I need your Dating Advice NOW!

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I need your Dating Advice NOW! 2017-01-29 12:37:24 Post No. 7659472
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I need your Dating Advice NOW! Anonymous 2017-01-29 12:37:24 Post No. 7659472 [Report]

I'm a fag and went on a couple dates with Guy #1. We kissed twice and he expressed interest in pursuing a relationship with me. I agreed, and the ball seems to be set in motion.

Today I went out on a "friendship date" with Guy #2 who just got out of an extremely long relationship 3 weeks ago. I really really really like him. A lot. I potato'd out and told him I find him attractive and am into him hardcore. He told me he thinks I'm adorable and sexy and is interested in me, but it's way too soon since his last breakup. He indicated that there is potential in the future.

Should I continue seeing Guy #1? If Guy #2 decides he's ready to pursue a relationship, I would drop Guy #1 for him. Which would be pretty fucked up to do to him. If I end things with Guy #1 and Guy #2 decides he's never ready or just wants to be friends I might miss a great thing with Guy #1.

what do?

Anonymous 2017-01-29 04:41:39 Post No.7660666
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Anonymous 2017-01-29 04:41:39 Post No.7660666 [Report]

You sound like an awful person, and if karma exists, you'll get played just as hard as you're trying to play #1.

But to answer your question, if you'd be willing to drop #1 for #2, then no, you shouldn't continue on. You're not really interested in him - you just find him tolerable. You may learn to love him, etc., but chances are you'll break up because you're dissatisfied, or he notices the imbalance of power, feelings, etc.

Betty Spaghetti (ID: !.v.3/0/dNo) 2017-01-29 04:58:31 Post No.7660768
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Betty Spaghetti (ID: !.v.3/0/dNo) 2017-01-29 04:58:31 Post No.7660768 [Report]

I would keep dating him for now. It's not like you're cheating on him.
If someone he was way more crazy about came along he'd probably drop you too. That's just the way it goes.

Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:06:44 Post No.7660830
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Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:06:44 Post No.7660830 [Report]

>>7660666
jewish poster is right.

Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:10:06 Post No.7660855
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Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:10:06 Post No.7660855 [Report]

>>7660666
I'm not trying to play him though. As I said, if I did drop him it would be extremely fucked up and I'd feel like shitty person. Hence why I'm confused about the situation. And I don't just find him tolerable, I do have genuine feelings for him. There are many awesome things about him. I guess I just have stronger feelings for guy #2 and I think we mesh well better.

Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:12:08 Post No.7660870
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Anonymous 2017-01-29 05:12:08 Post No.7660870 [Report]

>>7660768
True, I'm not cheating him. We talked about continuing to date and see if it leads to a relationship, but we are still just dating. We're not boyfriends or anything and no promises have been made by either of us.

Anonymous 2017-01-29 08:49:22 Post No.7663790
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Anonymous 2017-01-29 08:49:22 Post No.7663790 [Report]

This is why I hate gay people so much.

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