How many people tru-bi here? >discovered I was bi when I

knew early on

>as a 12-year old kid looking at porn magazines, I liked looking a the guys as much as I did looking at the females
>15-develop a crush on my older brother's friend
>at same time develop crush on beautiful Italian girl in neighborhood
>confused about this
>16-develop crush on older neighbor
>get married. interest in guys never goes away

by my teens
got too much female socialization growing up with two sisters

>>7634484
I assume tru-bi is when you knew from a young age?
I fap to gay, straight, bi, etc. but I didn't figure it out til late through a combination of being like a 2.? on the kinsey scale and classic religious repression.
>>7634893
does this have anything actually to do with it, in all y'all's experience? I am a middle child of 3 with two sisters, and I always assumed it didn't have much to do with it

>>7634484
I started having sexual experiences with both boys and girls around 11 or 12, but I was confused about it for a long time, thinking I was gay then thinking I was straight. Didn't really know about bisexuality being a thing at all until a little later, maybe like 14ish?

>>7635184
>I am a middle child of 3 with two sister
Same here. I also grew up with loads of female cousins, my only male cousins were much older than me. I think female socialization really does have something do with it.

>>7635184

>doees this have anything actually to do with it, in all y'all's experience? I am a middle child of 3 with two sisters, and I always assumed it didn't have much to do with it

Well I was very close to my mom and my sis, and not very close to my father in my childhood.

Dunno if it has to do anything with it.

>>7635212
I have a shitload of cousins, but almost all of them are either much older or 5+ years younger because my parents are both the youngest sibling in their families and they had me relatively late. Literally all of the cousins who were closest to me in age, their grandparents were my aunts and uncles. and almost all of those few were female. the one who was male literally showed me how to masturbate, haha. he was a weird one and a "bad" kid, but evened out, became a dad, an Iraq sniper, and finally a heroin addict before he overdosed like a year ago.
I wish I understood him better, but his family is all pretty weird.

If your browser history is less or more than a 50% split of straight AND gay porn then you are not a true bisexual. End of story.

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>>7635257
rrriiiiight.

>try coming out as bi at 9 to 2 friends, i'm M
>one is like "nahh man"
>repress mode activate
>be 17 mayan end of the world 21/12/12
>hook up with guy on craigslist and lose virginity
>still rather repressy, hate myself
>be 19 realise I'm super bi, got girlfriend tho
>be 21 cheat and suck a randoms dick
>can't even have sex with men
>my gf has to strapon me every night basically I'm so horny

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>>7635342
wow, you sound like me.
at least you didn't get married.

>>7634893
>>7635184
>>7635233
>>7635212
Lucky, female socialization only turned you bi, not trans.

>>7635686
I'm still AGP, but yeah, glad I'm not trans.

>>7635768
That's interesting, I wonder how common AGP is in cis bi guys.

Sometimes I feel trans but I think I'm just AGP bi.

>>7634484
My first sexual experience was with a boy, at 12
My first crush was with a boy, at 11, then a girl at 12
My first kiss was with a girl, 16

Repressed my gay side hard

Then dysphoria hit

Then I transition

I no ditch girls and go for men, but only because I'm cock-hungry because all of this repression. I still like girls, tho.

My ideal mate would have to be bi

>>7638019
>repressed so hard
were you looking at gay porn?
Were you self projecting on females in porn / movies?

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>>7635785

Unfortunately, BLanchard thinks bisexuality is not a real thing, so he classified all bi trannies as AGP, even with higher levels of AGP than "transbians"...


New studies show this to be utterly incorrect.

Yet a new case of biphobia in the trans world.

Sigh, being trutrans and bi is depressing. Straight trans think I'm AGP, and AGP think I'm the queen of AGPs. I'm tired of all that shit

>>7638019
>My ideal mate would have to be bi
Why?
t. bi mtf who feels the same

>>7638058
>and AGP think I'm the queen of AGPs.
Wait what makes bi AGPs so special?

