Need help with gay friend.

>>7613372
Ps earlier messages was me trying to let him get the picture of me not really being intrested, but I don't feel I like I can give a string no without him freaking out

>>7613372

You don't owe him anything, and frankly if he's just coming out he has to learn that just because he likes a guy doesn't mean they are obligated to have sex with him. This is one of the first lessons a young gay must learn. Props to him for admitting his feelings and props to you for caring as a friend and handling it maturely thus far, but it's just like any other crusher/crushee situation--it doesn't always work out. Ask him if there was a girl who felt strongly about him and he wasn't into her because he's gay how would he feel? Then make the parallel that that's your situation. Hopefully he gets the point.

>>7613372
I'd his advances make you uncomfortable tell him in no uncertain terms "I want to be your friend, but your advances make me uncomfortable. Please stop."

If he is a good friend he will respect your boundaries.

If he doesn't stop it may be time to cut ties.

>>7613423
>>7616434

these are both good advice for OP.
If you don't establish boundaries with him it is likely to get worse. His advances may become more overt, and his heartbreak will be.greater in the end.
It is also more likely the longer you take the more.likelt you will end up. Not being friends.

If tou value his friendship You need to make your boundaries clear to your friend

>tfw I used to be the autistic New Gay

Yeah man, just be firm like one of the other anons suggested. You're not curious though? It's cool if you're not, I'm just a fag so I'd be like "yeah I'll kiss ya"