7736377
If he is half in the closet, the last thing he will want is to jump straight into a gay relationship after leaving the closet.
>>7737888
I'm barely put of the closet myself and I don't really know if I want to be public about it or anything.
>>7737812
I'd skip all of them and just sit by him and talk to him.
>1.
okay if you're shy I guess but just be gay bro
>2.
that never works
>3.
I don't believe you'd get though that conversation smoothly
>>7738403
I really don't know how to talk with him I've been looking for mutuals and there are literally none and he has no classes with me.
>>7738434
Sorry if you said this I can't see but is this high school or university level.
>send him a valentine in class
>in class
Like candy grams? I remember you could do this in high school
Do you think he might be gay based off what you've seen?
>>7738477
I'm in highschool ( I'm 18 don't ban). we used to do roses but they stopped. I do have a teacher that Said she'd deliver it for me though. I can't find anything on him. I don't think he has social media or anything. there aren't any real signs that he is into guys but he seems withdrawn and shy if that counts.
>>7738519
heh I figured it was some out spoken alpha male you were crushing on. I dunno shy and withdrawn does not say much. What's your group like you got some friends? You must be doing okay if you got a teacher to agree to that ie not a stuttering idiot.
Maaaaaybe go for it if you don't think sending a valentine would embarrass the shit out of him. I'd go up to him at his locker or something at lunch hour ask him if he wants to eat together.
>>7738568
I don't know if lunch would work. I don't eat with everyone else. I go to the art room with my group of friends
>>7738619
>I go to the art room with my group of friends
Shit I forgot I did this for a while
Does he eat with everyone else?
>>7738832
no clue. I haven't been to the cafeteria in ages
>>7738861
Well if hes shy I doubt it. Good luck with whatever you do.
>>7738885
okay thank you for the advice
>>7738519
oh yea and I forgot to mentire that someone asked one of his partners in one of his classes if he was homo and they said they don't know so I guess maybe that's something