>>7635686
you can't be "turned" trans. it's a treatment for the neurological disorder gender dysphoria, which is caused by childhood trauma or socialization

unless you're talking about AGPs in which case yeah you can be converted lol

>>7638467
>gender dysphoria
>caused by childhood trauma or socialization

Ay carumba.

>>7638467
What sort of trauma should be avoided to stop a kid developing GID?

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>>7638050

I didn't self project. My favorite porn is bi porn, I also watch some gay porn and tranny porn. I don't like lesbian porn, hetero porn is somehow okay. I can identify as both ends of the fuck as long as the "intended partner" is hot enough for me.

Many times I just watch and fap/finger.

My sexuality is a bit weird, being bi and NON AGP. I know.

I'm so fucking bi. Also, that's one of the reasons why I might not get SRS (besides concerns about pleasure and not being candidate for other thing than a shitty colo-vaginoplasty), women are just more enjoyable if you happen to have a cock, even if that's not feminine at all lol.

That's why, despite I know I'm not an AGP, i've got some regrets. But, well, nobody said it had to be easy.

>>7638084

Emotional and sexual reasons.

I feel better connection with fellow bis, at an emotional level.

Also, it gives me the option to try all kind of threesomes and experiences without feeling bad for my partner. As long as my partner enjoys too, it's allright.

>>7638100

Most of them are pure "lesbians", they can't feel anything towards men, and this hurts them so bad, because it's the final proof they can't be "the women of their dreams". That's why the term "pseudobisexuality" was coined. They fuck men because it fulfills their fantasy, but they are disgusted by them and are unable to love them. Being bi is like the holy grail for them, since it allows them to stay lesbian while actually enjoying men and cocks. But since it's not on their nature, they can't but envy my sexual orientation, thus making me some kind of "magic unicorn" on their eyes.

>>7638820
I was pseudobi but then it turned into real bisexuality!

I'm a queen AGP!

>women are just more enjoyable if you happen to have a cock, even if that's not feminine at all lol.
I feel like this. If I'm with a woman I'd rather have a penis. But I'd rather have a real vagina and be with a man.

>>7634484
>Found out I was bi when I was 12
>Always had a thing for guys and girls
>Have crush on a guy
>Last crush was girl
>Jerk it to both gay and straight porn
>Want a bear to dominate me
>Want to be with a cute girl

>>7634484
>>7634893
>>7635686
Same here

I sucked my first dick at 13, and had had a few boyfriends and girlfriends before college. My last girlfriend I cheated on with a guy, worth it. Men just fuck better, but I'm not picky

>had my first gf at 12 and was completely okay with liking both guys and girls
>never once doubted it
>have had relationships with both men and women ever since

In the end I don't mind if I end up with a man or woman as long as I'm compatible with them.

>>7635257

My porn history is like 85% gay. I've dated 1 woman and no men.

>>7634484
Was aware I liked girls by the time I was 6-8 or so and watching Sailor Moon.

I just didn't outwardly label myself in school because god knows I didn't want to deal with that.

1 ex bf, 1 ex gf, and 1 ex that was thinking about transitioning but not sure where they are now.

Currently dating a guy for 4 years now, marriage imminent, infinitely grateful that I never told any of my family about any of my exes besides the dude, only was gonna tell them I'm bi if I was gonna marry a girl, now I don't gotta deal with the BS

Fucked a bi guy once with a strap on. It was absolutely amazing. Girls sometimes try to make out with me at parties but when I know for certain they are 100% straight and just doing it for fun I get mega turned off :/ I'm not the type for casual hookups anyway 2bh, the dude I fucked was my oneitis for a while though. Conquering that ass brings happy tears to my eyes to this day.

>>7638058
>9kb
why even bother?

>>7640222
first off, nice trips
second, haha Sailor Moon made me feel funny things I didn't understand right around then. That and Roxanne from a goofy movie and the water cavern scene from Fern Gully
third, god I wish my wife would plow my ass with a strap on. She gets nothing out of it. Any tips?

