I live in a pretty conservative area and I am pretty hesitant about coming out. I don't want to risk losing any of my friends but I've never been in a real relationship and kinda wanna try it out and I feel like if I say I like guys people will be interested. what should I do?
Kill yourself.
>all those gay guys that are like you, dateable but closeted morons
>>7630581
Accept that you'll have to risk living as a social pariah for the rest of your life (assuming you won't get stabbed) if you want to have a boyfriend.
>>7630581
You ever tried dressing up nice, going to a club, and having a dance with a GIRL?
Your only gay because you don't have the balls to approach women
man up.
>>7630581
Depends on exactly where to live. If your living in the deep south America than you might be fucked. I would suggest moving to a different area honestly if you can. Move to California if you live in America. You will be safe from Trumps rain of terror. And conservatives are few and far between.
>>7630639
I just really don't want to be grouped with all the other gay guys in my area. they're all fruitcakes and I don't want people to look at me and think I'm with them
>>7630746
/pol/ pls go
>>7630772
I live in Maryland which is a pretty liberal state. However, I live in a small Trump zone.
>>7630774
Well being known as a fag drastically increases your chance of finding someone (or getting stabbed) so you'll have to find a way to remain closeted yet still be able to meet gay guys.
>>7630792
Move to a different county then.
>>7630746
>>>/pol/
>>7630801
how would you even do that?
>>7630746
truly "manning up" = realizing that logically it makes more sense to be with a man.
OP, download grindr and don't have your face in your profile. Or just get buff or carry a knife or something. Befriend accepting scary black women. idk
>>7631104
isn't grindr just hookups?
>>7630581
>I don't want to risk losing any of my friends
If they reject you for being gay they were never your friends.
>>7631627
I guess your right but I just don't want to lose them. some of them know and they're ok with it though