How do I know if I'm truly bisexual?

You are bisexual.

>I don't want to be bi, I want to be straight it seems so much simpler.

How even...? You have more options now, and you'll likely end up with a girl. If you end up with a boy, that's fine too.

>>7681653
By the way, kudos on your image of choice, it's the one thing that made me reply.

>>7681435

>Go to a Sauna
>Sit down
>Wait till other guys come in
>Shout

>BREEEEEEEDDDDDD MEEEEEEEEEEE

At the top of your voice

I literally did it today but no one took me up on my offer

If you're attracted to any guys at all, you're bisexual. It's okay though. Not all bisexuals have the same ratio of attraction between the sexes, so sometimes it's a little bit of one and a lot of the other, sometimes it's 50/50, and sometimes it's somewhere in between. You probably like girls more than guys, but you do still like guys, and should not be afraid to experiment a little.

>>7681653
With simpler I mean you only fall in love with girls and are only attracted to them, and being in a long term relationship with a girl just seems better. What if you want a kid and you're with a guy? A same sex relationship seems to complicate things.

>>7681669
Thanks, I like him too.

>>7681677
Yeah, I have heard that and you're probably right. Kinda spooks me out though. For some reason I want my first time to be with a girl, though. Probably since it's what I've always pictured.

>>7681727

It certainly is easier from a societal point of view to just get with a girl, but what if you find a man you love? Will you suppress your feelings just because of that? Don't do it. Love is precious, regardless of gender.

You can still have a quality life and even kids.

you just know senpai


you go, "hey, that's me!"

>>7681772
Yeah, I would probably not suppress my feelings, but it certainly would be easier if I could only fall in love with girls. I guess adoption is an option, but it's not the same thing.

>>7681923
And how do I just know?

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porn might not be a good indicator because sometimes it's not the people per se, but the general mood and the fact that two people are fucking added to the fact that you're probably horny by default and really want to jack off.

Ask yourself these questions and try to answer as clearly and honestly as possible.

-Have you ever found yourself looking at a guy and thinking "holy shit he's cute/ hot"?
-Has any guy ever made your heart flutter and your stomach twist from just talking to/ touching them?
-Do you fantasize about men often?
-Has a guy ever actually turn you on?

you're welcome

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>>7681435

bisexuality isn't real.
it is a form of being in the closet.
"i'm not gay! i'm bisexual!"
is what people scream when they are terrified of being outed.

it is also something people say when they want to create distance with a partner and continue cheating instead of making a commitment.
"we can't get married! i'm bisexual! i need to have sex with all the sexes! stop oppressing me!"

run from biscum.
they are the worst.

>>7682170

>yes but not "holy shit"
>no, but neither has a girl
>sometimes, but more often women
>yes

I don't really know what to make of this. Maybe that I'm a bit bi but leaning more towards women?

Thanks.

>>7682299
you sound bi, but I'm not you so I can't know for sure. You might want to take some time off to figure stuff out.

>>no, but neither has a girl
I guess you're young, given your answer. Things will get clearer with time. Might not be worth it to try and label yourself at this time

>>7682231
Yeah no, that's retarded and probably bait.

I'm bisexual and not at all afraid of being outed as gay. I would actually prefer it, I think, because it's easier to explain and more people accept it rather than go "Oh but you're not really bi, you're just straight and horny haha" and similar shit.

There are infinite ways to create distance that are better than that. Literally nobody without a severe dose of autism would use fake bisexuality to run from a marriage.

I have never seen a convincing argument for bisexuality being fake. Please share if you have one.

>>7681653
Eh, if you prefer women, women will judge you for being bi.

>>7682231

>I have had a bad experience (more likely no experience) with a bi partner.

>>7682332
I'm 19. I'm one of those people who want to know everything for sure, so stuff like this that you can't really know for sure bugs me. I hope it clears up and I agree, labels aren't very useful.

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all you humans are inherently bisexual so you're probably already

>>7681973


by just knowing

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>>7681435
>buysexual

OP, I struggled for ages with trying to pin down my sexuality, figure out if I was more attracted to this or that, if maybe I was more attracted to men but it was just easier being in a relationship with a woman, but fact of the matter is just that being bisexual means you're attracted to more than one gender/sex configuration. There is no test you have to take to be "bi enough", there's no limit to how many men you need to be into to qualify. You're bi. You can of course use different terminology to ease communication - I know people who use homo/hetroflexible because while it does happen, them being attracted to people who doesn't fit their usual scope of potential partners, it's rare enough that they're functionally straight/gay. If you are bi, but don't want to act on it for whatever reason, call yourself straight by all means, but that's not going to change how you experience attraction.

But honestly? Being bi is pretty awesome. I love to just revel in the fact that I find both men and women attractive, that I don't have to bargain with myself about trans people, that I can just surround myself in attractive people and be outspoken about the fact. There's some prejudice, but honestly? Biscum is best.

Also name of the person in your pic?

>>7682170
Don't forget that gay porn can be exciting and new if you do not regularly watch or fap to it. And you can sometimes bust a transgressive nut to it.

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>>7683768
>bust a transgressive nut

>>7683768
nohomo

>>7683853
nohomo indeed.

>>7681727
Adopt or foster. Fostering has awesome perks. $$$

>>7681727
>wanting kids
>guy
Pfffft, good joke their friend.

>>7682231
>100% real, live bait

>>7682299
Probs. Make a pros/cons list of being bi or not bi. Putting thoughts on paper might make it easier to make sense of.

>>7683630
Your pride is inspiring. I'm not trolling.

>>7681435
then just be fuckin straight dude
its about actions

>>7681435
Sounds like you are straight
just embrace what nature gave you

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>>7683630
>I struggled for ages with trying to pin down my sexuality, figure out if I was more attracted to this or that

What an incredibly important use of your time!
What a brave struggle!
You must be so proud to have conquered that difficult task!!
/sarc

>>7685597
No shit it was a waste of time. That's why I'm glad I got through it. What are you trying to achieve?

>>7684078
Thanks, anon. Embracing the identity has been awesome; comparing to a lot of other ID business I've had to deal with it was easy. It fesls right, I guess, makes it easy ti feel cool about it.

>>7681435
If you have doubts you arent.

i am attracted only to smaller guys who resemble females, or crossdressers.
on the other hand i fantasize about sucking cock and topping some twink on a daily basis.

am i bi?

>>7687017
Are you attracted to more than one gender/sex configuration?
If yes, then you are bi.

>>7681435
OKAY, kind of complicated but just follow along OP and do your best:

Does PENIS and CUM turn you on? Do you like throbbing CUM drenched dick? You are gay

You like bouncing boobs, wet tshirts, long beautiful hair, wet vag, and bubble butts? Straight

HAVE you at any point in your life liked both men and woman sexually? You are bisexual.