>>7640222
>Fucked a bi guy once with a strap on. It was absolutely amazing.
How are strap ons for the woman?

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>when identified as bi with 18
>where a lot of signs i was a half faggot before
>likes women more than men
>likes faggy, feminine men more than normal and masc men
>fap mostly with het, les and trap porn
>mainstream gay porn is bad but amateur gay porn is better than straight amateur porn
>i want a family and i can be faithful
>i don't want to marry with a men unless he is so feminine i can't consider him a man

i am tru-bi and i am dirty, filthy breeder?

>>7647217
You're straight.

>>7641654
Do you mean a woman using a a strap-on with a woman or with a guy?

I'm a woman and use a strap-on with my husband. It really does nothing for me but he enjoys it.

>>7647306
I was thinking with a man, guy, but with either really. Would it matter?

The other anon said it was amazing for her to fuck a guy with one, yet it does nothing for you.

>>7634484
All bi men:
1. "I top with girls, I bottom with guys"
2. "I like girls in every way, I only like to suck dick with guys"
3. "I like girls, and girly guys"
4. "Girls are too hard, guys are easy"
It's always at least one if not a combination of those four things.
Also, just for your information, don't advertise yourself as "bi" to gay guy's thinking it'll make them want you more, and then be a bottom faggot, or only want to suck their dick. Any gay guy who actually finds pseudo-straightness appealing doesn't want to stick his dick in you, he wants you to stick his dick into him.

>>7647331
>"I top with girls, I bottom with guys"
I'm AGP, what am I supposed to do!

>"I like girls in every way, I only like to suck dick with guys"
I like girls sexually and guys romantically.

>"I like girls, and girly guys"
I want to be the girly one, so manly guys pls.

>>7647331
>3. "I like girls, and girly guys"
you got me

>>7647335
There's no use in you going after guys then.

NOTE TO ALL BI MALES

If you fit into the categories listed in this post >>7647331 There is no use in you coming out as bi, because no gay guy will want you anyways.

The only valuable bi male is one who is a masculine top who generally prefers males over females, both physically and romantically (although there are plenty of filthy gay sluts who don't care if you like them as long as they get your cum). But I'm mostly talking about dating. This is maybe one out of every 100 bi males, so most of you really should just stick to girls. All your doing is flooding the gay dating pool with non-committal bottoms, and pressuring the more femmy fags to become trans to appease you.

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>>7647364
>pressuring the more femmy fags to become trans to appease you.

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>>7647331
>"I like girls, and girly guys"
>"I top with girls and girly guy, but bottom with masc guys"

>>7647371
that is hawt.

>tfw no ealry HRT trans girl gf.

>>7647364
>There's no use in you going after guys then.
Why not? Please! I want a manly boyfriend who makes me feel like a girl!

>>7647442
I mean, if you're really attractive, you can choose to steal away a quality top from a faggot who has no other options, despite having other options yourself. It's kinda mean, but you don't really owe the world anything, so it doesn't matter if it's mean.

A big part of my point was that there's no use in a bi guy advertising himself as such unless he's a masc top. If you're anything else, there's no benefit in making it known you're bi to a potential male partner outside of casual conversation. It seems bi guys use it as a way to gain brownie points with gay guys, but it only gets you brownie points if you're appealing to the actual reason why any gay guy would find "bi-ness" appealing. Which is that they find pseudo-straightness appealing because they want to be treated like a girl.

>>7647420

Sauce?? For um research

>>7647468
If he wanted to keep his top he should have been a better bf! Anyway I'm not really attractive but I have my personality.

I get what you mean about not mentioning it. I'd rather date a masc bi top like than than a gay guy anyway really. We could admire girls together.

>Which is that they find pseudo-straightness appealing because they want to be treated like a girl.
That's what I want as a bi from a boyfriend.

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>>7638481
Actually it's "ay caramba!" Bart fucking teaching people bad Spanish why I oughtta...

>>7647331
It's scary how accurate this is.

