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Mostly unsure because I havent felt this way until recently. I'm 18, average nonreligious family for background.
Over the past year I've felt much different, mostly because I think I found males attractive. It was kinda small at first but it's developed so much, I dont even think about girls anymore.
I just never felt this way until recently, I thought I liked girls, although to be fair, I dont think I've ever had romantic feelings towards women before, at least anything as strong as I'm having right now. Just thinking about someone, kissing him, touching his stubble, cuddling against his chest etc. makes my heart feel like it's pounding out of my chest and I get intense butterflies in my stomach.
Sexually I used to watch some straight porn (never lesbian though) but when these feelings hit I switched to gay porn. I didnt like it as much but the submissive role turned me on and getting fucked or sucking dick turned me on more than before. Stopped watching porn since though, still get the feelings..
Full disclosure, I've had self confidence problems about my body and masculinity since I was 14, I'm like 6'3 but I weigh 149, feel I've never been as masculine as I should. I mean, I used to imagine myself having a wife a few years ago, however I don't anymore.
I'm just so unsure about all of this, it just came out of nowhere I think. I dont know what I should be really feeling.
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Hey man, i know that feel. I didnt figure this shit out till 19, so your not far off. I know the feelings you talk about, and truthfully, there is no need to rush and label yourself. You have time, so think about what you feel. Dont let it scare you. And just live life normaly. Dont obsess. Look for a guy, try some online shit, but there is no need to rush. Just keep your cool and find yourself, and then maybe someone to cuddle with. Its hard to wait, but god damn is it so worth it
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Thats cute af. Is that someone open for a relationship with you, it would be nice if you two ended up being together
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If your uncertain: take your time (no need to rush) and find someone to talk to. Other then that i dont have much good advice.
Just keep calm i gues.
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>>7620610
maybe..
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>>7616204
that sounds pretty gay to me, OP. if you think about it, being straight is basically considered the default in our society, it's normal to think you have crushes on the opposite sex or whatever until you actually find out what attraction feels like. but still, you don't have to label yourself with anything yet if you don't want to.
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don't stress it to much just don't be afraid to explorer things and find out what you like and don't like you'll figure out eventually just do what makes you happy
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>>7622844
just feel scared a bit..
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>>7616204
Okay here's what you do:
Realize that whether you are gay or straight or bi, it really doesn't fucking matter. Getting over the self hatred you probably have for possibly not being straight...while painful...will lead to a happier life in the end. It sucks at first to no longer be 'normal' but...you probably sucked at being normal anyways if you are anything like me. Its time to drop the farce.
Now that thats out of the way, watch some porn and see how you react. Again, try to let go of your self hatred. If you like guys in a sexual way, that is OK. If you like girls too, that is OK. If you like trans people, that is OK.
You are too uptight OP, just be who you are. Enjoy what you enjoy without guilt.
TBQH though, I think you are bi. That's OK though. Have fun buddy.
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>>7616204
take hrt
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>>7625527
i like being a guy tho
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Married to a woman for 15 yrs and happy, but I've been having some overwhelming urges to come out...I've been plenty of men even while married and now I need that connection in a more real and open way. I don't want a divorce because I love my wife and don't want to emotionally be with anyone else, and even thought I'm still sexually attracted to her, I need men to help fulfill my sexual desires. I need some advice.
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>>7626225
lol you're fucked
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>>7626225
don't cheat on your wife numbnuts. depending on how she'd take it, it might be a good idea to tell her what you've been doing and see if she understands, but i wouldn't recommend that.
if she's really not enough to satisfy you even emotionally, maybe you should think more about a divorce (unless you have kids?)
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