Every fucking guy I meet online wants to tie me up like we're in some kind of rape scenario. Why is this so mainstream? Seems like it's practically expected that I want to be whipped or spanked or have my balls pulverized or call someone master or daddy, or vice versa.
I'm snuggly. I like fucking sometimes, gently, on equal terms. Kinks are fine, I can be kinky. Light bondage is fine if they're into it, whatever. But it seems like every other fucker wants to dress up in a full gimp suit and be led around on a leash while I piss on their feet and call them a whore.
I guess my question is, why is this shitty fetish so prevalent in America and where are all the people with more interesting or unique ones? It seems like even vanilla sex is a rare, taboo kink at this point.
Don't tell me it's because of fifty shades, even BDSM people hate that trash.
>>7735659
is this on tindr/grindr? whats ur sample size
also city?
>>7735659
>want NOTHING to do with BDSM
>Light bondage is fine
TRIGGERED
>people talk shit up about things they want to do
>let them
>can't even get me close to orgasm
Is it just me or does almost nobody know how to be physical
>>7737336
>I'm partially guilty for having a rather underactive sex drive.
I guess I can relate to this. I can more about the romantic aspect
>no one my age does or wants to ever get married
>>7736449
Awww... *pets the hissing KITTY*
>>7738431
>Falling for the marriage meme
You poor soul.
>>7735659
can i tie you up and tickle yu op\\\
I'm a kinda vanilla guy but my trap bf is super duper into BDSM
Never tried it before tbqh
any tips on how to try and get into it? i don't wanna disappoint him
>>7735659
>he thinks bdsm and humiliation are the same thing
>he doesn't get that there are different focuses on it