>>7647364
>There is no use in you coming out as bi, because no gay guy will want you anyways.

Bullshit. I fit three of those and have no problem finding gay guys for fun.

>>7647364
I found a gay guy happy to top me but I guess he isn't really looking for commitment he's just fucking me while his boyfriend's away (he claims the boyfriend is aware of this and okay with it I dgaf) anyway what can I say he's faggier than me and into drag but also way more built and a former judo champion apparently. Besides I like being a sub, so... idk if I want to fuck men and see where it goes from there is it really problem? I've never had a crush on a guy irl but I could see myself having a comfy poly fuckbuddy male roommate
>>7647420
No, that pic is hawt, seconding request for sauce and uncesored benis

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>tfw don't like men
>tfw don't like women
>tfw don't lik boobs
>tfw don't like dicks
>tfw don't like vaginas
>tfw like feet and necks
>tfw like humans
>tfw get called a breeder or a closet case

>>7647520
nobody gives a fuck beaner. don't you have some borders to hop?

>>7648235
I'm from fucking Ohio and I'm white as hell. Learn to take a joke, sperglord.

>>7647217

you're bi.

If you explored your sexuality a bit, with patience, you'll find that you may like a broader range of men.

t. A bi femguy

>11/12 years old
>successfully jack dick (to straight porn)
>get boner from dude
>jack dick to man
>hell yeah

Mine is a lot more boring.

When I was about 16 I had the random thought "would I fuck a dude?" Then I watched gay porn for about a week and came to the conclusion that I would.

I had just never considered it I guess.

>>7647318
I assume it's a mental thing for girls. If they don't find it hot it's not going to do anything for them.

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>>7650339
already is happening, with the time i accept myself there's more men i like, i'm a kinsey 2/1.5 and i can be attracted to masc men if they are VERY handsome, are young, etc.

>>7655599
Wow, he's hot but that outfit SCREAMS "please beat the shit out of me"
>also nice digits

>>7634484

I knew very early on

>began to develop romantic and sexual feelings towards both genders in my early teens
>remember pretty distinctly crushing on this one kid in school
>we were around thirteen at the time
>this is going to sound really fucking cliched but it was his eyes
>he had these intense deep brown eyes
>they were beautiful
>yet I remember how, by the next day, I could be just as infatuated with a girl
>remember reading some article online mentioning that this was just an adolescent phase
>something you would just grow out of
>but for me it wasn't
>puberty eventually hit
>began to develop sexual attraction to both men and women
>I was your arch-typical hormonal teenage boy I guess, albeit a relatively awkward one
>sexually I was very much attracted to both genders
>not really understanding the whole concept of bisexuality at the time, this led to a lot of confusion
>I would go through these periods where I thought I was either gay or straight
>I know it sounds stupid but the notion that you could be attracted to both men and women was never really discussed by anyone I knew
>I was vaguely aware of the concept but I dunno, I guess there was always this gay-straight dichotomy whenever the issue of sexuality came up
>you were either one or the other
>it wasn't until I was sixteen or seventeen that I began to comprehend that yeah, it's completely fine for someone to be attracted to both genders
>it's really not that big of a deal

>>7658159
I wish I was that cleanly a Kinsey 3.
Then I wouldn't feel any shame at saying I'm bi but more generally attracted to women

>realised I liked guys when I was 12
>Came out as gay to my friends
>Thankfully nobody gave a shit
>Realised a week later that I still liked girls
>"Guess I'm straight"
>Tell my friends it was a mistake
>Que 6 years of suppression
>Date girls, lose virginity to a girl, sleep around
>Masturbate to gay porn every now and then but convince myself it's just a "thing" or a "fetish"
>18, come out as bi to my best friend whilst were on holiday together
>Spend another 2 years confused, don't sleep with anyone because I'm still not sure if I'm gay or bi or what
>Meet a qt femme guy from tinder when I'm 20
>Fuck him on the third date
>Fall in love
>We're still together

Who else wholesome here

>>7634484

Bump